Why do guys hate big boobs so much?

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like why there isn't anything wrong with small boobs but why do ALL guys love small boobs and guys literally vomit to the eyesight of big boobs i always thought if i had a husband i would be terrified to take my bra off or "surprise" him and most likely never take my bra off during s. ex 
mine are real and are a 38dd (which is big for my age) and im not easy or put out but i hate how in reality and on the internet i hear men PRAISING small boobs and bad mouthing women with big boobs and lowers my confidence that girls with small boobs are gorgeous and big boobs are a problem thats gonna explode mars or something and its come to the fact im crying everynight literally thinking about chopping my boobs out so please help what is it about big boobs that make you vomit so bad

ThePragmaticRomantic · Accepted Answer

Hey. Plenty of guys actively prefer big boobs. T'was a life changing moment the first time I had a pair of natural Es in my hands...

But the majority of guys dont like FAKE big boobs (partially thanks to a lash back agains the weird pop culture fascination with them, partially because the majority of boob jobs are ugley, unnatural looking and feel aweful).
Combine the dislike of fake boobs, and the way that saying you like big boobs is a guarenteed way to upset of certain people, be they small chested lasses who are insecure [and there is always that little fear that they will then go away and feel that they need to get implants because guys only like bib boobies], or a lass who will then automatically label the guy as a sexist pig, who watches buckets of porn and hates strong independant women, and you can't blame guys who do preffer them from not talking about it.

And generally speaking, dispite all the press, guys dont really care. To most guys their prefference is a slight inclination, size matters less than shape and complexion, and they matter so so much less than the girl they are attached to.

I would say the "what sized boobs are best" is the female version of "is my dick too small".. but to be honest most guys are far less picky about breast size. Any breasts are better than nothing, and they really dont matter when you care about the rest of the lass.

mangaka92 · Accepted Answer

You're making generalizations. Not all guys like large chests. I absolutely love large chests. In fact, what I consider the ideal chest size is actually VERY large compared to many guys' preferences. I think D's to K's are great with H probably being my favorite size.
Don't chop your chest off. You're just meeting a lot of guys that like small chests, apparently. It's not the norm, though. Most guys like large, even if it's only slightly more that the number that like small. They're pretty close to even. You've got nothing to worry about. Be confident in your size because 38DD is a great size.

marinadiamond · Accepted Answer

I notice many girls with big boobs think their better than all the other girls. They think that since they have big boobs they are exempt from all criticism. So if they get criticism they freak out and deal with it by lashing out on girls with smaller boobs ( even thought there is nothing wrong with small boobs) and THATS why this whole " come to the small boobs rescue thing has started" The social construct of girls with big boobs hating on girls with little boobs backfired, giving smaller boobs more attention in the end, because girls with smaller boobs on average tend to be more humble with what they have, even though ironically they physically have less

no one every hated big boobs. . you're just attention seeking

kaylaS91 · Accepted Answer

If you've heard guys saying they like only small boobs. think of it as the boob equivalent of the pc movement of people praising being overweight as empowering, that being heavier makes you a 'real' woman. It's nothing more than that in reality. Just a movement trying to make everyone feel included.

I'm 36C/D, and have personally never heard any guy say they didn't like my boobs. I find they actually attract way too much attention, more than I hope to attract most of the time.
Don't stress, embrace wht you've got and the truth is that to most guys, a boob is a boob, regardless of what size they say they may prefer. :)

peacelovecows · Accepted Answer

I'm 5'2 around 105-110lbs, and I have 32DDD (E). So they pretty much take up my whole entire fucking torso. I used to hate it as well, but eventually I learned to accept it. I was angry a lot of the time about how many things they hindered me from, but I learned to stop being angry and admit that I never really wanted to be an Olympic swimmer so it wasn't the end of the world that my boobs would never allow that.

Just like there are plenty of men who love small boobs, there are plenty that love big boobs. Find a man who loves your personality and worships your body like the goddess you are.

ElissaDido · Answer

Huh? Isn't the other way round?

GamerArtNerd · Answer

I don't know where you are getting this information. Just about every female protagonist or video game character who is supposed to be "sexy" has big boobs. For most guys, the size doesn't matter and the bigger the better. I've seen guys who prefer smaller ones but never guys who HATE large ones. That is ridiculous. You're actually the first girl I've seen on here who was concerned about having large ones. One of the most common questions I see on this site are girls being worried about their small boobs. That and penis size questions.

