Why am I so insecure about my small boobs?

Question

I am very insecure about my boobs. I have only A cups and I really hate them. I am crying daily and can't stop I don't know what to do 😕 I don't have enough money for breast surgery so I can't get implants.. I feel so horrible all my friends have bigger boobs than me and it hurts me what do I do? :(

abc3643 · Accepted Answer

Well, you have bigger boobs than my wife...
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Ah-tah!
Loving boobs is instinctive as illustrated by South Park.

"Yes, Ah-tah" scene in which Randy, Stan's Dad, explains the nature of boobs to Stan. From Season 06 Episode 10, "Bebe's Boobs Destroy Society".
https://southpark.cc.com/clips/153593/yes-ah-tah

Kenny's first "cheesing" hallucination scene in which he's about the lather the daughter with the "awesome rocking tits" in the Fountains of Varnoth. From Season 12 Episode 03, "Major Boobage".
southpark.cc.com/clips/164807/i-was-so-close

Anyway, you will be fine and loved. Believe me.

So, let's talk about boobs...

Big boobs and small boobs all have their plusses and minuses.

For instance:
1. Big boobs are great for titty fucking and motor boating but are usually less sensitive and give the woman back problems that she will complain about.
2. Small boobs are not great for titty fucking or motor boating but are usually more sensitive (so nipple play is better) and the woman will never have back problems from her boobs.

As far as attractiveness is concerned, yeah, boobs can have an impact, but animal sexuality is much hotter.

So, let's talk about small boobs more...

"More than a handful is wasted." - Paul B.

This is Pat Benatar circa 1980. As you can see, she's not going to win a wet t-shirt contest. However, she is screamingly hot and this is because of her femininity and animalistic sexuality.

https://youtu.be/IvSbQB6-UdY

For more evidence, take a look at Joan Jett...

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DSqp-W1pWoU

https://www.dailymotion.com/embed/video/xltn4c

So, girls with small boobs can definitely rock it...

The hottest woman I know is an A-cup. Besides, for me, in my fantasies, A-cups are more than enough...

By the way, B-cups are the actual normal. So why is the average around C now? Women getting fat.

But I want you to think about something...

If a man makes boobs a high priority, then he's not marriage material... Why? Women of all breast sizes get double mastectomies (like Angelina Jolie, Ann Jillian, and Christina Applegate, [*]). If a man can't appreciate a woman with small boobs, why should he appreciate a woman who has had a double mastectomy? "In sickness and in health" are more than just words. I told my wife (who has [*] a nice rack and I like boobs too) that I'd still love her and stay with her even if "the girls left the party".

ANYWAY, don't worry about your breast size. Believe it or not, who you are is actually more important to us than how you look. When young, we may be obsessed with looks but we grow out of that fast as we get more experience with women's personalities.

[*] I've been ever-updating this standard response for a few years now, but, in September 2021, my wife, too, got a double mastectomy. I haven't changed and kept my word. What's important isn't her boobs (which tried to kill her!). It's her. Her boobs may be gone, but she's not and that's what counts.

NamerOfStars · Accepted Answer

Because you see your breasts as being integral to your attractiveness, and your attractiveness as integral to your own value as a person. This is only natural; we're all human, and have human failings and frailties. And sexuality IS a big part of life.

But those messages are pushed by people who think it's ALL of life, or who are trying to sell you something. The only real way around is a long path of self-reflection, and while I don't want to discourage that, in the short term, you should think about the kind of person YOU respect and admire, and what qualities they have that make them admirable to you, and seek to emulate those. In the immediate term, go do something nice for someone. It doesn't have to be something big; even just complimenting a harried-looking stranger, or rushing over to open a door for someone who's hands are full, can make you think of yourself as a person who does that kind of thing, and make you feel better about yourself.

Self-image is a complex and variegated thing, but while you can't do much about how you look, you CAN change how you act. Be the kind of person you like, and you'll find that you like yourself more.

Adaeva · Accepted Answer

If you are unable to attract the guys you want, the reason is not the size of your breasts. A cup breasts are large enough for a majority of men. Audrey Hepburn, and many top fashion models have size A bras. The absolutely gorgeous Kamila Valieva bra size is 34A and can you even imagine any guy in the world that would turn her down.

If you want to attract guys, what is important is a small waist to hip ratio, bilateral symmetry, a youthful and energetic appearance, and smooth clear skin. Larger than A size breasts is way down on list.

AngelOfLight258 · Accepted Answer

Girl, we all have our flaws; 95%-98% of us don't have a body that could be featured on instagram no matter how much effort we put into it. Just focus on accentuating your most beautiful attributes.

Why am I so insecure about my small boobs?

#BodyPositivity

nolabels · Answer

Everyone is shaped differently.

I used to be insecure about the size of my penis until I eventually realized that it's an average sized penis. Some are bigger, some are smaller.

I happen to be partial to smaller breasted ladies myself.

There are plenty of other men who feel the same way.

Some women have larger breasts, some have smaller breasts.

