For my part, I was starting considering this relationship as a long-term one. I told him I have a lot of personal issues (family) that I’ve never told him about, so I’m very nervous on a regular basis. And I met him right after a 2y-toxic relationship, so I had a hard time trusting him.
So, I was not completely open and outgoing with him. That’s why I asked him a second chance, because the ‘spark’ thing is not enough to end up things, but he is not willing to let us more time...
What I don’t get is, the morning preceding the breakup, he just did a STD screening, like that we could finally have safe sex. For me, it was the sign of him wanting a long-term relationship with me.
He was the first guy being serious and kind with me, I’m really disappointed and hurted. We are going to see us and to have a talk in a week or two. Is there a chance for him changing his mind until then, and is there a possibility for him suddenly missing me by having no contact for a few days? (It is our 1st time spending time apart)
Thank a lot
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