Why do guys hate big boobs so much?

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like why there isn't anything wrong with small boobs but why do ALL guys love small boobs and guys literally vomit to the eyesight of big boobs i always thought if i had a husband i would be terrified to take my bra off or "surprise" him and most likely never take my bra off during s. ex 
mine are real and are a 38dd (which is big for my age) and im not easy or put out but i hate how in reality and on the internet i hear men PRAISING small boobs and bad mouthing women with big boobs and lowers my confidence that girls with small boobs are gorgeous and big boobs are a problem thats gonna explode mars or something and its come to the fact im crying everynight literally thinking about chopping my boobs out so please help what is it about big boobs that make you vomit so bad

ThePragmaticRomantic · Accepted Answer

Hey. Plenty of guys actively prefer big boobs. T'was a life changing moment the first time I had a pair of natural Es in my hands...

But the majority of guys dont like FAKE big boobs (partially thanks to a lash back agains the weird pop culture fascination with them, partially because the majority of boob jobs are ugley, unnatural looking and feel aweful).
Combine the dislike of fake boobs, and the way that saying you like big boobs is a guarenteed way to upset of certain people, be they small chested lasses who are insecure [and there is always that little fear that they will then go away and feel that they need to get implants because guys only like bib boobies], or a lass who will then automatically label the guy as a sexist pig, who watches buckets of porn and hates strong independant women, and you can't blame guys who do preffer them from not talking about it.

And generally speaking, dispite all the press, guys dont really care. To most guys their prefference is a slight inclination, size matters less than shape and complexion, and they matter so so much less than the girl they are attached to.

I would say the "what sized boobs are best" is the female version of "is my dick too small".. but to be honest most guys are far less picky about breast size. Any breasts are better than nothing, and they really dont matter when you care about the rest of the lass.

mangaka92 · Accepted Answer

You're making generalizations. Not all guys like large chests. I absolutely love large chests. In fact, what I consider the ideal chest size is actually VERY large compared to many guys' preferences. I think D's to K's are great with H probably being my favorite size.
Don't chop your chest off. You're just meeting a lot of guys that like small chests, apparently. It's not the norm, though. Most guys like large, even if it's only slightly more that the number that like small. They're pretty close to even. You've got nothing to worry about. Be confident in your size because 38DD is a great size.

marinadiamond · Accepted Answer

I notice many girls with big boobs think their better than all the other girls. They think that since they have big boobs they are exempt from all criticism. So if they get criticism they freak out and deal with it by lashing out on girls with smaller boobs ( even thought there is nothing wrong with small boobs) and THATS why this whole " come to the small boobs rescue thing has started" The social construct of girls with big boobs hating on girls with little boobs backfired, giving smaller boobs more attention in the end, because girls with smaller boobs on average tend to be more humble with what they have, even though ironically they physically have less

no one every hated big boobs. . you're just attention seeking

kaylaS91 · Accepted Answer

If you've heard guys saying they like only small boobs. think of it as the boob equivalent of the pc movement of people praising being overweight as empowering, that being heavier makes you a 'real' woman. It's nothing more than that in reality. Just a movement trying to make everyone feel included.

I'm 36C/D, and have personally never heard any guy say they didn't like my boobs. I find they actually attract way too much attention, more than I hope to attract most of the time.
Don't stress, embrace wht you've got and the truth is that to most guys, a boob is a boob, regardless of what size they say they may prefer. :)

peacelovecows · Accepted Answer

I'm 5'2 around 105-110lbs, and I have 32DDD (E). So they pretty much take up my whole entire fucking torso. I used to hate it as well, but eventually I learned to accept it. I was angry a lot of the time about how many things they hindered me from, but I learned to stop being angry and admit that I never really wanted to be an Olympic swimmer so it wasn't the end of the world that my boobs would never allow that.

Just like there are plenty of men who love small boobs, there are plenty that love big boobs. Find a man who loves your personality and worships your body like the goddess you are.

