Why is it so difficult for the some same sex people to accept lesbian and gay people?

Alice2398
So whenever people I know find out someones homosexual, there's always that group of girls or guys who say "oh well I hope she/he doesn't fancy me" and I'm just sitting there thinking in my head "don't worry it's not like anyone one fancys you so I think your safe and so what if they did its not like just because their gay their going to atomatly rape you or some shit, they just like the same sex so what. eat some humble pie your not that sexy but everyone wants to sleep with you "

It's mostly guys I know and see who are uncomfortable with gay men but I'm remember back in school we had to watch a film and it had a lesbian couple in it and all the girls were saying how disgusting it was and but it made them feel uncomfortable these are usally also the same girls who think it's trendy to have a gbf (gay best friend) and kiss each other at partys because they think guys will think its hot. 😂 Just saying

I personally can't get in my head why anyone would have a reasonable reason to dislike a gay person purely just because there gay. Their sexualtiy is no one's business but theirs so why would it hurt anyone else?

I get the point about how people say they try and rub it in others faces and are constantly trying to prove a point in public by being over affectionate with each other more than a straight couple would but not a lot a gay people aren't actually like that and them people just notice it more because their looking and not minding their own business. I've had gay friends before in my life and it's never bothered me before and most are actually very shy at first about being open about their sexualtiy and deliberately avoid dating because of it. Some have even told me they find it embarrassing and cringy when they see other gay people acting up the hole stereotype and find it degradeing.

So why do so many women dislike lesbians and why do so many men dislike gay men? I just don't get it but I'm open to hearing others opinions.
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Why is it so difficult for the some same sex people to accept lesbian and gay people?
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