Okay instead of one, it was actually two of them. I thought telling even their real names was supposed to be kept under wraps for security reasons.
Anyway, the whole purpose of me going to a strip club was to get myself out of my comfort and do things I don't normally do or often do. I mean, I've been to strip clubs before, but I would always enter and leave without sitting down for very long. So, that night I decided to go out to a strip club was on a weekday when the club was slow? I went in and sat down. Then one came up to make and tried really hard to press me into letting her give me a lap dance, but I didn't get in so easily so she left. Then later another girl comes by and we end up talking for a good while. She told me about her kids and how she's has another job and stuff. She even told me her real name and showed me her driver's license to prove it after I was curious if it was her real name or not. Also during conversation of about 30 or so minutes not once did she try to pressure me into buying a lap dance. She was totally cool and chill about talking to me. Then her friend came over to join us and we talked some more. Although after that I bought the stripper girl and her stripper friend some drinks. Hmm, I spent mostly money on drinks and later bought one double lap dance, that's it. One of them even bought me a shot after the lap dance.
I'm still trying to understand what happened. I guess maybe going in with no expectations and not doing creepy things helped? I don't know. They could have been spending most of their last couple hours selling dances to other guys. But instead they wanted to chill with me and drink.
I just really wondered if these were the kind of girls I could be friends with outside of the club and maybe even more? I don't have a fantasy of going to strip club's. If anything I think that most strippers are shallow, or so I used to think that I suppose... I even once dated a girl that was a former stripper. Hmm...
Anyway, the whole purpose of me going to a strip club was to get myself out of my comfort and do things I don't normally do or often do. I mean, I've been to strip clubs before, but I would always enter and leave without sitting down for very long. So, that night I decided to go out to a strip club was on a weekday when the club was slow? I went in and sat down. Then one came up to make and tried really hard to press me into letting her give me a lap dance, but I didn't get in so easily so she left. Then later another girl comes by and we end up talking for a good while. She told me about her kids and how she's has another job and stuff. She even told me her real name and showed me her driver's license to prove it after I was curious if it was her real name or not. Also during conversation of about 30 or so minutes not once did she try to pressure me into buying a lap dance. She was totally cool and chill about talking to me. Then her friend came over to join us and we talked some more. Although after that I bought the stripper girl and her stripper friend some drinks. Hmm, I spent mostly money on drinks and later bought one double lap dance, that's it. One of them even bought me a shot after the lap dance.
I'm still trying to understand what happened. I guess maybe going in with no expectations and not doing creepy things helped? I don't know. They could have been spending most of their last couple hours selling dances to other guys. But instead they wanted to chill with me and drink.
I just really wondered if these were the kind of girls I could be friends with outside of the club and maybe even more? I don't have a fantasy of going to strip club's. If anything I think that most strippers are shallow, or so I used to think that I suppose... I even once dated a girl that was a former stripper. Hmm...
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