Girls, Could a man save you from breasts reduction?

[JohnBelluci]

Obviously this concerns women with large breasts, but I guess I'll take other answers as well out of curiosity.

Let's say you recently got into a relationship with a guy and so far he is absoletuly great. He is physically good looking, he is smart, he makes decent money, and most of all, he treats you VERY WELL. He makes you feel like the freakin 8th wonder of the world.

He treats you better than girls he dated before because you are (finally) exactly his type physically -> huge breasted. A type that is hard to find because it accounts for only a small percentage of the female population. And he knows it. Finding another girl like you would be difficult. (I'm not saying he only cares about that, but it's the cherry on top of the cake that puts you above all his previous girlfriends)

PROBLEM: Just before meeting him, you wanted to get a breasts reduction and you just told him. He's devastated.

QUESTION: Considering how he has been making you feel lately (pretty good), would you reconsider having surgery?

No one could ever change my perception of my body, so no

Maybe, it depends on how great he is

Yes, If he thinks my body is amazing, I see no point in butchering it

I don't know, my breasts are smaller than D cup

[Anonymous]

This thread makes me sad. It's clear to me that most women who want breast reductions don't want to take the time to research solutions. Altering the body so drastically should always be the last resort.

I am a large breast lover, and would like more women to feel comfortable with what they were born with. Before getting a breasts reduction please try a couple of things first.

1.) Wear the proper sized bra. Over two thirds of women wear the wrong sized bra. This can cause a lot of pain plus many problems that can become very serious if done for a long period of time.
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2.) Physical Therapy. Women are typically weaker than men. One could argue genetics but really its because what each gender focuses on at the gym. In my college gym class only about two women in the entire class could do a single pull up. Thus I've noticed that women care more about cardio than strength training which is actually more beneficial to weight loss but that's for another post. Point is you need muscles to support a large bosom. A strong core, back, chest, and shoulders are crucial to support the weight of breasts at any size. Not to mention posture and flexibility, yoga or pilates can help exponentially.

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3.) I can't find anything that fits! First, if you wear the right sized bra your breasts will look a lot smaller. My girlfriend who is a 32H cup had this problem a lot when she was wearing 32DDD bras. Now she fits much better in to a lot of clothes, she still can't fit everything though lol. But large bras are expensive! Retail outlets can be pricey, which is why I went on eBay and found really good bras in her size for less than $20. She finds them very supportive and comfortable as well. Last stop faulting yourself for having large breasts. It is the clothing brands that should change to accommodate bustier women, offering a wider variety of sizes. It's not cool how large breasts can a lot of times mean plus size in the fashion world. They should change, not the consumer.

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[CommieDearest]

If a guy treated me better just because he thinks I'm hot and not because there's something special about my personality then I'm not interested. I would be happy that he showed his devastation so that I could see clearly that he is shallow and thinks he should have some kind of say over my body. Great info to have.

[CommieDearest]

Didn't expect mh on this one. Thanks.

[JohnBelluci]

I gave you MHO because you reminded me something important about ego.

[CommieDearest]

Well glad I could help

[snowangle]

Personally I'm a C cup so I can't answer, but my best friend is a 32F and I know nothing could change her mind about getting a reduction. She has such bad back problems due to her breast size, she can't wait to get them reduced as soon as she can afford it.

[Anonymous]

Save me? Do you mean talk me out of doing an important decision just because he is selfish and doesn't understand my point of view?

I already had a breast reduction. Best decision of my life. If he feels "devastated", he can leave and I won't care. I don't want a guy who would put more value on me because of my cup size.

[JohnBelluci]

Yeah. Too bad there is no surgery to remove your aggressivity...

[Opinion Owner]

So because I shared my opinion in a blunt way I'm aggressive? Too bad there is no surgery to give you more brain cells :D

[JohnBelluci]

"I already had a breast reduction. Best decision of my life."

that was the "neutral" and interesting part of your answer. The rest is some sort of butt-hurt garbage.

[Opinion Owner]

No. The rest was my answer to your question, and also why I think the way I do.
Your comments are butt-hurt garbage. This is my opinion. You asked this question, so if you can't handle different opinions, maybe you shouldn't ask questions.

[Littlett25]

Well usually the girls with big breasts aren't just getting reduction just for no reason. Usually there's problems that come with large breasts, like back pain. If I had huge breasts I'd still get a reduction if i was in pain, no matter how well you treat me.

[Bards]

If my breasts are getting in the way of my daily life and are giving me back pain then yes. If not then I'll consider it.

[JohnBelluci]

if they're not getting in your way and not giving you pain, why would you even think about reducing them in the first place?

[Bards]

Because most women dont like the look of sagging breasts.

[9mfeo]

I'm already considering a reduction. Why? Because my breasts are so large it's deforming my spine. There is nothing more important to me than my own health and well-being.

[lizz504]

Are u going to take the back pain away to