How do you handle emotional inconsistency from women?

[Vegasrunner]

[Telekinetic-Potato]

I just don't take it seriously.

If she's moody for no reason, I'll ask, if she hits me with some bullshit, I just ignore it. And by ignore I mean literally act like it's not even happening.

If she's inexplicably being curt or giving silent treatment. Let her do it.

Women do this shit because it works. Greet it with neutrality and reward deviations from this behavior with your highest level of attention.

She probably wouldn't tolerate you treating her like that.

That's how I see it anyway. As a man you need to be clear in your expectations. Teach her better ways of communicating and if you can make her feel like she figured it out on her own that's even better.

[Vegasrunner]

@Telekinetic-Potato Exvellent input. I use the ignore it route a lot. It drives them crazy, but it allows you to keep from getting caught up in their mood swings.

[Telekinetic-Potato]

It's really fun to do to ex's too

[Vegasrunner]

@Telekinetic-Potato Lol stop it you sound just like me. Once canceled on an ex who wanted to meet me to "talk" while we we're broken up. She was obsessed with me from that point on.

[Boomchakalaca]

Like father like daughter

[Telekinetic-Potato]

@Boomchakalaca too close to home?

[Boomchakalaca]

Yes he says im like his “kid”and hav to control my behaviors sometimes lol (I love it)

[Boomchakalaca]

In the context of my partner!

[Telekinetic-Potato]

@Boomchakalaca ohhh

[Maebo44]

Im talking from my own experience right now. Sometimes I’m hormonal and I feel annoying, even though nothing is going on. I wake up like that. Or sometimes I feel happy but something happens (a trigger) and it changes my mood.
(Like my mom being bossing me around, even though I don’t live with her anymore, is definitely a trigger for me. She knows how to push my buttons 😅)

Some girls need attention when they’re moody and want to vent about what’s on their mind. But not everyone. If you tried to listen to her and she wants to be left alone, there is not much you can do. Give them some space and ignore the situation.

But (!) if she crosses your boundaries or is being rude for no reason at all, tell her right away. It’s not because she’s feeling moody that she has to treat you badly. Hope that helps

[Vegasrunner]

@Maebo44 It did, that was actually a very good answer that addresses both sides of the issue, there's a couple parts I disagree with but I understand your POV.

[bobalife]

Depends on the situation, but need more details. Most of the time, you can just have discussions and reassurance if that’s what she needs. If she’s wishywashy, it can be a million reasons. Best to have open communication if you like her.

[Vegasrunner]

@bobalife in my opinion one of the worst things a man can do is have a discussion w/ a women most women struggle to decide what they want for lunch, having a detailed conversation about her emotion only brings you down to her level.

[bobalife]

I think that’s just some women, but I’m sorry to hear about your bad experiences. I think communication is essential and to have a better understanding of how each person’s communicative style looks like in order to create a good foundation of communication. I can give some examples later but I am working right now but I just don’t want you to lose hope.

[Vegasrunner]

@bobalife TY for sharing! This is the perfect example. I never mentioned anything about my experiences, but because information hurt your feelings your only recourse is to attempt to attribute your feelings to me. That's emotional inconsistency, That's exactly why I advise guys not to waste their time "communicating" w/ women, as most women struggle to look at problems as a whole. That's also partly why I believe America will never have a female president. When you're dealing w/ real life issues you need someone that understands the big picture, as you validated most women can't see past their personal feelings. When I woman says "we need to comunicate" what she is saying is that "we need to talk about something you need to do to make me feel better.

[bobalife]

I’m confuse where you came to this conclusion? I didn’t mentioned most women, I said some women just like only some men can have these type of discussion. All I truly mentioned is to create a good foundation of communication between two people is figuring out BOTH their communication styles. It sounds like you’re very triggered that whatever I wrote still made you think that way? Take a step back and think outside your experience, but more so what makes a good foundation of a relationship from both your role and another person. I can say the same thing about men, but I’m not going to point fingers - it’s really about finding the right person who you’re willingly to make it work with and they will do the same.

