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Basically, this friend of a friend (let’s call her Mary) came to a graduation party we were hosting at my apartment. I hadn’t seen her since the last time she came to visit my roommate a few years ago, which was also the first time we met. Back then I had a crush on her, but right after that we both got into long-term relationships. She shows up to our party and starts acting weird around me the whole time. I’ll go in-depth about the specific moments, but keep in mind my girlfriend is at the party and her boyfriend isn’t, as he’s from where she lives (different country). She started our conversation by asking me about my musical interests and so we chatted about music and stuff like that. I noticed she started fiddling with her hair and maintaining strong, prolonged eye contact while we’re talking. She’s also standing pretty close, closer than I’d expect in a conversation between two taken people. When we broke off, she often stared at me as I was talking to friends, even while she was mingling with other people. When I’d meet her gaze, she’d continue to stare and smile until I broke eye contact. A little later I hear from my girlfriend that Mary has been talking to her about how nice I was to her a few years back showing her around town, which was no doubt influenced by how I had a crush on her. Mary would also do things like jab me to help me out when I wasn’t paying attention during a drinking game and laugh at all of my jokes. When it came time to walk to the club, it was raining, and I got wet along with everybody else. She turned to me and said “you’re so wet” and brushed off the rain from my chest and arms (my girlfriend was in the bathroom when that happened). Later on in the night when I was dancing with my girlfriend and being affectionate with her, Mary kind of stopped acting the way she did earlier that night. The next morning when she said goodbye to my roommates and I (she spent the night), I was the only one she hugged besides her friend.

I would like to hear your stories and on why you have wished for it.

I do prefer disowning the person and him moving out more than death to be honest, but I can see both the advantages and disadvantages with death. I lives at home with my parents and they took in a baby boy before I was born because of no one else could take care of him. His personality has always annoyed me. I do understand if people are shy and doesn't speak in public or to strangers, but this boy barely speak to his "family" and yet he's living with us. I've no plan to moving out at first because of I wants to save money to finish my education. He's sucking out money, food etc. from my parents, yet he refuse to talk and is rude. Sometimes he's ignoring us, says mean things and isolate himself from my family. He may talk to friends a few times. He hasn't anxiety or any forms of diagnoses. He has always been like this from he was little and he's two years older than me. Luckily a few nice people in the local grocery store offered him a job, so now he has something to do since he doesn't do much at home. When I tried to be nice to him, having a simple normal conversation etc. he tries to avoid it. He's not always grateful to my parents either. He lived 6 months another place to study, but he didn't enjoy it and dropped out of school. I didn't miss him a second, but my parents loves him a lot. I was happy not having to see his impolite behavior. I wished he moved out again, but the advantage him being dead is that I don't need to see a stranger in my house treating my parents like shit. But my parents would be heartbroken, so it's best he's alive although I wouldn't miss him if he didn't change himself. My parents thinks he would grow up one day. Perhaps in his 40s. There's still hope they says.

As I was leaving work, I ran into my female colleague talking to a very pretty and nice looking woman. They were talking about her car and my colleague brought me in because I'm a former technician.
I talked to the girl as the colleague walked off, and she told me about the car and some things she did in her free time. Also mentioning that my colleague is her mom. I said I'd be willing to help with her car and she said she could meet me or something.
As she left she gave me a wave, and I talked to her mom. I wasn't sure if I was able to help, but I told my colleague, that her daughter was very pretty and she said she and her daughter don't hear that often. She said she's single and even said she was moaning about how she's single and no one asks her out and she's old while watching the bachelor. She's 28 and I thought she was 25.
I said I'd ask her daughter out if she didn't find it wired or inappropriate. My colleague said not at all, and said her daughter would be flattered. She whipped out her phone and proceeded to text but I don't know if it was to her daughter. But the colleague said it be cool if I did because she thinks I'd be good to her daughter.