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Engaged, wedding in 4 months, no sex before marriage (no, really. no slippery slope here. not going to happen, just trust me and let's not discuss how it leads to sex because it doesn't).

But how about hot and heavy make-out session? Passionate kissing, lying on top of each other, caressing each other's bodies (no genital areas), kissing ears, stomach, legs, sitting in his lap etc. and THE FARTHEST thing that could ever happen would be touching her butt or breasts? Is that alright, how do you think?

I would love to hear your opinion, thank you! Comments are very appreciated too!

P. S. When I created this account, I messed up and now it shows I am under 18 but I am 22, sorry about this being confusing :D

Hey guys,

This is a poll for those who are Christians, but if you aren't religious your opinion is still highly valued and I would love to hear it in the comment section, just don't vote please, so that I can get a clear picture of what modern young Christians think. Thank you!

I am a 25 years old virgin, engaged. The things between me and him are going great and I love everything that's going on between us but sometimes I get confused and I am afraid we do sin even though we don't do not engage in any sexual activities. Making out is as far as we go, it does get really hot and heavy sometimes though (but no hands down there, nothing like that). He did touch my breasts several times really gently though and that was amazing but I am definitely not sure about that, really. So I would appreciate your opinion on this, whatever it is!

It should be said though that both he and I are Christians but we share the opinion that when the Bible was written, people would get married really young and not even knowing each other, so obviously romantic kissing, cuddling or moreover, making out and anything further than that would be considered not appropriate. Back then the woman would be betrothed, and then they would really communicate only after their first wedding night, right? Now the situation is very different and many people date for many months or years. The society has changed GREATLY, and so did the relationships between men and women. I am saying this because it's just a fact, not because I try to make an excuse, by the way :) It's just what we are thinking and we would love to hear your opinion too. We certainly do not want to have sex before marriage. But what about all the other stuff, what about all this "grey area"?

So tell me, what are your boundaries and why? Any comments are really appreciated! Thank you in advance!

Hey guys,

So this is my first question here and I would really appreciate your answers because this is something important to me! This is a poll for those, who are Christians, but if you aren't religious, your opinion is still highly valued and I would love to hear it in the comment section, just don't vote please, so that I can get a clear picture of what modern young Christians think. Thank you!

I am a 25 years old virgin, engaged. The things between me and him are going great and I lovу everything that's going on between us but sometimes I get confused and I am afraid we do sin even though we don't do not engage in any sexual activities. Making out is as far as we go, it does get really hot and heavy sometimes though (but no hands down there, nothing like that). He did touch my breasts several times really gently though and that was amazing but I am definitely not sure about that, really. So I would appreciate your opinion on this, whatever it is!

It should be said though that both he and I are Christians but we share the opinion that when the Bible was written, people would get married not even knowing each other, so obviously romantic kissing, cuddling or moreover, making out and anything further than that would be considered not appropriate. Back then the woman would be betrothed, and then they would really communicate only after their first wedding night, right? Now the situation is very different and many people date for many months or years. The society has changed GREATLY, and so did the relationships between men and women. I am saying this because it's just a fact, not because I try to make an excuse, by the way :) It's just what we are thinking. We certainly do not want to have sex before marriage. But what about all the other stuff, what about all this "grey area"?

So tell me, what are your boundaries and why? Any comments are really appreciated! Thank you in advance!

I am talking to this guy I met from OKC for around 2 weeks. Before we met in person, we FaceTimed and spoke on the phone for hours. When we met in person, we went on a date to a fine dining location and we discussed prior to meeting up to possibly go play video games at his pad. I say pad because he is a truck driver that recently moved from another location and is still residing in the truck. The inside looks like a tiny room. After the date, we went to this truck and relaxed. He asked to kiss me.

We ended up making out and it got pretty hot (in my opinion at least). He is not a virgin and I still am. I am not necessarily saying that I am going to wait until marriage but I wanted to know worst case scenario if he would. And he said no because he believes a partner should have sex before marriage to confirm there is a legitimate intimacy connection.

He told his mom about me and I asked him when he was going to delete his OKC profile during the date because he seemed to like me. And we both deleted our profiles together.

We hung out the next day because it was New Year’s Eve. I asked 1st because I thought he would want to do something. If I was okay relaxing, he was okay with me coming over and playing video games again.

That turned into second base for me and he wanted to go down on me but I wasn’t ready. Anytime I said stop depending on my mood or feeling, he listens and we talk. He drove over an hr to see me for the first date and said he is willing to take 2 days off a week to spend time together. He also invited me to go on a cruise with him for his birthday because he has a time share.

He says he only believes in titles when it comes time to address a woman to other people. But he said he does consider me his girlfriend because he is only seeing me and we are intimate. But he said if the title is too soon for me, there is no rush. There is no rush for sex either. Am I being played? He says I have nothing to worry about but I don’t trust men 😶.

So I met this guy from online. And we started talking for around 2 weeks. We had our first date last Saturday (if that’s what you want to call it). I felt a connection with him and we held hands on the date and such. After the date, even prior to the date, we talked about video games and how he has his semi truck that he lives in for the time being because he is a truck driver. We brought up playing video games after the date. After the restaurant, we went to his pad and while he started the game system, he asked to kiss me. Long story short:
We ended up making out and it felt pretty hot. I am a virgin and I do not necessarily want to wait until marriage. I feel as if I’m ready if it’s with the right guy. And I asked him if he was willing to wait and he said no. It’s not apparently only due to his sex drive, he believes a couple should have sex before marriage to confirm there is a strong intimate connection. I asked him how long does he generally wait before he makes someone his girlfriend and he says labels are an external thing (as in how he’d address the person to other people). But he said, he would considered me his girlfriend because he is apparently seeing me exclusively and we are/ were intimate. Is he fucking around with me?