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Search Results: should i pursue her
Not ready for a relationship? Any tips on how to pursue this respectfully? Is it worth it? Advice?
So I recently matched with a guy on a dating app. I am not big into this sort of thing but gave it a shot. We hit it off right away and I gave him my number. We started talking a lot and snapchatting too. After about two...
Anonymous
(30-35) Jeslous of my boyfriend?
He has everything I dont. He has a family who treats him like a king (he's an only child). My family treats me like I dont exist (youngest of 9.) He gets to pursue his dream jobs. I have to put my life on hold...
Anonymous
(25-29) Have you ever had a good gut feeling about someone?
There’s a girl I went to college with that I can’t get out of my head. It’s like a little crush that just won’t go away. Three years ago, when I was in college, I went to a party and crossed paths with her. I was...
Anonymous
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ShiningWalwus
Xper 7 Age: 34 He was pursuing me at first and now he hardly attempts to move things forward. Is there a way to revive this?
I’ve been getting to know this guy for about 5 months. At first he was pursuing me with constant communication and setting up dates. On our last date over a month again he mentioned that we should go on a day trip...
fivestargal
Xper 2 Age: 31 Why Real Men Choose Bigger Girls: An Essay on Unconventional Truths
The father of modern total warfare, William Tecumseh Sherman, once said “When a man is too lazy to work and too cowardly to steal, he becomes an editor and manufactures public opinion.” Speaking long before the age social...
Matthew2222
Explorer Age: 28 Girls, why are guys automatically labelled as players for pursuing multiple girls?
Girls should realize guys are rejected often, now, for me, I can't speak on behalf of the intentions of all guys. However, for me, I have to keep moving and asking out different girls, if 20 girls reject me, i'll ask 30....
Anonymous
(36-45) What do you think of a partner who wants to “motivate” you to life out their dreams?
A guy told me he wants me to be an entrepreneur and I told him I like my job. He said I wasn’t “moving forward in life” and that I would be stuck with mediocrity all my life if I was afraid of making the leap to success....
Anonymous
(25-29) I’ve been talking with this guy off and on since November 2018?
THE DETAILS It’s normal for us to take breaks for a couple months for the sake of our mental health since everything these days revolves around the media. The usual break consists of 2-4 months without speaking. He also...
xemsmariexx
Xper 2 Age: 24 Do you think nannying is a legit career path?
I was an au pair in Spain. Now, locally in the States I am a full time nanny. I also have other babysitting clients. However, I have a degree in Business Marketing. I never used it, and graduated 6 years ago. I keep...
Anonymous
(30-35) Should I Move On?
I met a guy on Bumble about a month ago. He's nice but we still haven't gone out in person. We've had a handful of video "dates" and he claims to have been sick this past week. He says he's been busy and that's why we...
taywallee22
Xper 2 Age: 28 Should I keep pursuing this guy?
I matched with this guy on Tinder two weeks ago. He told me he wanted a reason to delete Tinder, so I decided that maybe this guy would be a good person to go slow with. We haven’t had sex yet but we have kissed. He lives...
Anonymous
(25-29) How do I go about this?
Back story. I met a guy on tinder basically for a friends with benefits thing, we hooked up once and then the following week we talked here and there and then The second week after I got my period and refused to message...
Anonymous
(30-35) Girls, how do you feel about economists warning of another Great Depression & political analysts/religious scholars mentioning the possibility of WW3?
I often hear or read things from girls/women adamantly state with assertiveness that marriage is pathetic or pointless. That focusing 110% of one's time should go towards work or a career instead of pursuing a...
Anonymous
(30-35) A guy I really care about and have known for 4 years ghosted me. What would you do? Should I do anything?
a guy I have known for 4 years ghosted me. We just recently started seeing each other more than just friends. He introduced me to his family and friends. Had me at his house. We were intimate/romantic but did not have...
Anonymous
(30-35) How can you tell the difference between genuinely liking someone and liking the idea of them?
My best friend thinks I only like the idea of being with this woman but not actually liking her the person. He says that it is because of our age difference. She’s 8 years older than me. He said women mature faster than...
Anonymous
(30-35) He’s 19. I’m 26. I feel guilty for having a crush on him or pursuing him. Should not pursue something with him?
I’ve always dated guys 7-15 years older than me me. Never younger. Then I met this guy, and I just like him. His personality and looks and everything. But I feel like a weirdo, or like I’m too old for this. And when I...
Anonymous
(30-35) Am I too old to be an artist (painting/drawing)?
I’m 22 almost 23 and I've always loved art and always loved to paint/draw. but I didn’t really feel like “this is what I should be doing “ until now. i just started taking it seriously like a year ago im...
Anonymous
(25-29) The difference between a teacher and a sage - my own personal view
In the bible Jesus judges the sadducees and pharisees because they know how to interpret the sign in the sky but cannot interpret the sign of the times So what is the sign of the sky? If it is cloudy, it will rain. If it...
Is it too forward to ask a guy on a dating app for their social media?
I'm I making myself too accessible by asking to chat outside of the dating app? Is that something I should leave up to the guy to ask? I'm not a fan of the dating app atmosphere, so I prefer to talk with someone I'm...
SpiderLady
Xper 6 Age: 33 