How to deal with an emotional women?

[Anonymous]

How can I deal with my girl that gets emotional at times. It would be one time with me having an misunderstanding. She would get mad tell me not to talk to her. Other times it be her son’s father not doing what he’s suppose to be doing. To me, it be the smallest things.

Today, we had a great conversion. I made plans to go to an escape room this weekend when I come back into town. What she always wanted to do. She told me that she’s not having a good day. Cause the father not paying to help with their son. On top of that, her time of the month came and she’s been drinking. She gets amped up at times. When I called her back to check on her, she was pissed cause she just had a argument with the father. She then say that she wants to isolate herself and just be with her kids. Which includes not talking to me. I just said okay and if you need me reach out. That’s it.

I’m taking a step back for a couple of days. I know I didn’t do anything wrong. We’ve been together for a year. Just give her space?

[StarWarGirl]

Not everyone can deal with emotional person especially who mostly cares only about just simply venting out seeing only negative things around having pesemistic perspective on life and everything.

There is always two sides of coins wherever there is problem there is solutions also if someone only focus always on problems always you can't fix it.

You can't always fix her focus to positive side. Whenever you will do it would be temporarily only. And it's tiresome.

Only a thick skin matured man can deal with such person and they does make great couples together sometime. Who knows it's how his partner is, the problem isn't big how much she is looking it. And whenever she says things like that who can keep himself calmed being aware of there is no big deal just his work is just to listen. Who can listen without getting induced by her wavy emotions.

So you see can you understand her like that can you modify yourself into such person? It's very much possible if someone wants. This is the solution.