Do you believe that a woman is able to love you forever?

[TonyMetal___86]

Especially women from this generation...

I mean common let's face it, in my opinion you have 3 choices with a woman:

1. Women in this generation see men with expiry dates, it means no matter how much it lasts , one day will come and she will dump you out of the blue and will make countless of excuses and reasons!

2. Better for a man to dump his girl before she dumps him!

3. Only a very rare devoted woman will stay with you

4. if you aren't able to do the majority of the things that she wants than consider that she will leave someday, cause a girl wants to control you and if she realize that she can't do it than she will also dump you!

That's my opinion: i know that all the women will start saying nahhh, i'm not like this and i'm not like that, but guess what? All these women who did it, they swore at the beginning that they wouldn't do such things at all but in the end, they did worst! 😄

[DishLady]

I think that culturally we're all generally just trained to think of things as short-term. Look at TV programming… shorter and shorter programming, which leads to shorter and shorter attention spans — a lack of focus and commitment.
Games, readings materials, media… it all encourages a short-term mindset.


I don't think the question only applies to women because I've seen guys to the same thing. Love (the lasting, amazing kind) has always been a rare thing. There are lower degrees of love that couples have fostered because of societal expectations, and then there is "failed love" (which at some point probably was love and then the couple matured and found they had nothing in common). So… on a sliding scale between the "Rare Eternal Love" category (where a person loves you as their dearest friend and partner for eternity), the "Love & Fidelity" category (where a person holds you in relatively high regard even if things are possibly starting to fall apart due to shifts in gradual personal or professional constraints, etc.), and the "Failed Love" (which at best was an illusion to begin with because both parties didn't take a close enough look at themselves and the other person before "jumping the broom" and committing to one another).


Because women are still typically the ones tasked with keeping the "happy home" vision board intact and functional, we're usually the ones who appear to be the "naggers" or "controling" ones. (Sidebar… there actually ARE controlling men and women… I'm not trying to say that there aren't… but not EVERY woman is a manipulative she-devil just as not every man is a toxic hellion.)


If a woman "leaves anyway"… perhaps you're just better off. Don't you want the woman who will stick by you more than whomever this flight of fancy was? Chalk it up as an experience and keep looking for the girl who is right for you.

[TonyMetal___86]

Thank you for taking your time to write all this for me, i aprreciate it!
I do know that there are men who are like that and even worst but as a guy, i'm giving my opinion about women and leave the opinion about guys for women to say 😌

[DishLady]

in my opinion every person is different (guy or girl), so take each one as they come and start from scratch...

I hope the response was helpful to you.

[TonyMetal___86]

👍🏻👍🏻

[dustybiker2]

What you need is a blowup doll.
You are forgetting woman are living thinking beings with the ability to experience life and grow and change. (Just as men are) Nobody is static.
You either adapt and grow with them or against them. Sounds like you're too judgy to want to.

[TonyMetal___86]

I'm static i guess, and adapt to what? To lies and back stabs 🤣🤣
Shshhhhhhhhhhhhh miss dusty!

[dustybiker2]

Come on man. Read that back.
And I haven't had lunch so I'm brutally honest right now lol

[dustybiker2]

(Read what you asked back. You want something that does not exist)

[TonyMetal___86]

I'm glad that your being brutally honest now, here you go, you said it: THEY DON'T EXIST 🤣🤣

[dustybiker2]

The people you portray all woman to be. I bet you're just giving that energy out.

[NamerOfStars]

A good one? Yes. One who's willing to look past societal demands and actually stand up for herself and work for what she wants (relationships aren't supposed to always be smooth and easy)? Natch.

I can accept that changing social trends have made such women less common, but let's not attack people based on entirely on their gender. We have a word for that, and it's not something you want to be.

[TonyMetal___86]

Ofc i'm not attacking the whope gender, i'm just saying that a lot of women became like this these days!

[TonyMetal___86]

*whole

[NathanDavis]

yes, and they do...

love is more than just romance

[TonyMetal___86]

Well if it's working for you than i hope it lasts 🙂
If someday "may god forbid" you came to me and told me, Bro you were right, my date has expired, she left! I'll laugh 😄 why? Because i won't be surprised at all...

