Will I ever find a dude who likes skinny girls with small boobs?

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one of my exs told me that his type was the opposite of me, but im way too insecure for that so now im searching for guys who like skinny girls with small boobs. Recently i told this dude this and he said his type was exactly what i was, but he mentioned girls cleavage a few times... I wish he didn't lie to me. He trapped me. Why lie to me? Ik he just wanted to be with me but im not his FUCKING type so he needs to fuck off and find a woman with "cleavage" -.- . I just want a dude who won't lie to me just because they like me. I just dont understand why they want me if im not their type anyways. And i dont give ONEEEEE FUCK if they like my personality. I want someone to like my body too man. Am I just destined for this future? Will I just have to settle with dudes who like big boobs while im insecure because I have fucking A cups? Have yet to meet a dude who hasn't lied to me or has told me i wasn't their type, but still "liked" me.

OlderAndWiser · Accepted Answer

@MCheetah has it right. I have a preference for petite girls with smaller boobs and smaller butts, and many other guys feel the same way. About once a year, I post a question asking guys about their preference on boobs, and the results are very consistent. About 25% prefer large boobs (36D or larger,) 25% prefer medium boobs (34C to 36C,) 25% prefer smaller boobs (34B and smaller,) and about 25% have no preference. And I always ost a list of celebrities who are considered sexy despite the fact that they have smaller boobs:

Mila Kunis became a 34B after her pregnancy
Taylor Swift is a 32B
Reese Witherspoon is 32B
Paris Hilton is 32B
Camero Diaz is 32B
Ariana Grande is 32A
Zoe Saldana is 32A
Miley Cyrus is 32B
Katie Holmes is 32B
Keira Knightley is 32A
Kate Hudson is 34B
Kristen Bell is 32B
Emma Watson is 32B
Olivia Wilde is 32B
Rachel Bilson is 32A
Natalie Portman is 34B

The idea that ALL guys prefer big boobs is perpetuated by women, and by the media. However, many young guys who are sexually insecure will talk nonstop about how they like humongous boobs and that causes some girls to get a false impression.

MrOracle · Accepted Answer

I've always been most attracted to petite girls. Think Ariana Grande: 90 pound short girls. And most girls that size aren't exactly swinging around DDs. There are plenty of guys who like girls like that. Look at Charlize Theron - she's fairly tall, thin, and has small boobs, and millions of men lust for her. Kate Hudson. Mila Kunis. Keira Knightly. Hell, most fashion models.

You're still in high school, and you're still dealing with immature young guys, and most guys that age tend to be enamored with extremes: fast cars, loud music, huge tits, etc. In their minds, MORE is always better. Few guys that age have much in the way of taste or refinement. But that will change as you get older and are dating older men, but as men mature, most will develop some taste and sophistication, and they'll appreciate things beyond "big" and "huge."

Upper class men date/marry thin women almost exclusively, and small boobs are common. Those men could have nearly any woman - they're wealthy and powerful and have access, influence, and resources, but they choose thin women 98% of the time.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Even if you're some dude's type, he'll get turned of by your personality. So negatively feisty! Your excessive use of FUCK alone will be the deal breaker. But, yeah, there are truly plenty of of dudes who like skinny girls with small boobs,

Lyndsielee666 · Accepted Answer

You’ll find someone. You’re still young give it time.

TheorionMage · Answer

Obstetricians have confirmed breast size does little to affect potential lactation while pregnant. The majority of breast tissue is actually stored fat.

While you might feel under-developed now... rest assured that as you reach your middle years as other women's breast tissue begins to sag and droop, you'll still have your figure decades longer than them. YOUR nipples are every bit as sensitive and responsive as a larger breasted female's; sometimes MORE so~

In 1995, Kent State University Psychologists have uncomfortably discovered that 87% of heterosexual males are evolutionarily attracted to teen and preteen females BECAUSE intuitively they're theoretically the MOST 'fertile' as their ovum 'ripen'. SO...
Logically, a cunning female would 'merchandize' herself to exploit that disavowed societally 'shameful' inclination. This roleplay combined with your attractive personality should have your desired affect, even if they don't openly acknowledge 'why' they're drawn to 'seducing' you, 'Lolita'.

GeoCrusher · Answer

I don't know, it depends. For me its not so much one type as several different combinations of characteristics that are attractive. It varies from guy to guy just as I imagine it does from woman to woman. Guy are usually not picky so they find many women attractive and don't have the "ideal" and only preference. As long as your within a healthy weight and have a lovely personality that's all I think a woman needs. Biologically in our monkey brains if you want to boil it down to that, men are conditioned to like larger breasts for primal reasons, ignore that. Many people care more about who you are than what you look like.

