Why did he stop making an effort with me?

[Anonymous]

I've had a crush on this guy for such a long time now. And we recently started talking consistently. And he was so sweet, curious and very flirty. But also very honest about himself. I really really liked him. We even had a “intimate” moment.

After that, he was still making an effort with me. Then a few days later, he said he had an off day and went to the gym as he had “things on his mind”. From then, he doesn’t talk to me much anymore. And if he does, he doesn’t make an effort to engage with me. If I try to be playful like we always were, he shuts me down and withdraws. It makes me feel incredibly incredibly insecure.

i mean he's so attractive, my mind has already adopted the idea that, someone else has probably come into the picture and gotten his attention.

[FilmGuy93]

He probably just panicked about how things were going. Just play it cool and let things progress however they will.

[spartan55]

Of course, it always has to be someone else. Such lazy thinking.
Maybe he got bored with you because you weren't showing interest, or matching his effort?

[Asker]

I was the one that was reaching out to him and trying to make conversation.

[spartan55]

Okay, is this guy your boyfriend? You weren't real clear.

[Anonymous]

You only make men with you by giving him your pussy anytime n good blowjob otherwise we have many options...

[Asker]

It wasn’t an “anytime” thing. At least to me, it wasn’t. I had specifically made it clear that I prefer not to get intimidate with anyone unless I am actually interested in them. And that he was the second person i’ve been with.

But lesson learned.. thanks for your opinion anyway lol

[Opinion Owner]

Wyd right now?

[Asker]

Responding to you.

[Opinion Owner]

Quick blowjob?

[Asker]

Ha ha, very funny.

[Opinion Owner]

See I make you laugh
Now it's your time to make me moan 😘😘

[Asker]

Sarcasm sweetie. Its time for you to go.

[Opinion Owner]

Ouch you broke my heart tears fall from my eyes 😭💔

[Asker]

You poor thing! You’ll live😭💔

[Opinion Owner]

I can't live without you 😭💔
You're my breath 💔💔😭

[Asker]

Then you die😛

[Opinion Owner]

Aww such a heartless girl you're 😭😭😭

You wanna see me die? 😭😭

[Asker]

Yes!

[Opinion Owner]

Ohk i fullfill your wishes I'm commiting sucide just for you see how much i love you 😭😭😭

[Christoff92]

He's shy to admit that he likes you. Assuming 🤔🤗

[Asker]

He already admit he did:(

[Christoff92]

Give him some time to show his feelings towards you or just move on 🙂

[Asker]

Thank you. I wondered if he happened to get scared at one point, as he did mention he never kept a relationship with women for too long due to past trauma.

[Christoff92]

Hey, it happens. Family oppression mostly.

[Asker]

That was the case here. But he just, has become very hard to talk to.

[Christoff92]

Then move on 🙂

[Asker]

Easier said than done. I want him, the good and bad.

[Christoff92]

Ok. Gotta wait then until he comes around.