[NathanDavis]

well... it has lasted ever since I am around 16 years old, which is when I started to "date"

I guess that would be about twenty-six million laughs to your one laugh

I think that would still be a good ratio, lol

[TonyMetal___86]

Man like i said, i'm happy for you and wished that you remain like this forever...
You don't have to experience what i'm saying, i wish for no one to experience such things, but i'm saying that these days such things are happening a lot!

[NathanDavis]

I've experienced much worse but yeah... that's life

[NathanDavis]

and I am too, wishing you better and best

[TonyMetal___86]

Thanks! And i'm happy because you found someone who made you forget about your bad past experiences...

[strateguy632]

these are all the reasons religious marriages are lifetime... to make commitment... some religions ruind that with divorce only jesus fixed those issues.

[TonyMetal___86]

If you have faith in god, you'll be aware that a divorce is a sin!

[LaurenM1997]

I don’t see a man with an expiry date when i would love him and i certainly wouldn’t control him either if you were my boyfriend Tony I would love you forever ☺️❤️

[TonyMetal___86]

Ohhh, the sweet miss Lauren made me blush ☺️
I really want to believe that what you're saying is true and also want to believe that there still ladies in this world like you, but i really have a hard time to believe or trust someone who gives me such promises, i mean my past experiences were sh*tty and even what i see around me is like that...

I don't wanna hurt a girl and i also don't want to be hurt, i mean it always begins in a beautiful way but after months or years, things would change and when you confront the woman about her promise and argue with her, she will simply say that she changed or starts giving lame excuses and create reasons just do she explains why she's leaving...

After this, what miss lauren? ☹
Shall i suffer alone, shall i start living in depression and asking why this happened to me, don't know how much time it will take me to heal and that's if i'll ever heal...

While HER, she's living her life to the fullest and enjoying her time as if i was never there, it's like you have never existed to her... etc

What makes me sure that if one day i fell in love with someone, that i must believe what she's saying, everyone can talk and everyone can promise, but does it matters as long as they can break their promises anytime they want 😏

I saw a lot of women who do stay with their men but i don't know why i have something in my mind that keeps telling that i'll never meet such women!

[LaurenM1997]

What I’ve just told you is so true I wouldn’t lie to you I don’t like liars so I wouldn’t be lying to you I’ve had a shitty experience with men too don’t worry you already know 🫤 I would always keep my promises to you ❤️

[LaurenM1997]

I don’t want to hurt a guy and a guy hurt me but I’ve been hurt so much times that I’m so used to it is that sad? 😔

[TonyMetal___86]

I know that you will laugh miss lauren after reading this 😄
I saw some women who were truly hurt by men and i stood with them and was there for them but when they met a new guy and they guy was opposite of their ex, you know what they did to him? They did to him what their ex boyfriend did to them, like wtf 🤣🤣

Yeah it's really funny but at the same time makes you cry!

I was so shocked and asked them, are you crazy? You did to this person what your sh*tty ex had done to you, what's the difference now between and your ex? You can't believe how much they talked and talked just to give me excuses for their actions, lame, shallow and shitty excuses and reasons just so that they appear innocent and were right about their decision, i just laughed and laughed and told them to get the f*ck out of my house!

A lot of people are shocked when they know my reality, at 1st they all think that i hate women so much because i'm an anti feminism especially here on gag but the ladies who really do know me couldn't believe that i hate men more than women, i'm against everyone who os wrong and will support anyone who is right!

[LaurenM1997]

Omg what hypocrites 😒🤦‍♀️

[TonyMetal___86]

Yeah miss Lauren, believe it or not i saw too much bad things in this life, here and there and worldwide...
A doomed world, that's why i cherish all the good people whom i meet in this life because they are becoming very rare...

You want someone who truly loves you and cares about you and will stick to your side not matter what you do, it's going to be your tiny small family, your parents your siblings, it can be anyone who truly loves you and cares about you and for sure had been there with you for the majority of the years of your life, these people are the real deal!

