Why do guys hate/dislike big boobs?

[Anonymous]

i have recently hear this thing that says "small boobs rock" which nothings wrong with that but EVERYBODY girls and guys are bashing girl wish small boobs and it makes me torn and hurt inside to know i have real boobs that are big but there is nothing i can actually do about it and it has torn my confidence down knowing that basically the whole world of guys hate big boobs saying "oh smaller boobs are better" etc and this and that and it makes me think i will never find a guy or be accepted by a guy because my boobs aren't little/small and i wouldn't fit his standards just because of a chest size i can't control so why are big boobs such a problem for guys that they feel the need to bash them and why are smaller chest girls being cruel and bashing big boobs and everybody being jeks about big boobs

[14jan97]

Rant time. Everybody is being jerks, and it's not just when it comes to boobs preferences.
I've never heard about this "small boobs are better movement", and I actually questioned what the big deal was about big boobs, but I've gotten to the point now where I just think everyone needs to chill the fuck out and stop placing higher values on certain body shapes, sizes, colors or features because it destroying the self esteem of so many men and women. Who cares if X many people on the earth like bigger dicks or smaller boobs or meatier men or musclier women. If a relationship is your thing then it is almost a certainty you'll end up with someone who loves your chest or whatever other part of you that makes you you.
@QuestionMan I am an F cup and it sucks. What sucks more is when people like you, and like those who commented on my post, start of with making a limitless comment such as "the bigger the better" and then single out a group of people and say that their boobs are scary. Most of us don't want them but we've got them and try to love and appreciate them as much as possible.
GIRLS - boob size doesn't matter. If you meet someone who gives a toss about you and you don't possess their prefered breast size, it won't matter to them. Boobs are boobs, no matter how much or how little fat or silicone is there.
HUMANS - we all go through a crap load and a half and then we die. Just be nice and stop judging one another on their boobs or supposedly lack there of. Life can be suckish enough at times without having to deal with the bullshit and judgements of anyone else on the planet. Just love yourself and take care of each other and we'll all be sweet 👍🏼

[14jan97]

If you cbf reading all that ^ I completely understand. In a nutshell all boobs are great, people need to harden up, humans are shitty and we all need to stop being judgmental keyboard warriors.

[Prettylittlething]

Okay too be honest this just gives me an insight of how people are because I'm small chested 32 B and throughout school I'm forever being told by boys why don't you stuff your bra. Have you not hit puberty? Why the hell would you not get implants if they were free? And the answer is because I'm happy in my own skin. Now I always thought big boobs were idolised. And I'm pretty sure for a large majority they are but the problem is there will always be someone who doesn't like them or prefers smaller. You just have to deal with that. There's boys who tell me bigger is better and I'm sure there will be guys who tell you smaller is better it's all about preference

[Anonymous]

Guys do hate big boobs. I am tiny, and have huge boobs so I would know. I as well do not like them and have tried losing weight but the weight just stays in my chest.

For the people saying guys love them, stop. That trend ended in 2015. If you come my way and you got big boobs, you're going to get made fun of.
More and more guys are becoming ass lovers, hence why I cannot wait to get mine completely reduced because I want to, and because I'll look better.
Bug boobs suck, especially when you're old. I always wanted a really big ass because I knew guys liked that. No dude wants sag bags in his face lol

[Anonymous]

99.99% of the time, big boobs are either attached to big women or the women they are attached to will grow to be big. Fact: women with big boobs carry their weight on the front of their bodies. Just genetics... Then there's the heat, moisture and dirt that gets stuck in and around them that cause zits, bumbs, heat rash. Then there's the stretching. Then there's the sagging...

[guylow]

Total bullshit!

[QuestionMan]

The only people that say "small boobs rock" are insecure girls with small boobs, manginas, white knights and desperate guys.

The bigger the better as long as it's not F cups or higher then it gets scary.

[Scrimshaw]

This! ^

[Red_Arrow]

It is always stupid to generalize with "the only people that..." But to say this about guys who prefer beautiful small breasts, or the women who have them, takes stupid to a new level.

[QuestionMan]

@Red_Arrow Do you like small breasts?

[Red_Arrow]

Yes. Does not mean I hate on large breasts. But small is beautiful.

