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I’m 24 and never really had a boyfriend. I’m very introverted and don’t go out often. The only attention I’ve really received from guys were those that were not my type or just weird. I’ve never had a cute guy of my preference show interest in me. People tell me that a certain guy of my preference may find me attractive or check me out but that’s the farthest it goes and I’m very shy. Is it wrong of me to only want to date guys I’m physically attracted to? I feel like I should stop acting this way or reevaluate my standards because I’m still single and my pickiness hasn’t gotten me anywhere 😳

We met online through a dating app. We had only 2 dates so far but, we both felt that we have known each other for way longer.

On the first date, he was very nervous. The first impression he gave me was he’s a little shy. He’s for sure a gentlemen and his gestures shows that he wants to impress me. He messages me in the morning every day and making sure that my day was good. He planned the dates and he wants to make sure that I am having a great time. He pays for everything including the Uber ride. And no, we have not had sex yet but we did made out on the 2nd date. We both had a really good time and he didn’t even want to go home.

I made it clear I don’t sleep with men easily and usually takes me 2 months to get there. He told me that is fine. And he’s looking for the right one and he’s a relationship type of guy. He’s definitely smart and sometimes, his mouth is full of sugar.

Honestly, everything was great until today. He went to visit his family in another city. I found out he ignores my texts but goes on whatsapp. Which means he’s on his phone, saw my message, and ignores it... And he replies me couple hours later. I know it only has been 2 dates and it is not exclusive. He has the right to talk or see other girls at the mean time but, he did tell me he was only interested in one person and that is me!

Am I thinking too much? What should I do?