Do you think that the majority of women are able to love for real?

[TonyMetal___86]

If yes, than why the majority of divorces are initiated by women...

If yes, why is it always easier for a woman to dump a man...

If yes, why is it always that the woman is the one who falls out of love, stop caring and just wanna leave, out of the blue...

The list is big!

I see that women always brag that they are more emotional than men, they are always the ones who are oppressed, got cheated on, suffering from a heartbreak... etc, yet i always see the woman leaving the relationship even when everything is going on just well, they always have excuses to dump their men and make it looks like she's doing it for his interest 🤣

Especially in this generation, girls are like timed bombs, they make you live the dream to the fullest and suddenly they wake you up to realize that you ain't in paradise, your burning in hell while she's leaving you to suffer and never look back!

In the past, i believe that women were totally different!

A typical woman telling you: "i love you dear, you're my life, i cannot live without you, i'll give you my everything, you are my 1st priority, i will always be there for you, i will never leave, trust me... bla bla bla, when her time expires and suddenly she changes 360° degrees, you will be like shocked, numb, not knowing what happened and ask her: are you really going to leave me, but what about all these years, what about your love and promises... etc, she looks back at you looking like this...

She says: i changed, i feel that i can't love you anymore, i don't care about you anymore, i hope that you find someone better than me...

Just when you look at the demon in disguise and her face as you can see have this evil smile telling you: "suffer in your misery, die from your wounds and pain, i'm busy, you were just another number on my list, where you end, someone else begins"

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Are people able to love you mean?
first of all, men keep throwing it out there that most divorces are initiated by women, but unless you were in that home to witness that relationship you don’t know what that relationship was like… And then too, what about the men that cheat in their relationships , does that mean no men can be faithful or are capable of love? Do you want to be judged by the words and actions of all men or by your own words and actions?
You can’t judge all women by the actions of some🤷‍♀️

[TonyMetal___86]

1st of all sponge, usually i invite you to my questions but this one i haven't because you're a different lady and not from this type of women...

2nd i never said all women, i said the majority of women...

3rd i'm focusing on this topic about women because here we aren't talking about bad guys who forces a woman to file for a divorce, i'm talking about good guys who were oppressed in their relationships and they were suddenly dumped...

Finally the good guys are being treated like bad guys because these women treats men, all types and kinds of men the same, they all have an expiry date...

These women will dump you just for the silliest and dumbest things!

No need to defend women when i talk about them sponge, because you know that i say the truth, i would of loved if you kept your answer giving your opinion only about these women and not turn it directly into a gender based argument!

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Because even saying the majority is your opinion and not fact… some people are not honest about their break up and always blame the other person… I had someone lie about why/how I put them out of my house… People that KNOW me knew what a liar that person was, but people that didn’t know me would likely believe the lies … the point I was trying to make is that unless you know the couple personally, how would you know the real dynamics of the relationship and why/how it came to end…

[TonyMetal___86]

I was somewhat speaking based on my own experience and the things that i'm seeing in real life and yes i'm sure from what i'm saying...

If you can just give me your opinion about such people, based on my question...

[TonyMetal___86]

In the end i don't care if he's a guy or a girl, the person who does such things, what do you call them?

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Yes I DO believe there’s women capable of love…and there’s PEOPLE both men and women that are incapable of loving anyone by themselves… but I’m not going to make assumptions about majority/minority and neither should others 🤷‍♀️ just saying

[TonyMetal___86]

Sponge! Focus with me, answer my question about these women who dump their men just like that for silly and shallow reasons, what are they?

If you have treated a guy with so much love, care and you have sacrificed so much things because of him, you helped him mentally and physically, you did what you promised to do and the list goes on, in the end this person woke up and came to you to tell you that his lovr to you had decreased and he feels that he doesn't care about you anymore, aslo told you that he better breaks up with you, he leaves as if you were nothing and continue living his life normally...
What's your opinion about person? I hope after all these details, it's clear to you what i'm trying to say...

