For me it’s the following:
1. Height
I admit I do find short, cute and petite (gymnast athletic type) women attractive. But I’ve dated way taller women including a girl who was 5’ 11’’ once (I am 6ft). Her height barely even registered to me. She was very attractive to me for other reasons.
Height is like my number 37 out of 50 reasons to a woman. Yet women keep falsely believing men care about height because they themselves are obsessed about it. Most of us could care less.
2. Being introverted vs. extroverted
Since women usually prefer extroverted men they also falsely believe that’s what men want to. But most guys don’t really care (as long as she has a good caring personality). In fact in some scenarios I might trust an extroverted woman even less because she usually is “friends” with a lot of other guys.
3. Breast size
This is not as big as a deal for guys as most women think. In fact it’s an instant turn off for many guys if a woman gets cosmetic breast surgery just for attention (different story if there was a congenital issue that required it).
Now I know some guys are breast men. It is something I notice too but it’s like number 27 out the top 50 reasons for what I look at in a woman.
Just FYI I am not “reporting” his post to be removed. It can stay up. It was bizarre but it wasn’t trolling. But I just was sick of getting notifications on it given the debate he’s having with other users.
It’s very true women without a doubt place a much heavier emphasis on that when it comes to dating men. Especially money. But I do want a woman who makes enough money to SUPPORT herself. She doesn’t have to be rich. But able to make it on her own. There is some concern with that for guys.
Most guys don’t want lazy deadbeats no matter how attractive they are (I’ve met a few)
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