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We've been together for 3 years and we both love each other a lot. I know it may seem like I don't from my actions but I do.

When I was at a conference for work, I met a man who was very forward and honest about his intentions with me. He kept making advances and I kept stopping him. Eventually I gave in. I wasn't thinking and I made a big mistake. I felt horrible after it happened and I know it was a one time thing so I decided not to tell my boyfriend. This was two weeks ago.

My boyfriend said he felt like I was being distant lately. So yesterday he planned a really lovely date. After the date we had really passionate sex. We were lying in bed post-sex and he was kissing all over my face saying how much he loved me. It was such a lovely night and it made me feel horrible about what I'd done and I ended up telling him. He was pretty shocked and he left my place after I told him.

I am the first girl he's ever been with (kiss, sex everything) and he's a romantic sort of a guy so honestly I think he will forgive me. When we met he had been rejected by a lot of girls because he's short (seriously, you should have heard the things they said to him) and he had bad self-confidence as a result. I know it's probably not the best reason to stay with someone, but I think he will stay with me, if only because he thinks he couldn't get another girl. I don't think that but I think he does. I'm just wondering how long until we will get back to normal. How long until he fully forgives me?

My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years and have been planning on moving in together in about 4 months. We had plans of marrying each other, having kids and family. We have had lots of hardships but we are good together. We had to fight for our love with my parents since they are traditionally conservative Asian parents and didn;t approve of my relationship with him because he is not the person they want me to be with. But our love still stayed strong and finally taking that next step of moving in together. Then I found out this morning that he got really drunk last night while being out with the guys (he went out of town for guys trip) and kissed another girl and tried to meet up with her afterwards but couldn't find her so came back to where he was staying. He apologized and started crying when I told him that we can't be together since this is not the first time he meessed up. Just 6 months ago I found out that he was inappropriately talking to other girls, flirting and such but never was physical. He apologized to me then saying he will never flirt with another girl and how much he loves me. We worked it out and he was good for 6 months- he lets me look at his phone or ask him where he is going and we have been doing more couply things and hanging out and such. and now this happens. He feels very remorseful and started crying saying he couldn't lose me and he will do whatever it takes to make it right. But I see a pattern of him talking to girls just getting worse. HE is a very friendly, out going guy and can talk to anyone, guys or girls he will make friends with. I believe that he was super drunk and was no thinking and made a mistake of kissing another girl, but I cannot trust that he won't do this again in about few months. Do I forgive him for being super drunk and give him another chance since we have been together for so long and we love each other? I am leaning towards just moving on, making a break-up since I'm not sure how to trust him anymor

Disclosure: There is a very controversial decision in this situation. What is done It's done there is no point in lecturing me. With that being said here is my situation.
So last summer i ended up dating this guy. We really had some chemistry. The only problem was i wasn't looking for anything serious at the time so both eventually moved on. That was ok by me, we parted on good terms, but i found out i was pregnant with his baby a month and a half later. At first he wanted me to keep it, But eventually got scared and changed his mind, But i wasn't sure that was what i wanted. After a long and emotional journey, i desided not to have the child, but i hated him for Not being there to support me or my decision in the end. I would have been ok with never hearing from him again, But a month ago he calls me and asks if we can talk. I meet with him and he looks a mess. He tells me that he made a big mistake and that he really wishes he could go back and change it. He tells me that he really wanted to be with me before and can't move past me. And hopes i can forgive him for walking out on me when i needed him. I basically desided that i didn't want to hate him, it isn't in me to hate anybody, so i told him that if he desided to talk to me, i wouldn't hang up. It would be slow, but i was willing to crack the door a bit and see what happens. Since then, he has been non stop amazing. He brings more flowers at work, drives a half hour to see me on my lunch breaks, and its just an all around great guy. I just don't know if i should trust him. He is really trying. If there wasn't such a bad history i could definitely see a future with him. But it is what it is and I'm completely lost. I don't know if he came back out of guilt or if he really wants me. Anybody have perspective on the situation?