[IslaTheWitch]

Love requires care from both partners. If only one cares and the other doesn't taking it for granted, love withers...

the responsibility for relationship lays on both partners, not only women's love

[TonyMetal___86]

Miss isla, i know about this but what i meant is when such things are being done and yet the woman does this, i know that it sounds crazy but that's what's happening in real life, if you come to face the girl, she will convince you with lame excuses as if she's an angel and her man is a demon, she made a lot of mistakes with him too, why he didn't leave? She did!

Also there are ups and downs in a relationship, when you love the person, no matter what the other does, you just can't leave but instead you will help them to return on the right track again!

If love has an expiry date, it means that it ain't real love from the beginning, that's how i think!

Have you heard of the last man standing? Well to me the love between a couple which endures the time and stay forever means that these couple had true love, especially if they are married!

[IslaTheWitch]

everyone makes mistakes, men and women...

AFAIK in the US men don't start divorces because they have to pay a lot to their wives... so even if there is no love, they stay. Women don't need to hesitate. They experience no loss by divorce.

In my country 66% divorces is started by women but only 15% of them have decision of man's fault and 5% woman's fault. The main reasons of divorces are character's incompatibility (46%), infidelity (20%) and excessive alcohol consumption (14%).

if my man was all the time drunk, or cheated on me or we argued all the time without a chance for solving our problems I also would ask for divorce. Life is too short for this bullshit.

But the real reason of divorces is that people are immature... they don't even try to understand their partner. They don't understand what responsibility is and don't want to compromise... and both genders are immature.

[TonyMetal___86]

Agreed! After all you're 46, not from this generation, women in your age range comes from an era where the majority of marriages lasted forever at all costs, women from your generation still believes in love and marriage, if you meet young girls, you will notice the big difference between you and them!

[IslaTheWitch]

I know many younger girls. They all believe in love forever and marriage. But they also don't plan to sacrifice their lives for a men who don't want to align and compromise.

[TonyMetal___86]

They all claim this but the reality is totally different, the majority of women will dump good men just like they dump the bad ones 😏

Unless the girl truly loved the guy than she will do anything possible to stay with him forever, such cases are very rare, especially these days!

How beautiful is it when you align and compromise with a woman who will just dump you later on and that's where you will go back to my text in the details!

I'm someone who doesn't trust words, i trust actions but lately i found out something new, i won't trust the actions only anynore, i'll trust the actions PLUS time, the more years passes by, the more the truth is showing up, in the end you can't act forever, at some point your real face will be revealed!

[IslaTheWitch]

show me data for "the majority of women will dump good men just like they dump the bad ones"

[TonyMetal___86]

I don't need the data, everywhere i look, hear or read, that's what's happening, i also have my own experiences, you're free to believe it or not miss isla!

[IslaTheWitch]

so we talk about your assumptions... you have yours I have mine... no space to talk about it

[TonyMetal___86]

True, there's no space to talk to about it because we disagree on this subject!
Especially if you're one of the women that i'm talking about, ofc you're not going to say that your bad 😏

[Anonymous]

One thing I noticed about the “women initiate most divorces” argument is that it’s only referring to who files the legal paperwork. It doesn’t take into consideration the actual breakdown of the relationship that precedes filing the paperwork. It's very possible that men are most likely responsible for breaking up their marriages more often than they let on but are letting the women go through with the effort to make things official.

[Opinion Owner]

Yes. I believe women are able to love for real.

[TonyMetal___86]

Maybe, but the majority of women that i saw till now from alk around the world aren't the way that you have described...

[Opinion Owner]

All I'm saying is there's a lot of shitty people and it seems like people are only getting worse. Men and women. I just dont think it's dishonest and unfair to automatically place all blame on women because they filed for divorce. Filing for divorce isn't the same as initiating the divorce and we have no idea what events lead up to her filing.

[TonyMetal___86]

Agreed! But i saw a lot of men who were good and had the same fate, i have my own experiences...
If the man is bad, than okay we say she did it cause he's bad but when he's good why did he had the same result...
The behavior of women these days is very sh*tty especially after being filled with femenazis sh*t and do not have a good upbringing and their entourage is filthy like a bad disease...

[Opinion Owner]

No argument there. Girls/women are definitely being brainwashed the feminist crap. It's sad for both men and women.

