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When I logically lay out statistics and biology as to why promiscuous behavior is toxic to relationships and the individual, the default response is that men are insecure. My response to that is, what's wrong with having some insecurity? I don't know what guy who wouldn't be at least a little insecure dating a girl who has a huge sex history and reputation for putting out for almost anyone. Logically, it makes more sense that they have a higher chance of straying. It's only natural for those insecurities to arise at some point in the relationship, and to suggest that you're supposed to be entirely absent of this insecurity even when your girl has a strong history indicating a higher chance of infidelity seems irrational.

I think I have a unique understanding to the topic given that I've been on both sides. The thing is, I slept around a lot during my college years. I experienced first hand what it was like, and I can personally attest that it's very toxic. When I dated, and girls knew my reputation, I completely understood as to why they had trouble trusting me or if they didn't want to emotionally invest into me. I didn't shame them and force my lifestyle down people's throats expecting acceptance. That's very immature in my opinion.

But concluding, why is it a crime for a woman or man to feel insecure being with someone who statistically has the highest chance of cheating, or straying? Why would it be a crime to be insecure when you're wondering how you compare to his/her huge list? These are very natural responses to promiscuous behavior. No man or woman wants to imagine their life partner being fucked by a ton of strangers who didn't give a shit about them. No man wants to imagine his wife being used as a locker room story about her in her most intimate state. That's degrading.

This is a controversial topic. Please read before you answer. At first I would like to point out the negatives of illegal prostitution : When you see or hear the word “Prostitution” your first thought is probably underage drugged girls forced to have sex for payment. Well I’m some cases that is the truth about illegal prostitution. How you make this stop? Just make it legal and fight the illegal activities. If you can find legal brothels and call girls , secure and healthy , the illegal activities will be reduced. Another side effect you can see but media don’t point it out is that men who can’t have sex for several issues like disabilities or let’s say that a male around his mid 20s overweight balding , not attractive by any means Can’t have sex like other men do , the only way this man can have sex is through prostitution. If those men cannot get legal sex imagine what happens next? Depression and many men get mind sick and even try to hurt women! If prostitution was legal all those side effects would disappear. Plus there must be legal brothels for both genders. Imagine a girl with disabilities or just too ugly to get laid? Now I’ll talk about the positive facts that will happen if prostitution will be legal : We can de that in Europe. Most European countries got legal brothels and call girls. Benefit No1 : Better economy and new business opportunities. No2 : Sex workers will not hide anymore and forced prostitution will stop. No3 : People could get sex easy and safe-legal. No4 : I’ll minded people will stop mass attacks on women.
Comment your thoughts guys and girls.
Plus for those who say that prostitution is for losers no it is not. It’s completely different to have sex with your girlfriend than having sex with a sex worker. If you wondering what I mean I’ll make a new topic about this.