ElissaDido · Answer

Huh? Isn't the other way round?

GamerArtNerd · Answer

I don't know where you are getting this information. Just about every female protagonist or video game character who is supposed to be "sexy" has big boobs. For most guys, the size doesn't matter and the bigger the better. I've seen guys who prefer smaller ones but never guys who HATE large ones. That is ridiculous. You're actually the first girl I've seen on here who was concerned about having large ones. One of the most common questions I see on this site are girls being worried about their small boobs. That and penis size questions.

Ziconic · Answer

Hey, you're still in high school. That's why. Tbh, I prefer smaller boobs, but you shouldn't be ashamed because you have big boobs lol. Not all guys like them small, and not all guys like them big, once you get older you'll understand. And it shouldn't matter in the first place. Do what makes YOU feel comfortable, don't care what a bunch of dumbasses think. And if you've gotten your info from the internet, remember that there are plenty of trolls trying to make people's lives harder. Don't listen to negativity, be yourself and you'll find where you need to be. Hope this helps :)

rgb008 · Answer

There's nothing wrong with big boobs!
There are plenty of guys who like big boobs and plenty of guys who like smaller boobs.
Maybe guys who like smaller boobs are just more vocal about it. You don't really see guys going around saying how much they love big boobs.

Yes, I see it too. That lots of guys prefer smaller boobs and a bigger butt. But that's not every guy. It makes me insecure at times as well. But you will find someone who loves you for who you are and not just your boob size, whether they prefer large or small boobs.

longjohndan · Answer

This website is really revealing about what girls think. They are crazy hard on themselves. I was always under the impression that bigger is better when it came to boobs and that is what most girls would be comfortable with. I certainly don't get where u would think big boobs would make someone vomit. I didn't vote in your poll, I have a preference for small boobs but I certainly would not be turned off by big ones.

BellePepper · Answer

Oh my god. The average woman wears a 36DD. There's no such thing as big or small for your age. There's only what you have. You are your own measuring stick.

There are lots of comments about how different people have different preferences. And you know what NONE OF THEM MATTER.

It's your body. Your opinion is the only one that matters. If you like your girls keep them. If you find they're still bothering you in your 20s get a reduction. QED.

lolzalosa · Answer

i think its just because girls with smaller boobs are more common so they've probe learnt to accept it, i am 15 and i have an EE cup, and heaps of guys are always asking me for nudes and what not, it gets annoying! be grateful :) but maybe if you do want this kind of attention your just looking in the wrong place :(

Anonymous · Answer

Big boobs are not that attractive to me personally but sure they're nice to look at but I can't imagine when the bra comes off and it all just drop, even in porn I don't like big boobs real or fake. Small/medium boobs are really cute. Don't be sacred someone will love you with all that you got and all men have different taste so this is just my opinion

Curmudgeon · Answer

We do? I LOVE fun bags!

NOTE: however, it is *not* absolute size per se, but rather *proportion* to the woman's body frame. Some women are large breasted but also chunky framed which takes away from that. And some women might have only, say, C-cups but on their petite frames they look huge.

Goldie757 · Answer

"ALL guys love small boobs"
Umm no men have teased me. I compared my to drag queen and have been told not to wear low cut shirts/dresses as I have nothing to show. Guys are praising girls with small boobs to make them feel better due to teasing from men and soceity saying they look unfemminie.

The majority of guys prefer big/medium breasts. Unless you have back pain you are crying over nothing.

GirlScoutsRevenge · Answer

This just isn't true. Dry your eyes and stop making up reasons to be sad. I have big boobs and they have only ever been vomited on once, and it wasn't by a man.

MrWaffless · Answer

Huh, since when did boobs make guys vomit? the bigger the better just not anything adnormal

sexyphil · Answer

don't fret about your boobs there are guys out there who will love what you have and more tot the point will love you for you. I personally prefer smaller boobs but that's just me and all guys aren't like me. Just love yourself and accept that for one certain guy you will be just perfect. When you least expect it he will be there... ALL guys don't like smaller boobs I promise you...

