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When Alarah met Xander, it was brief, however with each day passing, the more they saw one another and the more their eyes lit up in each others presence.
Xander was rather an unhappy man in his "marriage" even though he loved his wife, however.

Alarah brought out the very best in him. Made him feel confident and desired. How attractive that is, in a woman, and boy did he know it. However, "sex" was his main goal. So he asked her if she had wanted a one-night stand but her response was always a suttle "no". Alarah was definitely attracted but she learned how to respect him and his wife and though she wanted him she had to stand up and put her foot down.

Of all qualities, Alarah admired Xander's honesty, and him being straightforward, his protective instincts and this made her start falling for him, very quickly. They almost reached the follow through with the one night stand but they both talked themselves out of it.

It was on a steady night, Xander allowed himself to kiss her and she allowed herself to kiss him back.
The kiss started very slowly and as their lips pressed against one another, a few seconds went by, and Xander became excited. He moaned a "mhm" and shook his head in approval. To at which the kiss ended.

At that point, Xander lost all control.
He had to kiss her again, as he did and wanted to take her to bed. "Come, on." he urged. Yet Alarah, still denied his effort.
"Not, yet." she spoke softly.

The nights after became the change.
They no longer looked at each other, smiled or flirted with one another. Their silence spoke volumes Alarah no longer understood.

As for Xander, he allowed himself to come over one time to give her company knowing nothing were to happen. A deep story was told that brought guilt and sadness within him, he had to leave.

Alarah wonders, on her own now. As she realizes everything is different. He no longer comes over, he no longer really speaks to her through social media, he has become absent.

sorry for the crap quality this was taken on a computer 😂

Think:
Vintage high waist Levi's
Dr. Martens
Black ripped skinny jeans
Oversized vintage sweaters (usually plain and in neutral colors)
Basic boyfiend-fit tees
Also no makeup-other than a barely-there lipstick, and my hair is cut very short.

I also major in art history at an elite art school so I'm often writing, researching or working somehow (so I like to have a comfortable "uniform" going on).

I also do buy certain things from the guy's section, often sweaters (which are better quality and cheaper). I even have this denim jacket and have seen some guys with the same one.

However, for the (rare) night out, I get out the black dress and berry lipstick with flats or heels. As you see, either way I keep things simple.
I do love nail polish, in white, red, blues.

I used to not mind, as it's just my personal look, but now I'm starting to wonder if that's why guys are reluctant to approach me. Some of them look at me, even those that I think are attractive, but they don't say anything. This has happened to me for a while. What do you think?

Also, I'm black, so I don't know if that has influence (and most black girls that I know dress up every day).