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When I was in my late teens, I was very sweet, shy and caring. But I often found that girls treated me as just a friend, or didn't even consider me for dating/ long term when I asked them out. Later now in my mid to late 20s I'm still those things but I'm also more confident, experienced and cheeky 😄 and I find myself attracting women by pure charm, wit, humour and good looks. However, many of my friends are still just sweet, shy and caring, but always seem to strike out with the ladies.

I am a straight guy, but if I was a girl, I'd love to be with guys like that, I just don't understand why some girls are so rude and dismissive of them 🤷🏽‍♂️

I was in the city centre outside some clubs, a girl dropped £20:

I picked it up and said "excuse me, I think you dropped this 😊" she said "thanks, now fuck off 😠"
Me" excuse me, I just tried to help you 😡"
Her "So what? You want me to suck your dick now?"
Me "Nah, I don't know where you've been 😄, I'm keeping the money by the way" and I walked over and gave it to a homeless person.

There's two guys. Which one sounds more attractive, or dateable, to you? Please explain which of these two would make for a better partner and why. And yes, neither may appeal to you, but you have to pick the BETTER option.

Pros:
Treats you nicely and fawns you with compliments and sweet words.
Has a face you'd consider handsome/good looking.
Isn't funny per se, but can be "humorous." (Sometimes, "witty.")
Probably has most of the same interests you do.

Neutrals:
Describes himself as "shy and sensitive."
Politically, is very left-leaning.
A staunch atheist.

Cons:
Physically, is your height and weighs about 20 pounds more than you.
Treats almost every other male like a piece of sh*t (unless they are exactly like him).
Very immature, petty, and childish.
Still lives with his mother.
Unemployed or underemployed.

Pros:
Describes himself as "intelligent and rational."
Has a steady but impressive job.
Interesting to listen to and never boring.
Very hard-working, committed, and passionate about his life goals.

Neutrals:
Is always 100% honest , especially if someone (or you) is acting unreasonably.
Always gets remembered by other people, for better or for worse.
Apolitical.
Agnostic (non-religious, but non-atheist).
An introvert and doesn't hang around many people.
Treats every single person he meets the same way; respectful but disinterested.

Cons:
Is only a little taller than you (by one or two inches) and weighs at least 90 pounds more than you.
Not what you would consider to be "your type" or physically attractive (ugly, or has physical features you generally dislike in men).