How do guys feel about big saggy breasts on young girls?

[StephNicole]

I've seen questions about this topic on this site before but nothing that I could relate to so here is my version.

I'm 21 and still a virgin (because of my insecurities with my breasts). I have double D's but they are very low and the nipple points downwards. If I was standing naked infront of you you wouldn't be able to see my areola/nipple (is that low ): ) If I lay down they go under my armpits and if I'm sitting down braless (bending my back like most people do) they can sometimes even reach my thighs...

At one point (when I was 14) I was taken to a surgeon due to back pains but because I was overweight at the time he didn't want to operate me. I lost 50 pounds and he still refused so I ended up feeling worse (skinny with huge saggy breasts). I fell into a time of depression and gained the weight back but I started the gym a month ago to get back in shape.

My breast are just such a turn off to myself. I just feel so insecure about it. My family keeps telling me is ok (my dad's side has similar breasts but they are all married with kids!) I'm still scared of what men might think about them.

And yes, I do care about guys' opinions because I want to gain confidence but at the same time make a future partner happy where I know he can find me as atractive as I'll find him. Sorry for the long post and thanks for reading! Hopefully I can get some helpfull feed back! :)

[p120m37th3u5]

Seriously. Listen up, I'm going to shoot straight with you, this is important...
There are some guys out there that will be turned off by that. I'm not going to lie to you and say those instincts you have about that are wrong. ... But... there are easily just a many guys that think that's super f***ing sexy. And general consensus is: boobs are awesome. I, for one, wouldn't turn you down if I had to roll them sum'bitches up with a pencil to tie your shoes. I love big breasts. You really shouldn't worry about weather or not you'll be sexy enough to make your man happy. You will be, and you are.
I really, truly, sincerely hope that you understand what I'm telling you here... You may not be perfect to everyone, but you are pretty damn awesome.

[StephNicole]

Wow. I truly appreciate your honesty. I am aware not everyone would but it's so nice to read how it's no problem at all for many others (even if it comes from a stranger). Thank you for the kind words, I'll try my best to show more confidence with them.

[p120m37th3u5]

Knock 'em dead, girl! :)

[ThatJarHead]

To an average guy a girl to sleep with is a girl to sleep with.

Seriously don't worry about it. But if you want to correct it start doing chest exercises. Tightening the muscles of your chest, shoulders and arms should bring down the sage and make them look better. Or you would always try losing weight. My point is, you are fine but if you want to fix it, it is possible.

[StephNicole]

I did start losing weight! I guess I could ask my trainor for chest exercises! Thank you :D

[Anonymous]

babe wear a push up bra and if it really bothers you have surgery

[StephNicole]

I do wear push up bras but my concern is more about when it gets off you know? Thanks for the feedback :)

[Opinion Owner]

Confidence is key if your guy senses your insecurity then it'll create an issue

[omykb1_one]

you know people would like you for ur personality not ur body.
if i liked you and liked your personality i could care less for ur body
and it would get me excited.

do not put your self down.
be healthy feel good about yourself.

did you get a second opinion about the breast reduction operation?

i would be more worried about getting pains and hurting but i understand it can affect you emotionally

[StephNicole]

I haven't gone to a surgeon since but I guess now that I'm 21 I could get a second opinion! I really appreciate your comment, like some others here it made me smile :) I'll try to work hard on the gym but until then just try to be happy that I have them and get in my head that a lot of guys won't care how they are. Thank you again :)

[Jaquav]

I wouldn't care at all. And not as in, I'd ignore it because I care. I simply wouldn't care at all that they were sagging and I'd enjoy the girls breasts all the same. I wouldn't worry about it.

[StephNicole]

Then I'll try my best to not worry about it too haha. Thank you :)

[HappyDominant17]

totally depends. I mean loads of dudes I know have a thing for big boobs, it's like saying I like blondes to guys it's so common! don't worry. just advertise them basically so people know what their getting into I guess

[StephNicole]

I guess that would be a better preparation than just surprising him right there and there haha Thanks for the recommendation ^^

[HappyDominant17]

Please big floppy boobies :)

[HappyDominant17]

pleasure*

[prince1102]

Guys will probably find your huge boobs very much a turn-on, not a turn-off. They won't care they sag as long as they are a handful.

You're insecure about something most girls wish they had.

[StephNicole]

I guess if you put it that way... I guess I have engraved in my head what I think guys want but I can see most of the replies proved me wrong. Ty

[petes]

Perky breasts are over-rated. The very notion that nipples not pointing straight ahead means breasts are somehow disfigured has nothing to do with the real world. Enjoy and be proud of your bounty. Be secure in their beauty and symbolism of your femininity. And if some guy says "EWWW," he's the one being shallow--and your breasts are your "early warning" system!

[TruthVersed]

🤔 darling.. not sure how to put this nicely.. but here goes..

are they sensitive.. if so that it where the turn on is?

If a guy is interested in you.. what you call saggy and a turnoff.. he thinks is sexy.. trust me..

[Hawn84]

If you're willing to have surgery and it'll make you feel better about yourself try to find another surgeon.

[StephNicole]

I will try in a near future, thanks :)

[Nahid1234]

They are attractive and good. 😊

It's fine that you wrote all that, you wrote about your experience and why you felt insecure.

[StephNicole]

Thank you! I guess I just didn't want to sound like a girl fetching for compliments. I'm glad it came across as the actual concern it is for me.

[Nahid1234]

You're welcome

[bubbakong2006]

Guys will love them big saggy or small guys like boobs

[Anonymous]

I like saggy boobs

That being said I don't like
Flappy/deflated boobs

but other than that it's all good,

[mohamedatef]

who want u will want u with all ur problems ( if this called problems ) and ur positives

[TripleAce]

Prefer smaller and perky...

[StephNicole]

Thanks for the honesty, I appreciate different opinions.

[xBreezy]

Definitely a turn off.

[thomasans]

Would you show me in private?

[Anonymous]

How big how saggy?