Had a relationship with a guy that seemed like it was going nowhere. No actual commitment. Just make-out buddies who talk all the time. I decided to confront him. I basically told him we are either going to be in a committed relationship or we’re done. No in-between. Days went by. He finally said, “I think it has been over for a while now, and you know it to! It's not you, it's me obviously. This wouldn't be the first time for me either.” I didn’t respond. The next day he sends his original text message and circled the part where it said, “I think it has been over for awhile now.” And said, “that’s not what it was supposed to say. It was supposed to say I don’t think it’s over. I’m sorry I’m a little tipsy. I’m sorry that’s no excuse.” I was so confused. So I just told him he’s fine, and to do what’s best for him. He responded with stuff like, “No it’s not fine. I acted like an ass when you wanted to talk. It’s not right. It’s probably too late. I do like you too. And I know I’m bad with these situations. I’m sorry for not saying anything earlier. It’s too late to make it up. Would you be willing to talk in person?” So we met up. He said he likes me, but he’s not ready for a relationship mentally. Something about his past that’s holding him back. I told him I understand, but I’m not willing to wait anymore. So we ended it. Immediately the next day he started messaging me on Snapchat. Like nothing changed. My friend had a party bus 2 weeks later for her birthday. He was on it. We flirted. (Touching each other, joking, sat close to each other..) Everyone thought we’d make out. Long story short, I ended up making out with another guy. Everyone saw, including him. After that, he hasn’t replied to any of my snaps. But he watches my stories. Do you think he’s mad? Jealous? I don’t really understand what’s going through his mind. This whole situation is frustrating. I can’t avoid him because we both have the same friends. It’s unavoidable. I don’t know what to do.
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You met in person he told you he is not ready for relationship mentally move on2
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When you kissed the other guy in front of him, you basically said “hey, I have other options!” Maybe he’s disappointed and turned off
If a guy did that in front of me, which one has after I rejected him, I wasn’t jealous because I hardly knew the girl. More turned off than anything.
And it was more a friend one thing, not a rejection because I was very attracted to him.. but he seemed like the type to move fast and I was trying to slow that down. He took it as rejection rejection
More a Friend zone thing*
But when I stopped talking to him, he realized I HAD some type of feelings for him.. apparently he was just making me jealous too. The ass tests you..
That could be possible. Although he had over a year to move this relationship forward. He decided not to. So we ended things on a friendly manor. I just don’t think he knows what he wants exactly. He started messaging again as of yesterday. I’m choosing not to respond. It’s too confusing and frustrating.
Well he’s cautious. Lotta crazy bitches out there. I don’t blame him