Why are all guys so obsessed with big tits?

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Hi, I'm 16 years old and I'm currently a 34 a cup. I hate having small boobs. These guys in my class would make fun of me and call me flat chested. I feel like guys don't pay as much attention to me because i have small boobs. And aslo i don't feel as sexy. I mean i always get compliments, like you're so cute or you're so beautiful but i still feel like something is missing. I want at least a c cup. One day, i tested something out. I decided to wear a pushup bra that made my boobs look like twice as big, and i noticed i got lots of attention from guys, more than usual. Why are guys so obsessed with boobs? Like my brother who won't stop drooling over big boobs. He makes me feel even more insecure about my cup size. It's just embarrassing having small boobs, like guys get turned off by them. I know not all guys are like that but let's be real, like 90 percent of them are. I always cry over having small boobs and do whatever i can to make them bigger. So far no results, in case they don't reach a c cup, I'm seriously considering going under the knife. I know it's dangerous but i don't give a fuck. It will be my only hope if nothing else works out. That's all i ask for a c cup at least. What do you guys think?

Iwjwamo · Accepted Answer

speaking as a 19 year old who is a size 12 EE, count your blessings believe me

1- I was a c cup by year six and felt so embarrassed to be maturing before all my friends and cousins that i would do everything to hide my boobs in whatever i was wearing
2- I can't ever wear a backless dress or top
3- Running and most cardio is just not gonna happen because there isn't an actually supportive sports bra in my size
4- When i do get attention from guys its usually at my boobs not my face which actually burns me a bit
5- having big boobs takes all the attention away from your butt no matter how nice it may be
6- everything i wear aside from a baggy t shirt and trackies looks like a porn costume basically
7- guys tend to see me as basically a booty call and not girlfriend material even though im not slutty at all. I've actually been told by guys the sexy looking girl is fun but not as a girlfriend
8- expensive as shit bras
9-BACK PAIN FMLLLLLLLL

please just if you still want to get a boob job... nothing wrong with that by the way... just wait until you are 20 when you are stronger and more able to deal with the ridiculous expectations put on us by the media and other girls and more importantly guys.
make sure you are doing it for YOU not some stupid shallow superficial boy

also i would kill to have my boobs removed for a day and still be called beautiful... you should be really happy !!!

ahrt95 · Accepted Answer

You're 16. Trust me, once you get older, you'll realize that big boobs aren't everything. maybe some guys like big boobs, but others don't or don't care. don't change your body for others. And don't think that your body is all that matters. Guys may first see looks, but if the girl has a bad personality, than the guy will no longer be into her. boobs aren't the only things that makes a girl attractive.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I'm 16 with a D 38 cup and Lord knows i do not like being disrespected. Having perverts drool over my tits is NOT something i enjoy. I try hard to make them appear smaller all of the time. Do you really want attention on your boobs all of the time or rather your personality. You're beautiful, regardless of breast size. And high schools would bang a brick, dont worry about it.

AidenBlue · Accepted Answer

People are never meaner to each other than HS. Your body is still growing and changing. I'm not promising big c cups in the future but it could happen esp once you have kids.

Be careful what you wish for. There are big chested women who wish they didn't have them. Sure they get plenty of male attention but one day they start to wonder if any guy really likes them or just their big tits. I know lots of guys that are with annoying women for their big tits. It's funny actually.

If you find s guy who really like YOU he won't give s crap what shape or size your boobs are. We can get turned on by all shapes and sizes.

Alex Morgan US Soccer. Virtually no boobs yet one of the hottest girls on the planet. It's not everything. Don't obsess over it. You won't be on the cover of a hooters calendar but so what? If guys only married big boobs only 25% of the population would be married.

Laugh it off. They likely tease you because they know it gets to you. It's really not a big deal. It will stop when these morons grow up a bit.

truthbeknown · Accepted Answer

Should be "all boys". Lots of guys out there that care more about personality, attitude and charisma. Also, don't forget, some guys like boobs, other guys like bums and other likes legs. Don't worry!

Mesonfielde · Answer

Well technically "BIG" and "SMALL" are along an interval. There's a bunch of sizes inbetween. No point in going over the knife, it'll never look natural, nor balanced. It helps if you just find a guy who's into small boobs. There *are* males like that, after all. High school is not representative of the world.

Flat4 · Answer

Never discount that many guys have a preference for small boobs, not 10%! My favs are 34A's and I've said that in other posts so not just trying to make the Asker feel better!

VictoriousSausage · Answer

by no means is it all guys, personally i like an A cup just as much as a D cup, don't worry, you'll be fine

Frost_Byt3 · Answer

Shape is more important than size. Although my preference are medium sized boobs that are perky and round, I'd rather bave perky and round small boobs, than saggy big boobs.

No boob size is a turn OFF, but some aren't as much of a turn on as others.

Plus, boob size isn't everything. Guys mainly look for faces, good hair, and wide hips with a nice butt. Boobs come last in priority. I a girl had all of the other things i desire, i couldn't care less how big het boobs are.

BertMacklinFBI · Answer

"all guys" your world is so fucking small right now hahaa. don't worry about this shit, you'll learn in time.

FierceBrosnan · Answer

I married the A cup girl.  All boobs are awesome but I can't have a conversation with boobs... But Lord know I'm going to try.

aamy811 · Answer

Cutaway not true. The average most preferred be size by guys is a B cup. Boobs aren't in style anymore

lynnethegemini · Answer

Be happy with what you have. Do not be ashamed I am sure you are still beautiful! L

areyaready4this · Answer

Small boobs, not big boobs, are HOTT. Don't worry...

answersplease · Answer

I don't care for big boobs. There's nothing wrong with your size. Don'ttttt get fake ones and go under the knife. Love yourself for who you already are

James0 · Answer

You still got time to grow, but I want you to be able to find a guy who wants you for more then your body :c

Phoenix98 · Answer

These guys in my class: correction "boys"  Not all guys care about that, you'll find a lot on here don't have a preference.

adamax · Answer

Small sounds good to me. Just think the bigger they are the more they will sag when you are older. I like small

AverageAwesomeness · Answer

Beauty is way more than just cup size! Don't listen to what they tell you, real guys will look beyond that.

Mark987 · Answer

We aren't... we're obsessed with the woman that holds the body.

Anonymous · Answer

Women drool over large penises and get turned off by small ones. C'est la vie.

Klaatu51 · Answer

not all guys...

NordicInvader · Answer

I sincerely hope this is a joke.

COCOCHANEL · Answer

please just chill out. some like small.

Anonymous · Answer

I have FF boobs and trust me you do not want the back pain that comes with big boob.

convo_king89 · Answer

cuz boobs are a sign on femininity and its what make u a woman.

Anonymous · Answer

I hate big breasts!

HomerJ · Answer

Because they are the 2nd best thing ever

crs23 · Answer

The same reason girls are obsessed with 6 pack abs

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