How to deal with an emotional unavailable woman?

[Anonymous]

She told me she likes me and I like her but she’s emotionally unavailable it’s hard to get her to open up ether since we both like each other we started to be friends with benefits but yet she says she doesn’t see herself being with me we both are from different cultures and she says that’s the reason how do I get her to open up more?

[Oliverlogan263]

Man, that's a tough one. An emotionally unavailable girl who just wants a friends with benefits type situation rarely open up fully. Some things you could try:

- Give her space when you hang out. Don't pressure her to talk about feelings. Focus on having fun together in the moment.

- Lead by example - open up a bit about yourself too to make her comfortable. But keep it light, nothing too deep at first.

- Do fun new activities together outside the bedroom. Experiences bond people in low-key ways.

- Compliment who she is, not what she looks like. "You have a great sense of humor" vs just hotness.

- Be patient. Rome wasn't built in a day. Over time as she sees you really care, she may start to let her walls down more.

- Don't take it personal if she still holds back some. Just keep showing her what a caring dude you can be.

Breaking down that emotional distance takes time with some chicks. As long as you're both having fun, keep at it - just don't expect miracles overnight bro. Hope it works out!

[Nikki1989]

If she has expressed that she doesn't want to get emotionally close, just respect her boundaries.

[WhitneySnow]

Don’t pressure her. She may prefer to be just friends.

[Asker]

friends with benefits she said

[WhitneySnow]

Doesn’t mean she wants a relationship. Of course if you don’t want sex without a relationship it’s absolutely your right to tell her so.

[jahaims]

You don't. That is moronic and desperate

[Asker]

what?😭 we both like each other how is that desperate?