[Vegasrunner]

@bobalifeb I understand your confusion, and much of it stems from a lack of reading comprehension. You're answering questions that were never asked and making statements about subjects never presented. Your original statement about "just having a discussion" is contradictory to the point because the original argument is that you can't have a civilized discussion w/ women about subjects they don't like because it triggers them. When triggered they resort to 3 tactics.
1. Exceptions - "Some women some men"
2. Equality - "figuring out both"
3. Emotion - "it sounds like you're triggered"
These are all responses you presented I'm this short conversation, non of them address the question presented and instead are simply deflection tactics designed to allow you to pretend as if you're contributing to the conversation. Which is the entire point. In a civilized discussion you would have to present something that didn't include those three deflection techniques, because most women can't do this it is much better for men to ignore them and get their info from other men that can actually look at an issue rationally and objectively. You're so focused on personal issues that even in writing you're unable to present a rational answer. I hope this helps.

[ManInChains]

In real life I don't deal with women I only put up with them at work because I have to in order to make money. It's a completely different story on the internet where I just kind of eventually shut down because the constant back and forth going nowhere gets exhausting

[bolverk]

I don't 'Handle' it - I've learned from bitter experience (4 sisters & their gfriends, and multiple nieces & their gfriends) that the best course of action is to stand back, do nothing, listen to them if needed, and let them get on dealing with what ever has them aerated.

If as a Man you try offering help/suggestions you immediately become the target, with the usual epithet of “You men know nothing”, usually accompanied by a string of invectives that would make a squaddie blush.

[handsomelad70]

Please, ladies, I'm not trying to be sexist, but as a man, I realize that there are, ummmm, hormonal reasons sometimes for your emotional inconsistency and if it isn't outsized and threatening our relationship, even at 70, I think I could handle an expected amount of said behaviour.

[molonski2]

Always know her cycle for a start , women say some utterly ridiculous things that they don't mean , then they look for affirmation , just don't address it head first , when inconsistent , just let it slide for a bit.

[lightbulb27]

explain...

they have mood changes out of their control, at different times in life. get used to it.

how do you handle a rainstorm that interrupts your golf outing?

[normalice]

Simply by not pretending women are emotionally inconsistent. Where is @徐翊扬love Doctor Brad when ya need em..

[Vegasrunner]

@normalice How would you know?

[normalice]

Know what?

[Vegasrunner]

@normalice How would you know about the consistency of women? How many women have you had sex with?

[normalice]

What does sex have to do with emotional consistency?

[Vegasrunner]

@normalice The fact that you don't know this tells me you haven't been with many women.

[normalice]

It's not really my business what you tell youself or why.

[Vegasrunner]

@normalice I agree, but if u really felt that way you wouldn't ask the question

[normalice]

It was a rhetorical question. I don't ask questions from redpill weirdos expecting to learn anything. It is always so that you ask yourselves the question.

[Vegasrunner]

@normalice So how do you handle female emotional inconsistency?

[normalice]

Simply by not pretending women are emotionally inconsistent.

[Vegasrunner]

@normalice So you lie to yourself? That's a fair answer

[normalice]

No, I'm saying I'm the one who isn't pretending. What is it with red pill weirdos and reading comprehension?

[Vegasrunner]

@normalice So you don't pretend that women aren't emotionally inconsistent.

[normalice]

No no. I don't pretend they are emotionally inconsistent. That reading comprehension disability of yours is wild, man.

[Vegasrunner]

@normalice So you lie to yourself?

[normalice]

No no. Again. I'm saying I'm the one who isn't pretending.

[Vegasrunner]

@normalice Ahh so then you realize thar women are emotionally inconsistent?

[normalice]

No no. Again, I'm saying I'm not the one pretending they are emotionally inconsistent.

[Vegasrunner]

@normalice Whay are you pretending they are?

[normalice]

I already said you're the one pretending here.

[Vegasrunner]

@normalice About how I handle female emotional inconsistency?

[normalice]

You should just go back and re read it.

[Vegasrunner]

@normalice As soon as you are able to provide a direct answer to my question I'll read that.

[normalice]

I provided the same direct answer several times. Feel free to re read it.