[Asker]

@Red_Arrow well I guess im doomed forever :( :( :(

[Asker]

@Red_Arrow so I'm not considered "beautiful" or "pretty" just because I don't have a small chest? :( will that just makes me worse :(

[QuestionMan]

No he's just saying that there are guys (the minority actually) that like small breasts.
Trust me the bigger the better :)

[Red_Arrow]

Why would you say "well I guess im doomed forever" and "so I'm not considered "beautiful" or "pretty" just because I don't have a small chest?" just because I prefer smaller? My preference is mine and does not affect you at all. And though many other guys feel the same way as I do, many others prefer large. Similarly, regardless of what hair color you have, there are guys who prefer other colors. Does that "doom you forever"?

Also, though I prefer small breasts, my wife was very large breasted and because I loved her, I loved her breasts and loved all the touching of them I did. I never felt bad about her size at all.

[marinadiamond]

Small boobs can rock too... doesn't mean someone's "insecure"

That's ignorant.

[QuestionMan]

@marinadiamond Well there's been a lot of hate towards large breasted women on this site.
GAG does not represent the real world as I'm sure you've noticed. In reality more guys are into large breasts than small ones. The ones that go for smaller tend to do so because that's all they can get.
Some do genuinely like small breasts but they are in the minority.

[marinadiamond]

no one gives a fuck about boob size there's bigger issues...

[marinadiamond]

the victoria secret models are usually around a-c cups with t he exception of some being d's, They date the some of the hottest guys. These guys choose to be with small breasted women, notice they could have any girl they wanted

just because i guy likes a girl with small boobs doesn't mean they aren't less manly, its preference as much as you like big boobs. Stop trying to label everything. Your 21 and on this site, and most of the guys on this sit are the "manginas white knight" desperate kind of guys so stop acting like you're any better

[marinadiamond]

* a guy

[marinadiamond]

i now have a better answer to the question

I notice many girls with big boobs think their better than all the other girls. They think that since they have big boobs they are exempt from all criticism. So if they get criticism they freak out and deal with it by lashing out on girls with smaller boobs ( even thought there is nothing wrong with small boobs) and THATS why this whole " come to the small boobs rescue thing has started" The social construct of girls with big boobs hating on girls with little boobs backfired, giving smaller boobs more attention in the end, because girls with smaller boobs on average tend to be more humble with what they have, even though ironically they physically have less

[QuestionMan]

@marinadiamond
1) "no one gives a fuck about boob size there's bigger issues"
Than why are you responding if you don't care?

2) "the victoria secret models are usually around a-c cups with t he exception of some being d's, They date the some of the hottest guys. These guys choose to be with small breasted women, notice they could have any girl they wanted"

Victoria Secret models are the crème de la crème of women so comparing one of them to an average girl with big breasts is inaccurate. If you take 2 girls that are of the same tier and one has larger breasts than she is 34% more likely to be desired.
www.news.com.au/.../43b051e8a51b8fb506c79770b83e3ca6

[QuestionMan]

@marinadiamond
3) "just because a guy likes a girl with small boobs doesn't mean they aren't less manly, its preference as much as you like big boobs. Stop trying to label everything. Your 21 and on this site, and most of the guys on this site are the "manginas white knight" desperate kind of guys so stop acting like you're any better"

First of all I did not put my real age I am between 18-24.
Secondly I'm not desperate, I have standards unlike the doormats that praise every woman on this site. A guy that doesn't like big boobs exists because women with small breasts exist. Women with small breasts may have better personalities but they are more likely to settle for a guy than to sleep around and have fun which I see as a negative.

[QuestionMan]

Thanks for MHO :)

[marinadiamond]

Yeah many guys are doormats on this site, it is good you are not. What I am saying though is either way you are on this site for whatever personal reason, so you shouldn't judge the other guys on here.

you're actually wrong though. I have small boobs and have never had a serious relationship. I've had fun in my past years, although I am looking to be more settled now. Girls with small boobs do get equal attention, not just from ugly guys. Big boobs are sexualized more and get more apparent sexual attention and comments form guys, but i know tons of girls with small boobs who have been promiscuous