Xelebrum · Answer

The main reason why a lot (not all nor most) of guys love small boobs is because they're considered more perky and less likely to sag as she ages.

But there are PLENTY of guys who'd practically drool over your boobs.

Anonymous · Answer

Its probably not the cup size that is scaring them off. Correct me if I'm wrong, but i can infer that a girl with a 38 band size is overweight. The fact that you are overweight is probably what is scaring them off, not the size of your boobs. But if you lost weight, your boobs would probably get a lot smaller.

meatballs21 · Answer

If you are up all night crying because you think you need to chop your big boobs off to make guys love you, you need to stop smoking crack before bed.

blondfrog · Answer

I guess that's just whats in right now before it used to be guys loved big boobs personally I like all kinds of boobs big are nice, average and small they are all attractive to me. Its really more about the shape and aeroals of the boobs as well as the person attached to it.

G-Daz · Answer

I love big boobs. I've found it annoying hearing people bad mouth big boobs so much too when saying they like small ones. All guys like something different though and i think big boobs are amazing! !!

AidenBlue · Answer

News flash - we like them all. Really. Yes, bigger can make a splash and get our attention but we love smaller as well.

Just share them with the right guy - he will love them. Stop obsessing over it! Really.

lucasnabizada · Answer

LOL If you think fellows hate big boobs... There's something really wrong with you. haha.. That's all im gonna say

TripleAce · Answer

Because big boobs are risky... a girl usually has excess fat that goes with big boobs, but not always.  Small to medium size boobs make a women look more slender and agile

Anonymous · Answer

99.99% of the time, big boobs are either attached to big women or the women they are attached to will grow to be big. Fact: women with big boobs carry their weight on the front of their bodies. Just genetics... Then there's the heat, moisture and dirt that gets stuck in and around them that cause zits, bumbs, heat rash. Then there's the stretching. Then there's the sagging...

Sad-onion · Answer

what world are you living in? most men love big boobs. have you seen women like kelly brook or kate upton? there's a reason they're so well off, and its not because they're smart.

personally i love boobs of all shapes and sizes.

Ulyss · Answer

I don't bad mouth girls with big breasts but I love smaller boobs because they look really appealing tbh 😂💕

matheus_mb · Answer

Hey, calm down. If a guy really likes you the size of your boobs won't matter. You're making a very big deal out of it. Just relax, there are plenty of guys who like big boobs.

Anonymous · Answer

this is news to me.. growing up i learned that all guys wanted big boobs and i have had lot of guys wanting me, and i have big boobs.. it sounds like you have deeper issues then having big boobs that " makes guys vomit"..

Everyone wants what they can't have, girls with small boobs want bigger boobs, girls with big boobs want smaller boobs

WhateverMayBeWillBe · Answer

I most have missed the memo for this meeting were apparently guys decided to "hate" big breast... and here I thought they were generally lusted for.

mashall_khattak · Answer

Who said guys hate big boobs? I love huge boobs, not just big ones, I love them madly, really really loads... I wish I can find and marry a girl with huge rack and love her loads for the rest of my life. I love bigger than DDDs. They scream feminity, I can write 10 pages about how and what and why... Big boobs girls are the best girls in the world period. if I could get such a girl with huge rack, i'll kiss and lick and suck her face to feet daily. would love love love love her loads

zenn55 · Answer

Well, there comes a point where the bust is too large, and I guess then the couple might have problems with kissing and all. And if I’m being really honest, there are probably very, very few females who are like completely flat chested. Other than the two extremes tho, any size is great (I’d personally prefer ones slightly on the large end of the spectrum).

Deadpool579 · Answer

do not be ashamed of your big boobs, I prefer a woman with bigger boobs and your sounds like a wonderful size. Screw all the haters, I know there are plenty of men that appreciate women with bigger boobs.

