You finally meet your online girlfriend and she has bunions? yuk?

[Anonymous]

is that a complete turn off?
Do guys care about this?
They're not huge bunions, but they are mild bunions and you can see them if she's barefoot.

Would you rather her have had surgery to remove them before she met you or after or you don't care if she has the surgery or not and don't care she has this?

My boyfriend wants to meet me already but I want to have the surgery first.
If I have the surgery, I have to wait about 4 or 5 months before we meet.
He does not know I have this and I do not know if he minds this at all.

What do most guys think about this?
Should I go meet him like this or WAIT until after? without telling him it is because of this.

Complete turn off. I wouldn't stay with her.

Somewhat of a turn off, I prefer if she had had surgery before she met me.

I don't really care, and don't mind if she has surgery or not.

It's a turn off but i'll stay with her and hope she gets surgery.

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I can't post a photo but This is a bunion

[kaewk]

Bunions? Like the hard skin on ur foot? Lol I doubt any man would even notice that.

[Harmseygrace]

I'm pretty sure it's where your toe points to the other and causes a bump. That's really true though. 😂

[Asker]

No.
Bunion is when your big toe is leaning inward instead of straight.

[Asker]

The ones replying are telling me to keep my socks or shoes on... it means they do notice and do care.
If I can’t get surgery I’m just gonna stay alone forever. Men are so superficial it’ is really sad.. I’m gonna break up with him 😔

[Harmseygrace]

If he's with you he obviously doesn't care. Not all men are, good guys wouldn't give a shit. Don't break up with your boyfriend over something that silly.

[CT_CD]

Somewhat of a turn off, I prefer if she had had surgery before she met me.

[Asker]

That's what i'm trying to do but i don't want to tell him because even knowing it's there seems somewhat gross to me and i rather not tell him and just do it but he got mad that i told him i can't meet him until 5 months or so.. and he stopped talking to me for 2 days but now talking to me again and insists we meet next month but I don't want to like this. I'm scared of surgery and i'm scared to lose him.

[CT_CD]

Tell him you broke your toe

[Asker]

:o oh wow! Thats a good idea!! thanks!!

[Asker]

Is it very bad? I just went to the doctor and I won’t be able to get surgery yet. Should I go meet him or just tell him to find someone else?

[CT_CD]

Meet him

[Asker]

Buts he’s gonna be grossed out by me

[CT_CD]

Keep your shoes on

[Asker]

What weirdo has sex with shoes on? XD
Why is this so bad 😞
I think I’m just gonna break up with him. I’m gonna stay alone 😔

[Jackp0t777]

meet him just don't take your socks off for a while is that so hard?

[Asker]

wellll it's gonna be weird to have sex with socks on?
and he also loves heels... with heels on you can't really tell but if he takes them off for me? am i gnna yell no! don't take them off? and what about showering? he said he wants to shower with me xD

[Jackp0t777]

Wait you are gonna just have sex this quick? You never even met yet

[Asker]

well i know him for a long time online, it's like i know him and if i'm flying so far to see him, it would be kind of pointless to meet him just as a friend, especially when i feel so strongly for him.

[Jackp0t777]

Yea but you don't just jump into bed with someone trust me it can go real bad real fast.

[Asker]

why? I really like him and i've never had sex before EVER
I just dont' want to gross him out or disappoint him with this awful thing but I told him in 5 months or so without telling him why so i can get this done before i meet him but he wants to meet me next month. I'm scared he's just gonna leave me if i don't meet him this month but if i do meet him this month he might still leave me if it causes a big turn off to have this. I'm just confused as to what to do.

[Harmseygrace]

No good guys going to give a shit

[Iron_Man]

I'm not familiar with that

[Asker]

the big toe on the foot is leaning inward instead of straight.
Mostly caused by shoes. it's not so big but it's there you can see it!

[Iron_Man]

Im sorry. Go to a foot doc Hun and see what he can do