You are who you are.

Breast implants are not attractive to me nor to the overwhelming majority of men I know.

I wish you the best.

Paul_in_Indy · Answer

Don’t be insecure. Small is beautiful!

This is the girl I’m planning to smash tonight. I have been looking at this photo all day, eager to see what those breasts look like. I will have trouble making it through dinner and a movie without putting my hands on them.

And it’s not that I have some kind of small breast fixation. I love girls with big breasts too. Right now I’m fantasizing about these little ones.

I bet someone is fantasizing about you, too.

MystiKaL · Answer

I'm absolutely sure millions of guys or girls would absolutely love your boobs. Why do you hate them so much? You shouldn't compare them to any other woman's, it's your boobs and they define your own beauty.

If you really want a boob job in the future, only do it because YOU feel unhappy with your own body, not because you want to match up to other women. However, I would be against the idea of a boob job if you simply just want big boobs as other women have them. Because small boobs are just as gorgeous as big ones.

mstbooblover · Answer

You're insecure about your small boobs because you allow yourself to be influenced by fashion, magazines, porn, and stupid people. We are as we are, and if on top you're in good health, just be happy with what you have. Keep in mind there still are a lot of guys who would be very happy with a A breast sized girl ! Interesting guys think first of the person you are before bothering about the size of your breasts. My advice would in any case be to avoid wasting money on useless surgery if there's no good medical reason.

iiinsOMNIA · Answer

You could try a padded bra! You shouldn't have to feel bad about yourself, which isn't helpful, I know, but there is nothing wrong with small boobs. After all, small breasts are trending.

I am not trying to invalidate your feelings though. For now, try padded bras until you can afford surgery. That's all I know of. Good luck, beautiful!

FunnyGiy · Answer

What matters is on the inside. You shouldn’t worry about your breasts. The kind of men who want to see them and stuff. Aren’t the men you want to be with.

Sex should come after marriage and you do know that many guys have many different preferences.

God made you the way you are. Your soulmate will love everything about you.

JPresidente · Answer

Stop watching Instagram and Snaps and friends pictures with bigger boobs and comparing them. Take what you've got and run with it and realize that most guys don't care if you're worried about attracting a guy. There are plenty that find small boobs sexy as all get out. And don't take yourself too seriously. Sometimes if you laugh about it with yourself and friends, it makes you feel better and your friends won't care and guys won't care.

Anonymous · Answer

Embrace you're body and don't change it. I'm curvy with large breasts, and most guys seem to initally like me for a cute face and for being top heavy. its not that great. I'm sure you are slender and maybe even have great hair.. Focus on the things you DO like about your body.

qwert1234 · Answer

Because society told you that big boobs are best. Just look at female magazines, commercials and ads.

The truth is you are fine the way you are. As long as you are healthy, hygienic and relatively has good attitude, you will be fine.

genericname85 · Answer

stubbing your toe on the bed post hurts, not having small boobs xD. having big boobs is not a requirement for enjoying your life, finding a romantic partner or really anything...

exitseven · Answer

You are buying into the incorrect notion that a woman's worth is based on her breast size. I bet you are awesome just the way you are.

art84 · Answer

Girls with small breasts are sexy then girls with large breasts. Never really was a fan of big breasts as they seem distracting depending on the size.

Anonymous · Answer

Isn't it interesting to see the difference in tone of the responses to this question compared to the "size" questions from guys who are insecure about their bodies.

Why are girls so nasty and bitter toward guys about their insecurities?

staceyxox · Answer

Not much you can do. Some girls like me are just blessed with big boobs and some aren't.

User3191989 · Answer

The media The media likes to say that "only big boobs matter" When that's simply not the case All boobs matter

Emii_Urashima · Answer

Small boobs are not a big deal. Not everyone is obsessed with big boobs.

Guardian45 · Answer

You just need a boyfriend who appreciates you and your small boobs. Believe it or not there're MANY male fans out there. I being one.

dudeinohio · Answer

Fake boobs are a turn off. Many guys consider small boobs a turn on. I do.

WhiteBoyChill · Answer

Honestly most guys don’t really mind small boobs. Women just always think they have to have big boobs for some reason

Berethor · Answer

A-cup angst trope, small boobs is not the end of the world and they better than fake boobs.

LazerBean · Answer

I can promise you that you are literally the only person on Earth who cares.

panamared1 · Answer

Your boobs will not hurt your back or fall prey to gravity. Any real man does not care about the size of your boobs, but the size of your heart

Anonymous · Answer

Like how I’m crying about my small dk, Karma is bytch

Anonymous · Answer

Mainly bcs you are a bit dumb and lacking of imagination

Anonymous · Answer

You can slut Shame the women who have bigger boobs than you.

Guy13 · Answer

No need. Small boob women age better.

Mtbgirl · Answer

Don’t worry you are over thinking.

LimitedBenefits101 · Answer

Use push up bra.

In_Trance · Answer

Because you keep comparing to others

malwins · Answer

Get implants

Anonymous · Answer

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