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I met this nice guy 3 months ago. He started flirting with me and ask if we can hangout sometimes. I said yes and he ask for my phone number. He texted me last month on August 18th wanting to hangout. We did hangout for a couple hours before he went home. He keep telling me that he find me attractive and like me. I haven't heard from him after a week. So I did send him a text asking how he doing and what he been up to. No response. I waited another week to send another text message. No response. I was talking to my female friend about it. She told me that he is the same guy who had been texting her everyday starting from August 19th. He went to see her at the job where she is a waitress in a restaurant. He asked her out and wanted to possible take the relationship to the next level. I was not happy after hearing all of the informations. It made me realize why he never respond back to my text messages. He was texting another woman. My friend send him a text and ask him about me. It took him a day to respond back to her message. He apologized and told my friend that he was sorry for blowing me off. I did send him a text messages telling him that I know about him texting another woman and that I am done chasing after him. I feel that he did played me for a fool. My friend decide to stopped texting him and keep our friendship. I was surprised cause I didn't mean to cause the dramas like that. She told me that he was in the wrong in this situation. I haven't talk or send him any text messages for two weeks now. I was serious when I told him that I don't have the times for his games.

So today I was going through my guy friend's phone (he was sitting right next to me you can calm down) and he was showing me a funny exchange between him and a mutual friend of ours , I was reading while he was talking to a guy next to him. I scrolled a little further up then I suppose he wanted me to see and saw my name in the chat and found a conversation between him and a mutual friend of ours where they were literally discussing me and my other female friend's bodies in detail and arguing about whose was better. I was shocked because they were being so crude and him and I are really good friends, closer than he probably is with the guy he was talking to. They were being so detailed too, and discussing like every thing. My first response while reading the text was literally "oh my god *insert name*!" and when he turned to me, i put the phone down and said "oh my godddd, please don't talk about me like that". I got all red faced and panicky but luckily the lesson ended and I didn't see him for the rest of the day

It's not like I'm prudish or anything, but it was just that he's a friend of mine (we've been friends for a while and we talk about everything, our friendship is seriously as platonic as you can get) and I get that yeah you might look, but likeeeee, this is a bit much.

Is this normal for guys?11?1?