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The German woman is well-dressed, educated, and extremely aggressive in pursuing career goals, oftentimes outpacing her male counterparts by wide margins (with the help of radical affirmative action policies, of course). Neofeminism has taken a firm hold of Germany, and the attitudes of the female population reflect this “emancipation.”

Despite varying degrees of physical attractiveness depending on region, the typical German woman is bland and boring, completely lacking originality and flavor. Do not expect to laugh with a German girl or enjoy a home cooked meal. German women tend to look, act, and dress the exact same; if you’ve met one, chances are, you’ve met them all.

From my experience here, there are two types of women in Germany: club rats and office ghosts.

The club rats are typically young students (18-25) and spend at least three days per week snorting amphetamines and taking home random Turks or Africans from clubs. Being an articulate, well-educated Westerner is not an advantage at all, even if you can speak the language fluently; neofeminism has convinced them they must prove they are not Nazis (a subconscious result of German post-war guilt) by sleeping with 10 off-the-boat immigrants per weekend. It’s important to note, however, that being an American doesn’t put you into this category.

Office ghosts tend to be attractive, young professionals with tolerable personalities, yet are extremely difficult to find in a social setting outside of work. You'll find a lot of them a Rewe grocery store (one of the more expensive stores, often frequented by young professionals) or book store. Keep in mind, this group still possesses a cold, skeptical, and distant personality when approached by a stranger, so keep your expectations low.

Time after time, I've asked myself why I never had a girlfriend, and why I kept being rejected offhand by every girl I ever attempted to approach. And the answer I kept coming up with, time and time again, was that they didn't want me- that I just wasn't good enough or special enough for those girls, or indeed for any girl, to be interested in me, no matter how caring and considerate I was. Being myself was enough to be a "nice guy"- nothing more. So I devoted all of my time and efforts to becoming worthy, being good enough and being able to prove that I was good enough.

I was already a genius (IQ of 178- still not good enough, compared to my older brother's score of 190), incredibly fit, healthy, and skilled at everything I was interested in. I've competed with future Olympic athletes, won awards for my creative writing, mathematics, artwork and MMA, taken on bullies, thugs, muggers and would-be rapists to defend strangers and won every fight. I practise meditation, and work in a public kitchen whenever I can spare the time. I founded and ran my own PLC as its CEO for more than five years, winning international acclaim and awards for my work. I've proven myself, time and time again. But I'm still getting told by everyone, including my own family and friends, that I'm "not good enough" for anyone- that no-one will ever love me, because I'm not worthy.

Nothing I could do, nothing I could ever be, was ever enough to make the grade, even with the plainest girls I could find. The only girl who ever approached me was morbidly obese (240lbs, 5'4", 16yrs old), and she told me to my face that she only wanted to go out with me "because you're EXOTIC- you're half-black and half-indian, so I can tick both off the list!" So, what's a guy worth to you? What would a guy have to possess, have to be and have to prove to you in order to be deemed "worthy" in your eyes? Can any guy in the world ever be considered "worthy" of you, or of any other woman? Or are you unattainable?