Anonymous · Answer

All lot of guys like many different "types" of women, even if you are or aren't their "type" generally. So he wasn't necessarily lying to you. It's not set in stone like with women (often). Example some women like guys a certain height, and for them, will ONLY date those guys. A lot of us guys aren't like that. Example my "type" is petite, I love short women, proportionate as far as her body goes, but I've been attracted to women that were totally the opposite before as well (to my surprise even in some cases). They were beautiful (face), personality, etc all plays a part, it's not just physical. Now it could be the type of guys you've been with (circumstantial and bad luck?), but you sound very angry also? Don't assume that you aren't his type, and even if you're not, it doesn't mean he doesn't still like yours, or you don't become his type, because he likes you. That can happen.

nawtee_me · Answer

I like skinny girls with smaller boobs. I prefer a B cup personally... I am not a fan of big butts either... So I am sure there are guys out there for you... I know you are a A cup but your boobs are also still growing so I would not mind you being an A cup right now because I know you are the best you that you can be. Will you get bigger? I don't know but I would rather an A cup to a D cup anytime... If guys don't like you for who you are boobs included then they are the ones missing out, not you...

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

A lot of it is the rubbish from social media etc

a lot of guys me included prefer slim with small boobs.

pretty much all my gfs and ex wife have small boobs.

You have a big advantage with clothes as well, pretty much everything will look great on you.

have confidence and ignore him

MCheetah · Answer

The 'fuck are you on? That's MOST of the dudes on this site! I personally don't like short girls, petit girls, or flat-chested girls, but most guys on here seem to. Just ask @olderandwiser and @lilam a ton of other men on this site what their preference are in women. It's usually "5'2 petit women with B cups." The total opposite of my ideal of a woman: "6'3 full figured with thick thighs and H cups."

Red_Arrow · Answer

Lots of guys prefer smaller breasts, even A cups. But guys preferring your personality could be a lot safer. If a guy loves your boobs but not what is inside, your relationship would go bad very quickly. Luckily there are many men who ove sinny gals with small boobs, and are the kind of guys who will love what you have inside.

Anonymous · Answer

Victoria Secret models have small boobs and are skinny for a reason. It is the standard of what the majority of males prefer.

If you want a wannabe thug or some ghetto hiphop loving trash then you would need the big ass and big tits but males who aren’t trash generally prefer small ass and small tits on thin females.

CTOswald · Answer

For every female body type, there are male admirers of that. The real question is will you want the guys who want you for the type of body you have? Or would you rather find a guy who admires but ultimately doesn't care what type of body you have and will love you regardless?

LegendaryIcon · Answer

the girl i like right now, but we're "just talking", is thin with, id say, what LOOKS to be like b, possibly c's, i dk, i dk how breast size works but that's what it looks like to me. I actually kind of prefer thinner women with that size breasts because, im short and thin myself, so, it makes me feel a little better knowing that she's not "bigger" than me

Twalli · Answer

You're far too young for me (I don't go for more than 10 years separate from me), but you are my type. Skinny, small boobs, tight ass, are all things I like. Big boobs are only attractive as long as they're covered, once they come out of the bra then they're no longer attractive to me. I am one guy that likes small boobs and skinny girls, I am sure there are others, who would date you because they care less about age or they're closer to your age.

Wise4myage · Answer

Stop feeling sorry for yourself and focus on positive thoughts.

HighValue · Answer

Short, skinny, small breasted petite girls are my favorite physically and have been for many years. Not everyone likes the same things.

Neko_Nya · Answer

Yeah there's tonnes of em, I'm in the same boat as you but guys kinda won't leave me the fuck alone sometimes lol (not really complaining though)

DonkeyDan · Answer

Plenty of guys, me included that genuinely like skinny girls with small boobs.

PrinceWalnut · Answer

You mean like Keira Knightley? Or any other number of conventionally insanely hot women who have that exact body type? Of course you can find men like this. Just gotta look around a bit.

Cubus · Answer

There are guys who like girls with smaller breasts. Just be self-confident around them, and it will be alright.

Anonymous · Answer

Yeah, I'm right here. The idea that all guys prefer big boobs is a myth. I like small to medium sized boobs but I'll take small over big any day.

NightOwl8801 · Answer

You're beautiful regardless of what others think. I like small girls just as much as average build and chubby too

Anonymous · Answer

You absolutely will. Look around. You will see lots of guys with women with a wide range of body types.

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