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I have had a thing for this girl since I met her 5 years ago. She was very attractive single mom, but I was barely 18.
After we both stopped working there, we talked a lot more. She actually would talk to me about her sexual life at times.
I felt like there was mutual flirting happening, but since I was 18 and not too interested in being a father, or father figure I stopped persuing it.
We both wound up dating people over the next 3 years. She got married and I got engaged to the girl I dated.

But during 2017, my fiance broke things off. Additionally, the girl's marriage also ended. Because of how bad her divorce went, I tried to just be the friend she could talk to. She then started to tell me about guys she was hanging out with and she kept insisting they weren't dates.
I don't know why, but we haven't talked for a while and I'm not sure what's going on currently. Because I didn't agree with some things she posted on Instagram, I unfollowed her. But also got a new phone and lost her cellphone number.

She has still liked my photos since then

The point I'm getting to is her birthday is this weekend, I wanted to casually ask her if she was doing anything fun for her birthday, and if possible, ask her if I could take her out.

BUT, I'm worried about what she may say or do if I message her on Instagram and she sees I'm requesting to talk to her. She will then know I unfollowed her. I'm 22 now, but not sure about being a father figure to her son, but she keeps telling me I am one and has told me she wanted her son to be like me and not like his dad or her ex husband.
Do I message her? Or just forget about it?

I’ve always promised myself that I’ll never have kids. Or date someone with kids. My reason for that is because kids are rude, too much stress, and they have no respect. I can’t put up with that.

My current girlfriend at the moment has a 15 year old daughter. I never had intentions to date this woman. We started off as friends with benefits while she was going through s divorce. Later on we got so used to being around each other. Which eventually lead to a relationship. She’s a good girlfriend who does everything for me. She tells me that she’s in love with me and want to remarry me.

Even though she’s a good girlfriend I still don’t wanna be with a woman who has a kid. I’ve never met her daughter. From what it sounds like. It seems like her daughter is a handful. She had called me many times crying because of her daughter verbally abusing her. Which I know there is no way I’d put up with that shit.

I recently broke up with her and she had a breakdown. She lost a lot of weight. Stopped taking care of herself. The break up lead her to serious destruction. I felt bad for her because I care about her and hate seeing her like this. So were back together and she’s happy again.

I still haven’t met her daughter, but I also made it clear. If me and her daughter can’t get along then we have to split. I’m the type of guy who hates kids. I find it annoying how my sister always has to stop and compliment peoples babies. I honestly hate kids and don’t want them near me.

But I’m willing to wait until I meet this woman’s daughter, and make the decision on our relationship. Gag I need your advice. Should I stay and wait until I meet the daughter? Or just leave?