Guys, do guys care if a girl gets a breast reduction?

[Anonymous]

Hi. I'm a 15yr old girl who has been having major backpain due to my chest size. I've been looking into some options in order to reduce them, but it seems as if my only options are getting a surgery or losing weight. I'm already at a very healthy, lean weight, so if I lost any more pounds, I'd be really weak. I'm in immense pain, and I can't fit into a lot of the clothes I want. The only thing keeping me from getting the surgery are the scars, which are insanely noticeable and pretty big. I don't want this to tear down my confidence if I'm ever dating a guy and they mention how ugly it looks etc.

I'm wondering what your opinions are about this. Thanks.

Yes

No

[TheSpaceGnome]

Yes, but probably not for the reason you are thinking.

Surgery is dangerous and will cause more longterm pain than your boobs will.

What you actually need to do is build up your upper body strength. There are people who carry much more weight and do not have any back pain, because their muscles are stronger than yours.

When muscles are weak, the bones take the brunt of the strain, and you get pain in your spine, shoulders, etc.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Somethimg else to note, I know women with watermelon sized boobs that have zero back pain. So yeah, hit the gym, don;t focus on weight loss, get a trainer, increase your calories, build muscle.

[ManofHistory]

Most guys won't care and many would even prefer smaller breasts. It is also important that your boobs will stay with you your entire life. The older you get, the worst the pain will be until it is causing serious pain in your 30's and 40's.

Any guy worth a damn that would rather bigger breasts, will understand why you got the reduction and be fine.

Let me know if you have any other questions or advice and I'll try to help

[Guy13]

Not if they are water melons. Don't mess with the cantaloupe though.

[Avcfhcic]

It's in your best interest to get them reduced in size. They are hurting your back and being 15, there's a chance they'll grow more.
I would do the surgery and reduce the size, the scars are a story, not a hindrance. Your health matters more than what some pathetic guys comments are on your scars, they become part of you!
It's for the best! And I wouldn't care 1 bit if my girl had scars on her chest from surgery to help her live a better life

[KneeDragger]

Is working out (swimming) off the table?

There was a girl in my high school who was going to have a reduction and I know she never worked out and I haven't seen her in years. Anyway, there are negatives, so try something else until you have no options.

[Mangospacho]

I would have a doctor confirm that’s what’s causing your back pain. There are other factors that cause back pain other than just having large breasts. If your doctor recommends having a breast reduction, do it while you’re young and can recover from surgery quickly.

[Nahid1707]

Don’t do this please.
You’re young, yours are natural and good if this makes sense. Look at inspiration at other women similar to you as a role model and inspiration. Someone you can see similarities in and relate with.
You’ll save money most importantly and be a successful women

[FilmGuy93]

I wouldn’t think any less of you. Getting the surgery is a health issue thing for you. Just to let you know though, I don’t think the scars are as bad or noticeable these days; the surgeries have gotten pretty smooth.

[Berethor]

What is the breasts size? and yea I care, it's a turn-off for me, I am all for natural breasts size.

[Stevefiveo]

I would not recommend it. Every woman that I know that has it, have their breasts grow right back.

[BarryLiverstone]

First priority is health. What did the doctor advise?

[Iron_Man]

I wouldn’t like that leave your breast alone don’t operate