Realfire22 · Answer

I don't know what guys you're talking about.. most guys (mainly black guys) adore big boobs. I have big girls, I'm very proud of them and so is my boyfriend.

lonerguy20 · Answer

its just the same way as you girls hate lots of body hair on guys and vomit to the sight of a very very hairy male body... and make the guy feel very very insecure taking off his shirt and wearing shorts... just the same thing!

GingerGuy · Answer

My preference is smaller, but ultimately if I like you, it doesn't matter (I'll like them too). As long as they're natural (not implants), I don't care what size you are.

The_other_one · Answer

i dont mind big/small boobs, a pretty face is all i need specially the eyes :D but who am i to talk right? xD just some guy on the net passing by :p

AndiArthropod · Answer

I'm 24 and I'm a natural 34DD and actually quite perky. I've never had a guy dislike my breasts.

JuicyBrain · Answer

Where the hell did you ever hear that? There are women on here asking why is it that all men hate small boobs and love big boobs ?

Mgoods · Answer

There's a wealth of men that will appreciate boobs, just for the fact they're boobs lol. Size means nothing to them.

OrangeBoy · Answer

Its normal for 16 years old to have bigger one. They will be small some years later, its because puberty.

A heterossexual guy do not vomit... they will love it too. Just not so much than others, for some guys.

Phoenix98 · Answer

I don't hate big or smaller breasts, they're both great.

Anonymous · Answer

big boobs on a fat girl are like a six pack on a skinny dude, they don't count.

also, i'm waiting for the skinny dude acceptance personally, can't wait until i stop getting flack for being thinner than other dudes and girls looking at me weird

Anonymous · Answer

why would u do that? ur lucky and u should be thankful u have such a big size :P girls with big boobs look good naked too lol and im sure ur boyfriend/hubby likes them :D

CountVronsky · Answer

Where did you get the "guys don't like big boobs thing"? Guys love big boobs. It's just a biological thing.

bubbletrouble · Answer

Its politically correct to bash big breasted women and big dick men

Alyssass · Answer

Embrace your boobs! And also those do not sound really large, I thought like a 36D was average?

James0 · Answer

Not all guys do, every guy has his likes and dislikes

jakeofalltrades · Answer

let me tell you a secret, guys love all boobs. it doesn't matter what size and shape they are we just love them. so if you ever find a guy I guarantee he will love your boobs

RetroReviews · Answer

I love big boobs and they're my preference. 38 DD sounds nice

Anonymous · Answer

For me personally, big boobs are the female equivalent to a big gut on a guy. When you're being intimate with him, you don't want to see all that fat flopping around. Just my.02

JSmuve · Answer

I'm sorry, what? You must be new here/to life because I'm always hearing the opposite from girls.

AngryHorny · Answer

My taste runs towards smaller boobs that's all. They're more sensitive, I'm told.

LennyR1 · Answer

Men don't hate boobs we love them they are our friends your boobs are my friends too

Anonymous · Answer

Many if not most men including myself LOVE big boobs and DON'T like small chested women. So i'm not sure where your getting this crazy idea.

K1ll3r98 · Answer

i'm okay with either big or small, but my preference is B or C cup

Anonymous · Answer

Are you mad? If anything I hate small boobs and love big ones? Who lied to you? I don't hate any size boobs actually but I definitely prefer big over small.

cinderelli · Answer

i dont think they do.. they can be uncomfortable if they are too big to handle.

WonderingManII · Answer

like/are okay with big boobs/doesn't matter.

Angelordevil22 · Answer

honestly i'm a female and i got 36D's i think big boobs are a blessing makes any thing a female wears better and honestl cushoning

Dumbfounded99 · Answer

I have never heard of a guy that hates big boobs. Of course if you are like 400 pounds its no good but all guys love boobs. I actually like big boobs better that the small ones

Anonymous · Answer

I prefer C cup and smaller but if my partner had bigger it wouldn't be a deal breaker I just wouldn't like praise them

LegateLanius · Answer

I don't know any guy personally that said they hate big boobs.

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