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Just out of curiosity, but I noticed that women these days seem to have no standards, and the few of us who do are written off as gold diggers or snobs in an effort to make us lower our standards.

Like for instance, if a woman wanted to wait say 6 months to a year to have sex, most men are not going to put in the effort to be with that women because other women are much more willing to open their legs. Why wait 6 months for one when you can have multiple within the span of a few days?

Or if a woman wants a man to make a certain amount of money, she's a gold digger. I know for me, I would want a man to make at least what I make because I do not want to be taking care of a grown ass man. However, I've been called a gold digger because of this (which is dumb. I'm a teacher and make less than $45,000 a year). Yet I know many women who are married, but their husbands make half of what they make, and the men like it because the responsibility of providing isn't really on their shoulders.

I had a friend who struggles in the area of looks, too. She's about average build and pretty, but men seem to only want thin white women. However, these guys are often overweight themselves and do not necessarily take care of themselves. But women are so desperate to want a man that they'll accept it. However, she and I both know that if she wanted a body builder guy then she'd be considered ridiculous.

Or the latest argument is women should pay for themselves on a date instead of the man paying. Not saying men should always pay, but for some reason women do not require guys to pay on the first date anymore. Women who do are seen as shallow.


These things weren't really even issue up until maybe 15 years ago.


So do you think that if women as a whole brought back standards that men would put more effort into dating?

Let me start with saying that I've always loved Celine Dion. We would always listen to her music during road trips. Good memories form her songs. When her husband passed away I did research on who he was and well I saw how old he was and their age gap. I was surprised not only about the 26 yr age difference but that he was her manager. I though oh well but like well they're both consenting adults so what? But then I found out they met when she was 12 and he was 38... I was even more surprised! Some people say love is love, and age is just a number and justify it by saying that they didn't fall in love and start dating until she was 19, of legal age. I personally see it a bit sketchy because of how young she was when they met and I feel like when an adult meets you as a kid, they keep that image of you, and because he was her manager, he was a position of power, and because he was married. When I read about this I was 16 and I thought well maybe at 19 it's normal but now me being 19 feels weirder. So yeah, some people do think he was grooming her her whole life, all her life that she's blind to it. But others agree that age is just a number and that their love story is strange but beautiful. What do you have to say about this? Again, no hate to Celine Dion, I respect her so much she is a wonderful woman and I love her music.