[TonyMetal___86]

👍🏻👍🏻

[SolitarySolace]

Love is a feeling. Someone who loves you can still stab you in the back. What we want is loyalty and women especially gen z and millennial women are anything but loyal. They claim to have too much love to give and apparently can’t give it to 1 man.

[TonyMetal___86]

Well said, the feminazis are happy like that and the new world order who wants demonic societies, where everything fails so that they will always be capable to rule easily...

[SolitarySolace]

Exactly

[jahaims]

A majority of people aren't emotionally mature enough to experience romantic love

[TonyMetal___86]

They don't even know what true love means, even though they claim that they do but they don't!
Do not have responsibility and aren't resiliant to the problems that comes with life!
Do not have the determination and principals in their lives...

[LaurenM1997]

I am ready for 100% in a relationship

[SolitarySolace]

Easy for you, difficult for men

[LaurenM1997]

@SolitarySolace not always

[LaurenM1997]

Men love woman equally

[SolitarySolace]

We do? I don’t

[SolitarySolace]

That puts 1 hole in your theory. I’m pretty sure there are other men out there who would also like to poke holes in it too

[LaurenM1997]

@SolitarySolace this is where you are wrong if I was in a relationship I would love the person I’m with equally don’t get me wrong there will be arguments and stuff at times but thats the way life is

[LaurenM1997]

It only puts a hole in if you don’t love woman equally

[SolitarySolace]

Love is a feeling and anyone can still be stabbed in the back by someone who claims to love them. Love is a double-edged sword. You’re always going to get hurt and putting a bandage on it won’t always help.

[LaurenM1997]

@SolitarySolace I’ve already got hurt and cheated on so yeah I know how it feels but that’s not my fault he was a complete arsehole

[LaurenM1997]

I know what it feels to be stabbed in the back by people it’s happened recently too but not with a guy with someone who shall not be named cause she’s horrible

[SolitarySolace]

@LaurenM1997, I was cheated on in all 4 of my past relationships. They were all assholes too. Every time I attempt to dip my toe back into finding someone to “love” I’ve been falsely accused and almost jailed, used for that love because they already had a boyfriend, and manipulated into spending over $1,000 on a woman and her friend. It seems easier for women to use love for their own advantages.

[LaurenM1997]

@SolitarySolace I wouldn’t take advantage of anyone and people know this

[LaurenM1997]

I’m sorry it happened to you

[SolitarySolace]

That’s what my ex said. And the woman who falsely accused me told me she doesn’t bite. Women lie. They also say things they believe in the moment and go against her own words the very next day.

[LaurenM1997]

@SolitarySolace I wouldn’t say that if I didn’t mean that I was sorry cause I am sorry

[SolitarySolace]

Sorry is just a word. It doesn’t mean anything to me

[LaurenM1997]

@SolitarySolace you can always talk to me if you are feeling down it sounds like you need someone to talk to

[SolitarySolace]

I have a counselor for that. I don’t discuss things privately with women they just use it against me or another man they actually know.

[LaurenM1997]

@SolitarySolace I just want to be your friend

[TonyMetal___86]

@LaurenM1997 i know that you're a good girl miss Lauren and i'll pray that you will always be this good loving lady...

[SolitarySolace]

I don’t do female friends, @LaurenM1997. The last female friend I had falsely accused me and I almost went to jail.

[TonyMetal___86]

@SolitarySolace believe me, this woman is different...

[SolitarySolace]

They all seem that way until they’re not @TonyMetal___86

[TonyMetal___86]

@SolitarySolace sent you a private message, please read it...

[LaurenM1997]

Believe me when I say this I am not the girl your thinking I am not nasty or anything I am a kind loyal person

[TonyMetal___86]

@LaurenM1997 i believe you miss Lauren 😊

[LaurenM1997]

Thanks 🙂 I wish the guy knew I was being truthful though 😕

[TonyMetal___86]

He will 🙂

[sheikalana]

I think so.

[TonyMetal___86]

I don't, you know about what i said is true...

[sheikalana]

You wrote a really long essay LOL I’m sorry but I didn’t have the patience to read and answered based only on the actual question.

[TonyMetal___86]

No problem, i understand...