He was pursuing me at first and now he hardly attempts to move things forward. Is there a way to revive this?

[fivestargal]

I’ve been getting to know this guy for about 5 months. At first he was pursuing me with constant communication and setting up dates. On our last date over a month again he mentioned that we should go on a day trip somewhere and I agreed it was a great idea and that we should. Weeks later I brought up casually us meeting up and he said either that weekend if not the weekend after we could see each other. Both weekends passed and while we texted he never brought it up. Was I supposed to bring up plans? It’s been a week since we communicated. I stopped replying to him because the texts were getting boring. I enjoy his company but I don’t want to get strung along with only texting. Am I better off leaning back and see if he initiates something or should I try keep the conversation alive?

[ZackBan]

You know he's probabily on gag too under some werid username asking
"Things were going so well between us but now she's ignoring me how do I fix it?"

Look if you want more than texting then day it to him don't play a guessing game with no clues.
Like if he was me I'd probably decide "she doesn't want me I seems" and move on.
But then again after 5 months of dates I'd say you're either dating or you're not.
If you're still being hard to get this late in the game then yes he'll eventually move on.

[jspl90]

I mean is it him always making plans and chasing you? Sometimes it can feel like there no interest if the other side never does anything to advance the relationship i know the traditional way is for men to be the active but ask yourself this are you actually doing anything? You could actually be too passive🤔lets make a thought play swap your sides imagine yourself in his boots you have been actively courting this girl for months yet is it always you making plans always you texting hey you wanna meetup this day etc sure it works for a while but after sometime it can become tiring🙄 maybe try being more active ask him hey there is this restaurant i have wanted to try wanna go there this Saturday etc but if things are like that the flame has gone out at least you know you tried

[Anonymous]

unfortunately, there is nothing you can do but be honest with him and tell him you really like him but you’re looking for a real relationship not some texting fling, and if he wants to be in that with you, that you need commitment, and if he doesn’t, that’s okay but you need someone who can give you that.

[teamvic]

Only try to put in the effort if he is. You say the conversation is getting boring, that simply means he's doesn't care to stop it from getting boring. Dont try to keep talking to someone who is not trying. Trust me I tried it, it didn't work

[Iron_Man]

Honestly it sounds like you guys are on your way out you stop communicating with him and you didn’t even tell him anything

[In_Trance]

probably not

[mrgspoter]

And poof