Ziconic · Answer

Hey, you're still in high school. That's why. Tbh, I prefer smaller boobs, but you shouldn't be ashamed because you have big boobs lol. Not all guys like them small, and not all guys like them big, once you get older you'll understand. And it shouldn't matter in the first place. Do what makes YOU feel comfortable, don't care what a bunch of dumbasses think. And if you've gotten your info from the internet, remember that there are plenty of trolls trying to make people's lives harder. Don't listen to negativity, be yourself and you'll find where you need to be. Hope this helps :)

rgb008 · Answer

There's nothing wrong with big boobs!
There are plenty of guys who like big boobs and plenty of guys who like smaller boobs.
Maybe guys who like smaller boobs are just more vocal about it. You don't really see guys going around saying how much they love big boobs.

Yes, I see it too. That lots of guys prefer smaller boobs and a bigger butt. But that's not every guy. It makes me insecure at times as well. But you will find someone who loves you for who you are and not just your boob size, whether they prefer large or small boobs.

longjohndan · Answer

This website is really revealing about what girls think. They are crazy hard on themselves. I was always under the impression that bigger is better when it came to boobs and that is what most girls would be comfortable with. I certainly don't get where u would think big boobs would make someone vomit. I didn't vote in your poll, I have a preference for small boobs but I certainly would not be turned off by big ones.

BellePepper · Answer

Oh my god. The average woman wears a 36DD. There's no such thing as big or small for your age. There's only what you have. You are your own measuring stick.

There are lots of comments about how different people have different preferences. And you know what NONE OF THEM MATTER.

It's your body. Your opinion is the only one that matters. If you like your girls keep them. If you find they're still bothering you in your 20s get a reduction. QED.

lolzalosa · Answer

i think its just because girls with smaller boobs are more common so they've probe learnt to accept it, i am 15 and i have an EE cup, and heaps of guys are always asking me for nudes and what not, it gets annoying! be grateful :) but maybe if you do want this kind of attention your just looking in the wrong place :(

Anonymous · Answer

Big boobs are not that attractive to me personally but sure they're nice to look at but I can't imagine when the bra comes off and it all just drop, even in porn I don't like big boobs real or fake. Small/medium boobs are really cute. Don't be sacred someone will love you with all that you got and all men have different taste so this is just my opinion

Curmudgeon · Answer

We do? I LOVE fun bags!

NOTE: however, it is *not* absolute size per se, but rather *proportion* to the woman's body frame. Some women are large breasted but also chunky framed which takes away from that. And some women might have only, say, C-cups but on their petite frames they look huge.

Goldie757 · Answer

"ALL guys love small boobs"
Umm no men have teased me. I compared my to drag queen and have been told not to wear low cut shirts/dresses as I have nothing to show. Guys are praising girls with small boobs to make them feel better due to teasing from men and soceity saying they look unfemminie.

The majority of guys prefer big/medium breasts. Unless you have back pain you are crying over nothing.

MrWaffless · Answer

Huh, since when did boobs make guys vomit? the bigger the better just not anything adnormal

sexyphil · Answer

don't fret about your boobs there are guys out there who will love what you have and more tot the point will love you for you. I personally prefer smaller boobs but that's just me and all guys aren't like me. Just love yourself and accept that for one certain guy you will be just perfect. When you least expect it he will be there... ALL guys don't like smaller boobs I promise you...

GirlScoutsRevenge · Answer

This just isn't true. Dry your eyes and stop making up reasons to be sad. I have big boobs and they have only ever been vomited on once, and it wasn't by a man.

Xelebrum · Answer

The main reason why a lot (not all nor most) of guys love small boobs is because they're considered more perky and less likely to sag as she ages.

But there are PLENTY of guys who'd practically drool over your boobs.

Anonymous · Answer

Its probably not the cup size that is scaring them off. Correct me if I'm wrong, but i can infer that a girl with a 38 band size is overweight. The fact that you are overweight is probably what is scaring them off, not the size of your boobs. But if you lost weight, your boobs would probably get a lot smaller.

meatballs21 · Answer

If you are up all night crying because you think you need to chop your big boobs off to make guys love you, you need to stop smoking crack before bed.

blondfrog · Answer

I guess that's just whats in right now before it used to be guys loved big boobs personally I like all kinds of boobs big are nice, average and small they are all attractive to me. Its really more about the shape and aeroals of the boobs as well as the person attached to it.

AidenBlue · Answer

News flash - we like them all. Really. Yes, bigger can make a splash and get our attention but we love smaller as well.

Just share them with the right guy - he will love them. Stop obsessing over it! Really.

lucasnabizada · Answer

LOL If you think fellows hate big boobs... There's something really wrong with you. haha.. That's all im gonna say

TripleAce · Answer

Because big boobs are risky... a girl usually has excess fat that goes with big boobs, but not always.  Small to medium size boobs make a women look more slender and agile

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