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Here is a story where the past isn't always the past and the person who was lied to (and was a virgin at the time) broke it off:
https://www.loveshack.org/forums/general/general-relationship-discussion/529243-fair-break-up-after-she-lied-about-her-extensive-past

Cliff:
-Guy breaks up after finding out girlfriend lied about her past sexual life.
- Girl was secretly talking about their him to her friend and about taking his V-card back then.
- Guy was obviously devastated and can't ever see her the same way.

Obviously this concerns women with large breasts, but I guess I'll take other answers as well out of curiosity.

Let's say you recently got into a relationship with a guy and so far he is absoletuly great. He is physically good looking, he is smart, he makes decent money, and most of all, he treats you VERY WELL. He makes you feel like the freakin 8th wonder of the world.

He treats you better than girls he dated before because you are (finally) exactly his type physically -> huge breasted. A type that is hard to find because it accounts for only a small percentage of the female population. And he knows it. Finding another girl like you would be difficult. (I'm not saying he only cares about that, but it's the cherry on top of the cake that puts you above all his previous girlfriends)

PROBLEM: Just before meeting him, you wanted to get a breasts reduction and you just told him. He's devastated.

QUESTION: Considering how he has been making you feel lately (pretty good), would you reconsider having surgery?

My standards for finding a girlfriend:
-She must work hard at school or at least take it seriously
-She must want more out of life than just trying to scrape by (living paycheck to paycheck)
-She must be kind, intelligent, and just have good morals and good common sense.
-She cannot have the "YOLO" state of mind.
-someone who can listen as well as speak up for what she believes in
-Being humble and just a nice person in general is always a plus.
-A woman who doesn't play games
-A woman who can stick up for herself
-A woman who can stay loyal and can keep my trust.
-I like to stay active whether it being going to the gym or just going for a hike I would like a girl who does the same
-I like to keep my body in great shape. I'm not saying she has to be muscular or stick thin, just fit or in good physical shape.

My shallow standards for finding a girlfriend:
-I believe beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
-Don't get me wrong, a girl doesn't have to look like Jennifer Lopez or Megan Fox
-She just can't look like a horse or like a horse walked over her face.
-It's hard to describe beauty with words.
-I can't be with someone who is curvy, has a few extra pounds, or at an otherwise unhealthy weight.

-A woman who longboards and is good at it is always a huge plus.

I don't think my standards are too high. Let me know in the poll below if I should lower my standards, raise them, or keep them the same.
I'm not one to hold double standards. When I say all of this I would expect a woman to expect it of me as well. I will hold these standards to myself and I already do.