[marinadiamond]

and yeah maybe that girl did get more attention after enhancing but thats because physically big boobs are more eye ctahcing and noticeable. Also on a site like tinder, thats not really a good source because most of the guys on there are horrible. Personally I think she looked better before enhancing her boobs. Her outfits went instantly from wholesome to trashy looking, her tops looked too tight with the breast enhancement and cheapened the look of it. at least size up, but then again it was photoshop

[marinadiamond]

www.pikore.com/m/1136480379810148078_398534666

Fore example if this girl had bigger boobs her outfit would instantly become sloppy and it would not look as pretty, her smallish medium sized breasts make this risky outfit actually look kind of classy,

[marinadiamond]

and to the poster and when you said "theres been a lot of hate towards large breasted women on this site" I can gurantee you small breasted girls get way more shit on this site I constantly see comments saying "nice but would be betyer with bigger boobs" " and wouldn't date boobs too small" I see maybe 30 of those comments for ever one comment hating on big boobs, yet you all fail to acknowledge that huh? But the minute someone attacks big boobs 50 people come to defence? Is morality based off personal preference and biases then?

[QuestionMan]

@marinadiamond What you consider "trashy looking" is what I consider attractive.
Boobs are sexualized so having big ones is always a bonus while not having them is a potential drawback. In my experience, girls with smaller breasts tend to be more desperate and get less attention which is what led me to believe that this "small breast movement" was started by insecure girls.
Although I do not use Tinder since I see it as a cesspool of desperation and narcissism it is still the best quantifier of our most basic sexual desires.

Don't get me wrong personality is very important in a girl but I still have a certain standard for physical appearance.
Too often I've seen guys acquiesce dating a less attractive girl out of sheer desperation. I see it is weakness and shouldn't be tolerated.
The common responses from such men are "someone is better than no one" and "your standards are too high".

[marinadiamond]

i suppose

[marinadiamond]

As a girl with small boobs I try hard to not be biased but to me big boobs look like floppy cow udders. And i am not saying this out of jealousy. I know guys find big boobs attractive and that is completely fine, it has zero affect on me lol. I just don't understand what the poster's problem is because never have i heard guys hating big boobs, i think she is just fishing for compliments

[marinadiamond]

which is extremely annoying for regardless of bra size

[marinadiamond]

also heidi montag and many others were better looking before breast enhancement so your theory of the biggest boob size maximizing beauty is not always valid.. although heidi was an extreme case big boobs just dont suit some people.. i know a girl who was a 32b and got a boob job to a 34d and she said more guys looked at her with smaller boobs and was hit on more with smaller.. big boobs are over hyped to some, small boobs are often more refreshing, modern and more fashionable to a lot

[QuestionMan]

@marinadiamond It's most likely the SJWs that got to her so she needed validation.
Heidi Montag is an example of a failed breast enhancement surgery.
If you want to look at big boobs look at Kate Upton and Katy Perry.
For a good boob job look at Nicki Minaj.

I guess you never touched big boobs that's why you see them that way. I can assure you they're very comfortable.

Small boobs are average. 32B appears to be the most common bra size.
I see no reason to settle for average. Only the weak accept what is readily available instead of searching for something better.

[guylow]

@marinadiamond You're so wrong about Heidi. She looked fabulous with her beautiful, big tits. Then the internet mob bashed her and she gave in to the vocal minority like you. What a huge mistake!!!

[jakesow]

Are you kidding me? Have you ever had a pair of G cups propped up on your face? There's literally no feeling like that in the world.

For all my ladies out there F cup and higher, don't listen to this guy. Some men like a prefer more on their plate. G cup, H cup, J cup, K cup. The bigger, the better!!

[razelove]

You're overthinking it big time. My preference is towards small to average boobs, mostly because they stay perky and are easier to play with. Big tits are far more fun to play with, it's just time is not kind to them at all. I mean, try titty fucking small boobs, it's a Sisyphean task that will only have the possibility of working if she's knocked up or breast feeding.
Again, they're way more fun to play with, but the appearance does not hold up as well with aging. Right now your tits would beat out the appearance of smaller tits I'd imagine, give it a decade and that reverses in 9/10 cases. D cups are a toss-up, they can withstand the savages of gravity, larger than that is going to the belt, and beyond!

