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Even if you did or didn’t care to interracially date, would your parents care if you did?

My mom, dad and grandma have dated some of every race. As have I. However, I see no interest in dating someone who’s constantly jokes about stereotypical things and makes racially insensitive comments on the daily. For example, my grandpa loves to flirt with women of all races yet he doesn’t feel the different races should officially mix in terms of dating/marriage. And he only comments negatively on women dating outside of their race yet praises the men getting laid by different races. I’ve had to call him out several times about his double standards and slick comments in order for him to respect my history in dating a rainbow of men. But at the same time, no one in my family has ever been able to stop me from dating who I want. And I just personally refuse to continue showing interest in someone who allows their family to dictate who they date. Of course, I still find many men attractive but i lost interest in dating outside my race a good while back. Its just too much drama with the cultural differences and clearly not who I see myself building a future with in the long run. But i do have moments where i consider making an exception to the rule, only to end up regret that decision. Like I’ve really gotta stick to my stance.
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Ight so I’m part of the “boys” to an extent. Yk the one girl the boys always got around whenever they hang out? That’s me. Anytime I party it’s with the homies.
I started catching feelings for this one dude in the squad but when we were both single we were close buddies and he would tell me “BAS” (females ain’t shit) and I’d tell him the same thing back but male version.
Anytime he makes a joke, I’m always the first person he looks to to see if I found the joke funny. Whenever we party at my house we always end up falling asleep side by side (more like my back against his chest), bodies pressed up against each other. He got a girl, moved in with her, been with her for a good 2 years now.
It’s been a minute since I last saw him. I recently just threw a party and invited all the homies (obviously him and his girl included, his girl denied he didn’t) I ended up getting way too shitfaced and falling asleep early. When I went down in the morning I accidentally took this dude’s seat on the sofa so he told me to move to the right so he can sit where I was sitting. These two seats were the only connected seats on all our sitting spaces. There was a good 7 other seats he could've chosen. When he sat next to me we shared covers and he’d have a part of his body leaning on me. Still making eye contact with me first anytime he throws a joke. Always cheesin my way. Anytime I would compliment him he’d stare dead in my eyes and give me the cutest shy smile.
Maybe he’s just friendly like that? He never shot his shot when he was single even tho I would always hint at him to. We were the oh they would be such a cute couple kinda friends but I don’t know if he ever saw me like that. He has a whole girl waiting for him at home. Does this dude feel sumn for me or am I tripping?