Love is far more important than money. Yet, I chose "Money". Why? Because of the way the question is worded.
Making money is more of a priority to me than finding love. Love is easily found, it is everywhere that you look with an open heart and a spirit of gratitude. Money making and financial success on the other hand, requires more focus and dedication. I'm not worried about having a lack of love in my life. Having a lack of money is more of a pressing concern, it is the basis for fundamental needs: housing, food, transportation, health.
Maslow's hierarchy of needs
As we see here in Maslow's Hierarchy, money meets the basic needs more than love does. Love is higher on the hierarchy and can be met and sustained better with a stable foundation.
This might also be why you see a lot of babies crying on here about how "women are gold diggers" and "women only love money". Perhaps women are just more practical and understand intuitively that you need to have a stable foundation in order to have a healthy loving relationship. Living in a cardboard box on the side of the road might be romantic for some, but not for most.
Life requires you have sufficient money to live comfortably and the older you get, the more money and health insurance matter. And then there's life insurance and homeowner's and auto insurance. You have to prevent injuries by covering yourself with liability insurance and if you have kids, or a spouse, life insurance is paramount to safeguard them from your early demise or a serious injury.
If you have a home, that is your greatest financial asset. and you need insurance to protect your home.
Auto insurance is in place in case you run into something or someone so you don't LOSE your home or car. And FOR all that, you need money.
Secondarily, health insurance covers your other greatest asset, your body. If THAT breaks down, you have to have health insurance so, again, you don't lose your home because of extended sickness or recovery from an injury.
Remember that old saw: NO ROMANCE WITHOUT FINANCE. It is as true as it ever was. This doesn't mean you're not romantic, but the practical side is you have to have your ass covered. And you need to hook up with someone you has the same priorities.
Definitely money! As bitter and cynical as this may sound, for me money will make me happier right now than a relationship or love will. Contrary to the old saying, money can buy happiness! I can pay off all my bills. I can buy all the things I need and want. I can travel. I can treat myself rather than rely on a partner or another person to do so.
And last time I checked, most things in life: from food, water, shelter, clothing, etc... requires money. Without those things, you would die. You can live without love (yes, you can). I think I'm going to focus on having a good career and money over something that's fleeting and not guaranteed to last.
Well, I’d say finding love since I can personally find a multitude of ways to make money to sustain myself as well as thrive.
I think it’s harder to find love with the right person.
Of course I have certain career goals, but I can see myself doing a wide variety of jobs and being perfectly fine with that.
I think most people want to find love but are not believers of it being true or they are tarnished by their negative experiences with intimacy that they have sort of given up.
Hopefully they can find someone way or inspiration to become believers of love again, as it is an insanely instinctual thing for humans and easily one of the most important and meaningful aspects of life in my opinion.
The most important part of all of this is the RIGHT person, as the wrong one can have the reverse effect and make you repellent to love.
Money. Although I value Love more making money is a core essential to component in society and finding the best work/life-balance is also a key component to making a good enough impression to get to keep what love I can find and to be healthy/attractive I want to feel useful which I do by combining competence with the needs of the world/society to produce income.
Besides I've realized, when I focus on love I don't find it. When I focus on life and the necessities of a healthy life the opprotunities all too often seem to be right around the corner. The busy life is more magnetic. Not sure if this applies to women same as men as it seems we do look for different things many times.
So what I am saying is that maybe it's harder to get one without having the other.
Life is fluid…. That being said, the more money and means Guys/I have the more attractive we become 🤔…I wonder why that is âť“-Duh, prepared to take her on and whatever life brings us together. Plus, I would have a difficult time looking her in the eye if I knew she had to bust her 🚼 to support us. -I know some women, especially feminists, want to be like men. And, that really cracks me up as they emulate who and what pisses them off 🤷🏻‍♂️ -Maybe I’m too old school. Work or not, I don’t care. Smile when you see me, that would be nice.
Money for sure. I'll need it to live lol. Money can't bring happiness but can bring freedom. Freedom to even choose the place u want to be when sad lol.
But yeah, with money you can have the freedom to do or go to whatever and whenever u want by making experiences and through these experiences bringing happiness. Or sadness, it's inevitable after all
Money by far. I'm a single dad , so that is my priority. Also I want to stay single , never again will I endure a relationship. True unconditional love between woman and man is virtually non existent
I’ll say money for me. Love is a choice. And just like you can choose to love someone, someone can choose to not love you back one day down the road. Money can’t let you down in that way. I don’t actively look for love, I actively work for money. If love happens great.. if it leaves, oh well, money will be there through those times. So it’s about the money for me
I don't value making money anyway. It's just a thing I would take if I could but not something I care about earning. People trick themselves working to death for money that ain't me. So love by the wording of this question. However if you were to ask Get lots of money given to you or meet the love of your life? I would pick given a lot of money because I would go on the chance I would find the love of my life on my own where as money I don't care about making therefore probably wouldn't.
Love is free, but its maintenance is not. Hence first priority is to set our finances right. Then we can do anything.
I am not talking about earning enough money. Money will never be enough. Just setting up the channels with variability for income will do the job. Just as money comes, it goes. So never enough money.
If up to me, I would delete money, it's the root and cause for so much evil. World would be better without it, but I know if was to spontaneously do it, world would crumble. everyone kinda need to reach the same stage where everyone realize it's just something that holds back the human race.
This isn’t gonna happen. We just gonna replace poor people with robots, sorry we don’t need a peasant to fan the pharaohs face anymore, there is a machine tat does that.
Love is never a priority for me. Being liked is equally acceptable. Making money only for the fact that the world we have created requires it is a priority. Nothing in this life is free.
We must remember that money does mean become rich, it is also a means of financially being able to support yourself and whoever you choose to be with. For me, money first. I've grown up with parents that mismanage money and it's terrible. Kids shouldn't have to fear this if a family is ever started and both partners should be able to support themselves alone or else there will be an unequal balance.
Neither. Money comes, money goes. Love is misunderstood. People perceive what it is by what they were taught, nurtured to believe what love is by their own personal experiences.
There is a line in the Movie "Ten Commandments" in which a girl is asked if she would rather have gold, or a man. She said Gold of course, then i can have any man! For myself, I have never been enamored by wealth, and i would much prefer having the love of a good woman.
MONEY. Why? Because when you have money, you can always find love. Just look at all those famous athletes, CEOs and other rich people. It's all about THE MONEY... then you get the HONEY!!!
We live in Me World and most only are concerned with themselves! I put my all in everything I do and it sucks when most Don't!! I work hard and go get money so I can help others who deserve it!!
Loaded and lonesome is an awful combination in Vegas. Rather Slum it with a loved one.
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A man's choice is love, there ain't anything money can't buy that is love. A woman's choice is money, we all know a woman's main priority is money, women need money more than love and men need love more than money.
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