What's more important: making money or finding love?

[Miah04]

[sadstrawberry]

Loyality is rare. I'm rare because I'm hardcore loyal. But around me I saw many guys triple dating like my 2 ex, my own male cousins and more. It's bad especially in era where dating apps are prevalent. People forgot what it's like to have feelings and love someone and is busy looking directly for intimacy. We are the ones that create intimacy. It's hard to trust anyone now because people say something else, think something else and do something else. It's scary. So if you're guy I think girls cheat less and guys cheat a lot. I think you should be a giver and the girl in return if she loves you back will give you too. Making money when you're young and after 25 find love. Because, I feel people are not very mature and experiment and shit when they're young so find someone who is mindful, knows themselves and loves themselves enough and who has set certain standards for herself, so that she can love you consistently and most importantly love someone only if you love yourself and is content with yourself. Because happiness and love is interrelated. You can't find love or happiness in someone else if you can't find it in yourself first. Okay?

[sadstrawberry]

One more thing, don't love someone so much that you become second priority for yourself. Keep yourself first, family second, and rest friends etc. I mean love yourself more and then your parents /family and then you would love anyone else. But yourself on top always.

[sadstrawberry]

So make money when young and love someone when you're content with yourself and love yourself a lot first be it 25 or 28 or 29 whatever.. to be able to love someone else okay?

[Brittanyroseee]

Making money because being stable yourself is more important and “love” can end at anytime and that person can leave so better to be able to carry yourself and be independent

[NamerOfStars]

Neither- and for reasons that are a LOT less petty than this is going to sound at first.

Making money is not important- but having money is. What's the importance of the distinction? Money itself is valueless; that's literally a required part of a fiat currency. The value of money is what you can exchange it for. And I say this as someone who completely ran out and was reduced to living out of his car, surviving by scrounging for dropped change by the side of the road and swiping ketchup packets from fast food places.

Likewise, finding love doesn't matter, because what matters to you is YOUR love, and that's not found, it's built- well, made, but that phrase got co-opted by the cowards who think they're too good to say "having sex". Love you find has already been made by someone else; it may be good for inspiring you, but that's all it can do.

[sawno]

I'd say that depends on whoever you expect to be the provider in the relationship. If you are dating to get a partner that provides because you seek a more traditional relationship then love is far more important. If you are a guy who is going to be the provider money matters because without it you can't get such a relationship.

So assuming most people still go for these gender roles to some extent i'd actually say its gendered. Most girls don't seem to be interested in being sole provider. Many guys don't care as much about her money if at all.

[Joshydavid25]

Finding love... The whole point of having currency in the first place is to be able to provide.. Only in today's climate where being selfish is praised and encouraged does the illusion of just having and making money count... Most people don't have an actual "career" and don't make that much money for making money to be that important in the first place.. So people needs stop acting like they are out here making moves.. 😂

[Miah04]

I am so glad to see this comment. These fools on here are so jaded and bitter. I'm embarrassed for them reading these comments.
Like feeling money is more important is fine, but to read how miserable they are by how they bash and attack others, it's sad

[Joshydavid25]

Exactly, I get that at some points in life making enough money to support yourself is more important.. But ultimately most of us do it to find that good ol love.. To support somebody else along with ourselves..

[Miah04]

Exactly

[Peter_Penetrator]

Make the money before finding love. Concentrate on your education, and getting your career on track before attempting to start a family. If you start your family first, you will find it much more difficult to provide a financially, stable lifestyle for your children. You don’t want your family to suffer your absence while you seek the education required for a higher paying career.

[MrOracle]

Money, by its very nature comes and goes. Even great wealth can disappear overnight, and can appear almost as fast sometimes. It can bring some comfort, but it won't make you happy or fulfilled.

Finding real love is much more valuable - ask any billionaire. Love can bring you things that no amount of money ever can.

[Unit1]

Do not become me ⚠

[Edith06]

Your 29, you have your entire life ahead - change things if you aren't happy 🩷

[Unit1]

@Edith06 I was 22 years old when I took the last screenshot and changed it to "32", calling out my future 3 years from now on.

[dustybiker2]

Money makes everything better. If you're lucky you'll find love along the way.

[Miah04]

Interesting

[dustybiker2]

I mean. The good kind of love, you don't find it by looking for it. You stumble across it when you least expect it and probably look your worst. But they don't see the superficial, they are too focused on you.

[Miah04]

That's actual love. The other is more lust.

[dustybiker2]

Yes.

[mandyfire98]

You have to have money to even survive. You technically don't need love to survive.

But you can be comfortable with money at some point and then Love becomes more important.

[avery58]

Well you can't survive without money so I guess making money.

[Kaneki05]

Love. You can find/make money by doing many things and if worst comes to worst both you and your love become partners in crime stealing from shops shrugs.

[HawkPerception]

Real love trumps all the money in the world. Having a woman willing to stick with me through all my highs and lows in life and that's compatible with me in every way... nothing could be above that.