Look at your mother, how much she cares about you, how much you mean to her, how much she takes care of you and how much does she handles from you in your bad times, for decades, this person you can give her the title of "she really loves me" other that, everyone in the world can tell you "i love you" it's very simple and after awhile they vanish!

[LaurenM1997]

I’m dreading the time when my mum does go cause it will hurt me like crazy and we’ve been though some crazy times together we’ve yelled argued and sometimes agree on stuff I love my family so much I wouldn’t trade them for the world I cherish you because you always are here for me and always there to comfort me when I am down and I really do respect and appreciate you ❤️😊

[TonyMetal___86]

I hope that god gives your mom a long life so you be able to enjoy things together and to keep your family close bonded and for sure i'm so thankful for your kind words miss lauren, you too makes me happy whenever i'm feeling sad a little bit or bothered from something 😊

[LostandFound__x]

If you treat her right I don’t see why not.

[TonyMetal___86]

Miss alyssa rapunzel do you think that there is anyone in the world who can always treat you right? I mean sometimes we treat ourselves wrong 🤣

[LostandFound__x]

Haha of course. No one is perfect. But I mean things like cheating, lying, being physical etc.

[TonyMetal___86]

100% agree with you on these 😌

[LiamJHayden]

It is possible, but I am unwilling to bet my future on my being able to choose one who is able.

[TonyMetal___86]

Wise answer!

[DextroShade]

Only if she has a low body count and stays off social media, which unfortunately excludes most modern women.

[TonyMetal___86]

Facts 👍🏻

[Lliam]

Your experiences are a result of your low opinion of the opposite sex.

Why would a woman stay with someone who distrusts them and thinks women are selfish and shallow?

[TonyMetal___86]

You tell me when you're a good person and does the imaginable for some people than they stab you behind your back, hurt you and dump you and acts as if you were never there, not once or twice but multiple times, how will you act after this? Also, someone who haven't experienced what you have been through, come and ask you: why would a woman stay with you if you distrust them or think that they are shallow and selfish 😏

Ask a woman who was tortured and beaten by men and raped, why are you affraid of men? You were raped, so what? Common ask them, let's see how will they reply?

Someone comes in and killed your whole family, you were so full of hatred and wants revenge, and strangers starts to wonder and ask you why all this hatred and anger...

Common man you can do better 😄

[Lliam]

Okay, so you admit that you've been traumatized and have a low opinion/phobia toward all women as a result. That's not reality.
Get therapy. You'll never be able to have a healthy relationship until you do.
Trying to convince people on-line that women are bad isn't helpful.

[TonyMetal___86]

Not only my personal experience, also what i see happening a lot around me and also worldwide, maybe i should you're the one who must get therapy for your ignorance about the facts and reality, just look at the high divorce rate worldwide, than come and tell me that it's a personal experience!

[Lliam]

Your mental state compels you to seek affirmation for your preconceived beliefs. That's why you post here.
To you, women are the enemy.

[TonyMetal___86]

As you wish doctor liam 😏

[Wiredone]

I know for a fact that women can. I'm married to a woman that does

[TonyMetal___86]

Than you're a lucky man, keep on going 👍🏻

[Wiredone]

We plan on it, till death do us part

[TonyMetal___86]

That's the real deal!

[dolemite58]

No women will only love you when it’s convenient to do so, lose your job and see how quickly things change 😂

[TonyMetal___86]

Not just your job, if you change anything this might happen and not only this, if she saw or experienced something different she might change too, a high risk to become dumped by her!

[Anonymous]

No. That's probably the biggest reason why I think guy should pursue so few women today. Because the REALITY is most women today are not capable of forever. Dare I say most women today are incapable of love. Limmerance yes, love no. And when that wears off the woman will be left disinterested. The man is essentially investing in an illusion.

[Anonymous]

If you're the alpha she craves sure. Of you're the beta she settles with (like most women) she will either leave you, or turn you into a "hen pecked husband" as women hate to settle but have no choice because most men aren't the alphas they crave.

[TonyMetal___86]

She will dump you no matter what you are, alpha or beta or brad pitt 🤣🤣
Tell this to her thousands of followers who are thirsty like dogs if she just show her bare legs on social media 😂😂

[jack1924]

Love means woman, woman means love. Nobody can give love more than a girlfriend, a wife and a mother.