[stepyo99]

You're letting a few interactions color your perception. There are many, many men out there who love big boobs and think "the bigger the better" so I wouldn't get upset about it and do something drastic like DEAR GOD DON'T FUCKING CUT THEM OFF WHY WOULD YOU MUTILATE YOURSELF LIKE THAT? GOD GAVE YOU A GIFT AND YOU SPIT IN HIS FACE WHY? WHY? WHY? WHY?

So yeah, I'd just chill out and find guys who like big boobs. No big deal.

[Anonymous]

I have yet to ever see a guy ogle a woman and say, "will you just look at the small boobs on her!"

There probably are some guys who prefer them but I think mostly you are seeing a vociferous minority who are loud because they know they are vastly outnumbered. That or maybe they are trying to appeal to small chest women by telling them what they want to hear.

[lifeis4living]

There is loads of guys out there who love big boobs, same with small boobs. I don't insult or rip into anyone's breasts size, for one I'm not that petty, and two, it doesn't matter to me, only the girl carrying them does. 😉

[maverick_avr]

You can DM me, but big boobs are way better than smaller boobs. Big boobs you can play with and massage them, if I wanted to play with small boobs I can play with my own, haha. Men actually prefer big boobs, please don’t be shy, show them off and flaunt them!

[EpicSnail]

My guess is you are trolling, but if you are actually serious and there actually is such a trend (and who knows, these days), then for the record, I love big boobs, and so do many other guys. They are awesome. You will not lack male admirers.

[CrimsonAngel09]

Because porn has taught people some sag is unattractive, and because of that most women get a lift or get a reduction and a lift.

[DoubleU]

I wouldn't waste my mental energy thinking about it. As we've all heard before, beauty comes in all shapes and sizes. That a person doesn't see beauty doesn't mean it's not there.

[guylow]

Are you just jerking our chain? There is absolutely nothing better in the whole world that a full chested woman that loves her boobs as much as I do. It makes for a great relationship - trust me on this.

[xOGxDub]

I love boobs because they are beautiful and there's nothing better than boobs with big areolas <3

[JSmuve]

Whoever is feeding you this crap is retarded. Big boobs are amazing.

[Anonymous]

I'm pretty sure there are guys who like big boobs, my male roommates last year seem to like staring at mine when I was in my strappy pj's and my boyfriend adores them...

[Anonymous]

no way

everywhere i hear is guys dissing small boobs and big boobs being praised
where are you hearing this?

i have small bobos

[BoopBoopBeep]

I've dated 34DDD, 32J, 36FF, 34M, and 34FF...

... tell me again how big boobs suck?

[Anonymous]

in my opinion it's a reaction to all the irritating bimbos who have nothing but their cup size speaking for them and feel entitled to everything because nature gave them that size, looking down on smaller cups.

[marinadiamond]

this is actually very true, I now have a better answer to the question

Like this person who answered, I notice many girls with big boobs think their better than all the other girls. They think that since they have big boobs they are exempt from all criticism. So if they get criticism they freak out and deal with it by lashing out on girls with smaller boobs ( even thought there is nothing wrong with small boobs) and THATS why this whole " come to the small bobos rescue has started" It was a social construct of girls with big boobs, who started it for no reason by hating on those with little boobs

[marinadiamond]

*boobs

[Anonymous]

We don't hate them at all it's just smaller boobs r so much esyer it's not as hard to hold don't feel bad

[Asker]

well what you just said made it even worse :(

[Opinion Owner]

Ahhh I'm sorry really didn't mean to, girls with there boobs r like guys with there dicks but we r always to small we always freak out about I and take it way to seriously if u ask a guy what he thinks abou his girl boobs they r perfect no matter what size same for the girls with there boyfriends dick best thing to do is get to worked up about It your really young don't worrie

[guylow]

Ignore that idiotic comment.

[Wild_princess]

Where are this types of guys😂how come i never find someone who hated big boobs

[morgaan_madison]

This is the weirdest thing I ever heard about guys disliking big breasts. I don't know any guys that like small breasts or they just don't care unless you have a handful size breasts. These guys are just jerks and stay away from them.

[LightsOff]

Excuse me what planet do you live on

[Anonymous]

Well, I for one LOVE big natural boobs on a girl! And judging by a lot of stupidly hot models being popular, I know I'm not the only one. Keep your head high, QA!