[DextroShade]

For men, making money because a man won't find love without it.

For women, finding love because making money will only get in the way of it, and men don't care about a woman's money anyway.

[thisAppIsGarbage]

Money. Love is a myth. I've found love multiple time with my best friends but life got in the way. Money is all you need.

[Miah04]

Love is a myth, but i found love multiple times but life got in a way.
Contradicting yourself.

[thisAppIsGarbage]

If it didn't last it wasn't real a myth. Like you and understanding

[Miah04]

Not how it works. Be like saying i had a dog but it died. So the dog is a myth

[thisAppIsGarbage]

Yeah. You got me there. Love isn't a myth. It's a waste of time. I'm just trying to get laid and paid. When I'm getting one, the others getting away

[Miah04]

Ok. I can accept that answer

[LiamJHayden]

To me currently, generating enough passive income so that I do not have to work is more important. Romantic love, if it meant to be for me, will come at the right time.

[OtterMan68]

on your death bed, would you be sadder to die poor or die unloved?

[Miah04]

I already know my answer, so asking me doesn't answer my question

[OtterMan68]

I think most people would be sadder to die unloved

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Finding love is great and amazing but making money definitely comes first.

Try paying your bills or buying groceries and food with love at the check out and see what happens?

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Making money is more important.

[dfdfdffffdfdf]

depend on person , which one can give them more happiness?

[Miah04]

Agree. This question is expected to have an answer of what the answerer finds more important not a general generic answer

[Account]

Neither to me. To me what is important is to find a way to stop this turmoil within me.

[LiZiqiLiZiqi]

If you encounter love first, then it will be love. If you have a career now, then it must be a career.

[LaurenM1997]

Finding love money I have I don’t really need money finding love brings happiness not money though

[Jkgordon]

If you are black making money too many of us don’t even have a clue about relationships and the majority of our men are broke losers

[Purpleronnie]

Money i feel is slightly more of a basic necessity , however I could not survive without either

[Wiredone]

Since I already found love, making money is more important. If I didn't find love, money would still be more important because you need money to take her out on dates.

[Zbrody1997]

Money, love will follow but money is your life line to having a life prepared for love.

[Date_a_Snob]

making money... sadly you can't live without money but you can live without love

[Brittanyroseee]

And people leave all the time anyway 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[bowenw]

True love is more difficult to find and more important.

[itsclearlynicholas]

At 30: it's 100 percent for me making that money mmmmm 😋 gratefully 😈 ✌🏻🕊️ groovy ☮️✌🏻

[Staximus]

Money is bullshit. If I had a girlfriend or wife and she loved and cared about me, I wouldn't trade her for all the gold in the mountains.

[Juxtapose]

Well that depends if you are currently starving or not. If you are not starving, love is more important.

[lorenzomichael]

I’d say finding love. Why? Because money can’t buy me happiness but it sure can buy me a nice boat to sail around all my misery.

[LiamS95]

While there is a certain importance to making money and being financially secure, money can't buy you love!

[Anonymous]

I want love but I know without money nobody will ever love me.

[Bokks]

As a man, making money is my priority and would like not to reveal myself as one who has money in order not to attract fake prospective partners

[7Phoenix7]

Career, money lol. Love will find me 😂

[whistlingwh0res]

Make money as a scumbag or find a scumbag love.. what’s the difference?

[TycheKairos]

Nothing is more valuable than money.

[At3mis24]

Money. I want to be rich, that's my goal.

[Brittanyroseee]

Same!

[Edith06]

Love, no question 🩷

[HelpfulWoman]

need money to live long enough to find love sooooo

[DJB72]

Love. There's always another way to make money

[MsProsperity]

Making money

[KittygosMeoWW]

I am the provider in my home so it’s money.

[VV3ZZY123]

Finding Love. Stuff is just Stuff.

[Anonymous]

Money, love is for the weak and needy

[Charliefretz329]

Making money and having companionship

[KrakenAttackin]

Money is FAR more reliable than women.

[KrakenAttackin]

Also, if you have money, finding a woman isn't difficult.

[dustybiker2]

Less likely to find the right sort though

[KrakenAttackin]

@dustybiker2 I guess I have never come across the "right sort" as I have no idea what she is like.

[dustybiker2]

If you suggest doing something casual and boring and she agrees just to spend time with you. You probably found her.

[elaphe]

Love is more important.

[captain_voidwalker]

Money, love dosen't exist

[swettannie]

Love !

[ManInChains]

Making money

[RebelinSteel]

Love wins

[Anonymous]

Money.

[Kingofkings1992]

Neither is important lol.

[WhitneySnow]

Love

[Jennz6]

Love 💕

[FunkyMonkee]

Love.

[DreamLife7]

Both

[nawtee_me]

Love for sure

[nawtee_me]

@miah04 money can’t buy it…

[mayurr]

Money.

[Mediterraneansoul]

Neither lol

[mickeysmonkey]

Being happy

[eagle1951]

love