[jack1924]

But, they need care, a little bit of care

[TonyMetal___86]

You think that a girlfriend or a wife can give you the same love as your mother? 🤔
If that's what you're experiencing than you're extremly lucky, hope it lasts, that's what matters, cause for me i don't care how it begins, i care about how it ends 😏

[jack1924]

I didn’t say it is the same level or type of love, for sure nobody will love us like our mothers but I got love from most of women in my life in different ways and types

[TonyMetal___86]

True! Who doesn't wishes to be loved, but sadly love is like a double edged sword and these days, the majority are just being hurt from it...

Why? Look at the societies and their agendas around the world, the ones who are in control of everything, they want the humans to worship them because they think that they are a god!

You are only allowed to follow the rules that suits them, it doesn't matter about what you think because you and me are no one, what matters is only what THEY think of!

Sometimes you feel unhappy in this world because you feel like you're in a big jail surrounded by laws and rules which they claim that it's right and other things are wrong and you just have to comply...

They created feminism, they created rights, they created weapons and they created wars, they have created everything just to control your life, what is right today might be wrong tomorrow, it depends on the person who's going to inherit the chair of dominance!

These people do not want to work for the sake of humanity, they are working for their own benefits and interests!

[jack1924]

I think this is not a new thing, it has been there forever, you are exaggerating a little bit. There are a lot of women out there want to love and be loved and the concept of relationships and family still there and still strong despite everything happening.

[TonyMetal___86]

I really hope so...

[DrPepper12]

Men too! No? Those categories are way off too. If it's a battle for control the relationship is built in quicksand anyway.

[TonyMetal___86]

Control is one of the things, she will always find a reason or an excuse to justify her acts!

[DrPepper12]

Or talk, reflect, apologize, compromise, do more or better next time.

[TonyMetal___86]

Tell this sh*t to them not to me 😒

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Why do you keep inviting me to toe posts bashing women? No matter what I or anyone says, you’re gonna believe what you want to anyways🤷‍♀️

[TonyMetal___86]

Are you bothered because i like hearing your opinion? Don't worry i won't bother you with my invitations anymore...

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

No I’m bothered that you at your age keep posting posts hating on women with false generalizations

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

And I might not be off this generation but I have daughters who are as well as nieces and coworkers, none that are anything like you portray women to be…

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

There’s bad women out there yes but there’s also good women out there… just like there’s bad men out there but also good men… why you take the time to get to know people and not just generalize about someone solely based off their gender

[TonyMetal___86]

Okay i'm dreaming and making it all up!

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

No but you’re taking what SOME women do and acting like it’s most women … do you want to be judged by the actions or character of other men? Or by your own?

[TonyMetal___86]

Women are angels and men are demons, only men are bad to women while women are always good to men, women never lies, men are made from lies... etc

Are you happy now? Also what's wrong with my age? Shouldn't a man in my age expose how some women acts?

I'm not your daughter or grandson or annoying co worker, if i had a sister, she could of been the same age as you, yet you still talk to me like i'm a kid who lies and living in my imagination!

If you had a little brother my age, he came to you and told you that a lot of women these days are like that, would you call him a liar or sit with him to see what's happening? But yes i'm not your brother, i'm just a random male liar, thanks!

[NetherlandsNar]

Yes but it's rare these days

[TonyMetal___86]

True!

[exitseven]

My wife is in it for keeps.

[sirderpsalot123]

Yeah

[TonyMetal___86]

Good for you!

[sirderpsalot123]

Thanks lol

[Twalli]

So go for the 3.

[TonyMetal___86]

👉🏻 Very rare 👈🏻 also i'm not a psychic to know if she's the one or not, it all depends on your luck and i guess that i have enough from these adventures, from a decade ago 😏

[Twalli]

I found one. A good indication is when the honeymoon stage won't end. I do mean it isn't over, I mean you have been dating 5 year and 10 months (as of today) and you are still in the honeymoon stage. It's not going to end unless something EXTREMELY bad happens.

[TonyMetal___86]

That's good 👍🏻