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PSo there's this woman who just has it out for me. She's never been rude, but it's really obvious that she doesn't like me, and makes a point of getting away from me as fast a possible, and I've barely even said anything to her. She's got that creepy friendly-because-I-have-to-be thing that HR Reps always seem to have going on. She tried to get away from me the first time we ever spoke, this woman clearly has some problem with me. We'll call her "L," and the girl I like "P."

Unfortunately, P is one of L's besties. They took a trip to Europe together, they hang out a lot, and I'm pretty sure that L brought P into the church group that I'm in... P really trusts L a lot. L makes it a point to pull P away from talking with me whenever possible, and it happened at a social tonight.

P and I were getting along really well at church today. Right as L came up to say that P was late for something, and she needed to go, I invited P out to the social

L and P were sitting on some chairs, not even talking, and so I asked P if she wanted to play this game that our group had set up. She looks at me, smiles, and says "I'm actually going to finish my drink, but you should play." Which is a pretty firm "piss off."

Now... I've been down this "her friend hates me" road before, and I've never had any luck... should I just move on or is it worth trying to befriend L so that she'll let me talk with P?

I met her last year but we just became friends this year We joke a lot, make fun of each other, flirt, pretend to hate each other I realized i liked her and asked her to prom a month before school ended In the weeks leading up to prom we got a lot closer It was clear we liked each other

Everyone thoght we were dating

A couple days before the prom she went cold on me. She told a friend she didn't want to date me. We had a good time at prom but something was a little different. She was reserved and more quiet for some of the time. The rest she was fine

After prom i told her i liked her a lot as a friend and sometimes a little more. Not as really asking her out but to just let her know how i felt.

Since then she has been hot and cold. Sometimes she seems to be coming around & giving signs again. Sometimes she acts more distant

A conversation we had in a group chat tonight confused me and I don't know how to respond to it: Friends were talking ablut driving I said i would only drive with her in the car cause i didn't want anything to happen to someone i actually care about (Ik its mean this is the sort of stuff we joke about all the time)

She responded “funny thats not what you said a couple weeks ago” (I assume she would be referring to what we said at prom) I said i dont remember and asked if she could remind me and she changed the subject and let the moment go.

We hung out in a group the next day and she seemed pretty normal. She would make eye contact, laughing at all my jokes, smiling, etc. She was flirting a lot with one of my friends for most of the night, and I also flirted with these two other girls a little bit, so I don't know what to do.

Then the next day she was leaving me on opened (other than her streaks snaps) intil she got deunk and started snapping with me and a few others in our group chat

So should i text her about this (alone) and see whats going on. Is she trying to find out if i still like her or angry for some reason? I don't know whats going on?

I met her last year but we just became friends this year We joke a lot, make fun of each other, flirt, pretend to hate each other I realized i liked her and asked her to prom a month before school ended In the weeks leading up to prom we got a lot closer It was clear we liked each other

Everyone thoght we were dating, we were just on the borderline of actually dating

A couple days before the prom she went cold on me. She told a friend she didn't want to date me. We had a good time at prom but something was a little different. She was reserved and more quiet for some of the time. The rest she was fine

After prom i told her i liked her a lot as a friend and sometimes a little more. Not as really asking her out but to just let her know how i felt.

Since then she has been hot and cold. Sometimes she seems to be coming around & giving signs again. Sometimes she acts more distant

A conversation we had in a group chat tonight confused me and I don't know how to respond to it: Friends were talking ablut driving I said i would only drive with her in the car cause i didn't want anything to happen to someone i actually care about (Ik its mean this is the sort of stuff we joke about all the time)

She responded “funny thats not what you said a couple weeks ago” (I assume she would be referring to what we said at prom)

I said i dont remember and asked if she could remind me and she changed the subject and let the moment go.

We hung out in a group the next day and she seemed pretty normal. She would make eye contact, laughing at all my jokes, smiling, etc. She was flirting a lot with one of my friends for most of the night, and I also flirted with these two other girls a little bit, so I don't know what to think.

So should i text her about this (alone) and see whats going on. Is she trying to find out if i still like her or angry for some reason? I don't know whats going on?