How should I feel about this? My confidence is shattered. Is this how most guys perceive women with small breasts?

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I met this guy he seemed really sweet and we dated for 8 months. And then he started putting my body down telling me I’m too skinny, he would say if we get married you’re getting a boob job. He used to call me fit and now he tells me I need to be curvier and have bigger boobs. I’m a petite girl who is 5’4 with a toned butt, but very small boobs 32A. He told me that he’s a boob guy, then why did he think I was beautiful and perfect IF it’s obvious I have small boobs. I would wear
my bralette and my real size bra no surprises. I used to be really confident but after meeting him and him making me feel self conscious I feel like my self esteem dropped dramatically. It would hurt more when he would look at girls with bigger boobs to get a reaction out of me. He would say that girl looks like you definetetly didn’t. He would say that because I would catch him looking at girls boobs. My self confidence is shattered he told me that he wants someone who is curvier and has bigger boobs. I wouldn’t consider boob job so that’s out of the question. I feel so hurt that he would put me down for my body and eventually left me for a girl with bigger boobs. Even more hurts that when he hugged me he would be disappointed because I have small boobs he hug me tighter and tell me I’m so skinny. He also started to refuse cuddling with me. Are most guys like this? I’m really skeptical dating again. I really don’t want to be reminded that I should be more women by having bigger breasts. This guy was 7 years older then me and we just fell for each other for the first glance. Little did I know he would do that to me and tell me I’m skinny and look down on my small boobs.
How should I feel about this? My confidence is shattered. Is this how most guys perceive women with small breasts?
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