[Vegasrunner]

@normalice if that were true it should be easy for you to provide it now. In your original response you claimed "by not pretending women are emotionally inconsistentistent" which tells me you believe that woman are emotionally consistent, which is a view not held by any man that actually deals w/ different women, on a regular basis, which leads to the obvious question. How many women have you been with. Your refusal to answer this direct question tells me two important things. 1. You have limited romantic experience with woman. 2. Your POV comes from that limited exprience. What's odd is that there's nothing wrong w/ admitting your inexprience, but trying to provide advice on it does seem a bit dishonest.

[normalice]

It was easy to provide it the first few times and you didn't see is so I have no reason to suspect you would see it this time, either.

[Vegasrunner]

@normalice You provided the number of women you've slept with?

[normalice]

Again see prior comment.

[Vegasrunner]

@normalice There's no answer in there either.

[normalice]

There is a response.

[Vegasrunner]

@normalice Not to the question I asked

[normalice]

My response was appropriate

[Vegasrunner]

@normalice It lacked a numerical answer which is what the question required.

[normalice]

Nevertheless, the response was appropriate

[Vegasrunner]

@normalice I'm glad you feel that way but it's not a response to anything I've answered. Regardless your inability to answer is sufficient enough. It's also another example of why guys w/ out experience shouldn't really be commenting on these type of matters.

[normalice]

Not really a "feeling." Asking why a subject abruptly changed is the appropriate response to a redpill troll's attempt to change the subject.

[exitseven]

I try to ignore it. After many years I have gotten good at it.

[DishLady]

It depends on the woman... we're not all 100% the same, you know?

[Vegasrunner]

@DishLady more similar than you may realize. Example #1 all women claim they're different than other woman. I've been w/ 100's of them and listened to 1000's more during my time as a Vegas VIP host most woman are pretty much the same.

[Telekinetic-Potato]

I'm curious if you have an opinion on men.

[DishLady]

@vegaseunner… If you’ve been around so many women you’d know that you’d get either a smack in the face or a drink poured over your head for being rude….

@Telekinetic-Potato no curiosity needed. I have an opinion about most things. 😂

[Vegasrunner]

@DishLady Lol, you watch to much TV or don't have a clear understanding of American self defense laws.

[Telekinetic-Potato]

I was talking to @Vegasrunner

[AngryCarl]

If possible I let it slide. Expecting consistency from a woman is like expecting a politician to be honest. They're not capable of it.

[serious_miss419]

From when their period is coming?
Because I get like maybe 1.5 weeks of nothing to do with my period each month and 28 days where my period is relative to my moods.

[VV3ZZY123]

This has always been a challenge for me. On minute they're happy, the next they hate me. I forgot for a while about PMS. PMS does that I think.

[thisAppIsGarbage]

The fuck I care about emotional anything from a woman. That's a her problem

[msc545]

With great caution and suspicion, since this is often a sign of an underlying personality disorder.

[itsclearlynicholas]

I avoid them ♀️ where possible 😕😔

[dudeinohio]

I don't deal with games. They'd be gone.

[OddBeMe]

Internally. Maybe a stress ball.

[laly520]

more context?

[Vegasrunner]

@laly520 Notice no men needed more context.

[laly520]

so? its ok to ask for more context
if u can't provide it then its also ok

simple

[Vegasrunner]

@laly520 Just pointing out that on a post w/ dozens of replies only you are struggling to understand. Perhaps the subject matter is too complicated for you?

[laly520]

nope
asking for more context doesn't mean struggling to understand or having it too complicated👍

[Vegasrunner]

@laly520 That's literally what it means more context means you need more information to make an educated response.

[laly520]

first chill
second its ok u dont have to sound like that
third its always fine n ok n doesn't necessarily mean anything of what u mentioned when someone asks for more context, I personally ask for more context so I would come up with a fair answer n it doesn't mean I didn't get it or whatever u were assuming

[Vegasrunner]

@laly520 I can't speak to how I "sound" especially on writing. If you have a mature answer to this post you would like to present then by all means please. However random asking for "more contect" is an example of female instability, if you want someone to provide you more context to a direct question then you need to be specific and explain what you're struggling w/ if you're not struggling with any part then simply provide an answer to the question. It's only complicated when you attempt to be deceitful.

[on_my_knees]

Rape victim.

[Return]

I don't.