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My ex boyfriend of 1 year was in jail and I waited for him and have always been extremely loyal to him and he knows this. We were practically living together for list of our relationship.

Now when he returned from jail we were having some stupid fights about finances and what I should wear when we go out, my weight loss diet, etc... stupid things that aren’t unresolveable... he was then telling me that He felt unappreciated which is not true cuz I always showed him that I love and care about him: he had a surgery and I went every single day to see him at the hospital and to take care of him.

June 28th he went on a date with a girl and I found out by chance... and we fought Bout it and then June 29th we broke up... but he said there may be a chance for us to fix things because I waited for him for 3 months when he was jailed.

for 2 weeks now I didn’t see him cuz I wasn’t well and I had fainted... I wasn’t always answering my phone either cuz I was very depressed... he keeps on telling me that he misses me and that he still loves me and cares about me and keeps asking me to come over to spend time togther with me and he wants to take me to a movie...
he also told me he is unsure about the other girl (she’s total opposite of me an aggressive gothic chic and I’m a sweet sensitive type of a girl). She also fights him a lot too... and people keep saying he’s crazy for her and they say they love each other all over social media...

is he realizing his mistake? Does he potentially wanna get back togther with me? Or is he really in love with this new chic after 5 weeks?

Me and my ex were together for just over a year and practically living together. We did a lot together - he helped me lose weight, get my drivers licence, and came with me to doctors appointments. We did a lot of firsts together and had/ have a great connection.
He went to jail for 3 months and I waited for him and he was appreciative and happy and was calling me everyday telling me he loves me and was talking about making future plans - we were getting serious and his mom even invited me over for Jewish Passover holiday. Now during the month of June we had quite a few fights over stupid stuff like what I should wear when we go out, my diet and I was also getting irritated when he was on his phone a lot and he was getting overly sensitive anytime I wanted to go back to my house for 3 days and then come back to him. He was scared of me leaving him and he also felt unappreciated , but I always showed him I cared for him - like going to the hospital everyday when he had surgery. Now he starts dating someone who is totally the opposite of me exactly 2 days after we broke up and after 3 weeks they are saying “I love you” to each other. But he says he still wants to work stufff out & possibly get back together. He still kisses me and has me sleeping over at his place during the week and only sees this girl on weekends, but he tells me he doesn’t have history with her like he does with me... and says he needs time and doesn’t prefer her over me right now and that it depends on me and doesn’t know what he wants to do. She’s a dark gothic girl and he’s a classy type of a guy who wears suits and likes to be well dressed and she’s way taller than him and is the total opposite of me - I’m sweet and sensitive, she’s the psycho angry aggressive type and dresses like a punk rocker - totally different from me!
Also it moved very quick - after 3 or 4 weeks saying that they are in love?
Is he in a rebound relationship? And is there a chance for me and him to be back together?

is that a complete turn off?
Do guys care about this?
They're not huge bunions, but they are mild bunions and you can see them if she's barefoot.

Would you rather her have had surgery to remove them before she met you or after or you don't care if she has the surgery or not and don't care she has this?

My boyfriend wants to meet me already but I want to have the surgery first.
If I have the surgery, I have to wait about 4 or 5 months before we meet.
He does not know I have this and I do not know if he minds this at all.

What do most guys think about this?
Should I go meet him like this or WAIT until after? without telling him it is because of this.