Why does everyone hate big boobs?

Question

I am a girl but picked the wrong thing when I was signing up

It seems like there's a lot of small chested girls that come on GAG and other sites like this and post questions along the lines of "Do all guys hate tiny boobs?" "I hate my little boobs" and stuff like that, clearly looking for attention. When people answer the question, it's almost like they are trying to put down well endowed girls to make flat girls feel better. Like, they'll say "more than a handful is a waste" "big boobs are gross ew" "big boobs are gonna get saggy, I'm investing in the future." But guys in real life are always staring at girls with bigger chests and it seems like most guys want big boobs.

So why is it OK for people to make fun of big chests and put them down in order to make flat girls feel better about themselves but it's not OK to criticise small boobs or admit you don't like flat chests?

I am a 32DD and I always thought this was a good thing but lately these things I'm reading are making me a little sad

iPood · Accepted Answer

Ok, first off it is a HUGE myth that small breasts don't sag. I worked at Lasenza doing bra fitting for a couple years, and I can tell you that about 95% of breasts sag, whether A's or D's. Some of the most unsightly sagging I've ever seen have been on smaller boobs because when they sag it literally looks like an empty sack of skin as opposed to big saggy breasts which just look like...saggy fat?

Secondly, I'll make a comparision to try to explain this to you. Small breasts are like a fat girl. Big breasts are like a skinny girl. Society sees it as totally wrong and unnacceptable to publicly make fun of and call out fat girls, right? No one would tell their fat friend "hey, you need to lose some weight fatty!" but society doesn't see it as such a problem to poke fun (even mean "fun") at skinny girls. I've heard so many people say to skinny girls "You need a sandwich or something". Now, we shouldn't be trying to hurt anyone's self esteem. Fat girls don't want to be made fun of but neither do skinny girls. It's only thought of as more "ok" to make fun of skinny girls because most skinny girls meet society's definition of attractive, and they know that. So, if you make fun of a skinny girl, it's going to hurt, but she can still walk away knowing that most of society finds her attractive so it'll probably affect her self esteem less. If you insult a fat girl, it's going to hurt A LOT more because she's going to walk away knowing that she does NOT meet society's ideal and that most people aren't going to find her attractive. It cuts a lot deeper. It's the same thing for boobs. It's more OK to put down big breasts because at the end of the day, big breasts are society's ideal of beauty and everyone knows this. Not every single guy prefers big boobs (and there is probably a limit to how large is considered attractive) but most guys would pick C's or D's over A's any day. If you insult a small breasted woman, it hurts a lot more because she already knows her breasts are undesirable by society's standards, and having someone reinforce this is painful. Making fun of big chested women or trying to put them down usually either (a) comes from a place of jealousy. Many small breasted females feel inadequate and to cope with that they'll put down or throw underhanded digs at well endowed women to try and make themselves feel better or (b) when it's guys, they're usually white knights (look it up) trying to boost the self esteem of small breasted women at the expense of the women who have been blessed with more assets <<(why do you think they're called assets! They're obviously a good thing!) Men who genuinely prefer small breasts DO exist, and on questions such as the ones you're talking about, they'll generally just state their preference w/o including mean insults directed at large breasted women.Ignore the guys who say stuff like "big boobs are saggy and gross" etc.Don't listen to the haters. They are jealous and want what you have been blessed with

peace-love-couture · Accepted Answer

I think what happens is people online tend to prefer the opposite of what the majority prefers. And this isn't limited to boob size. It's also similar to height, penis size, weight, body shape/types etc

So what happens is the guys who prefer "XYZ" are very defensive and adamant about making insecure girls feel better about themselves.

to be honest, I've never known a guy who *prefers* small breasts, just as I've never known a guy who *prefers* small asses

Guys who like big breasts don't care about the sagging--only girls who try to make themselves feel better and guys who prefer small ones do

It's the same with guys on here who dislike blond hair oh so much.

Anyways, guys in general just tend to like boobs. You have a few with standards or strong preferences, but most just like attractive girls regardless of breast size

I think that's why one should take the opinions on here with a grain of salt.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

It all really depends on personal preference. Most guys associate big breasts with saggy breasts, and it isn't a total myth that some people find it unattractive. I personally am a 28D, and my boyfriend calls my breasts little all the time but he adores them. It's also commonly thought that a skinny and petite girl will have smaller breasts, while a larger girl will have bigger breasts. While it isn't always true, some guys, most of which happen to come online, prefer smaller girls so they go around saying they like smaller breasts. I know plenty of guys who like huge honkers, and equally as many guys who like smaller ones.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

You haven't noticed people lying to make the question asker feel better? I frequently see girls lie to short guys and try to make them feel good about their height.

like you said "But guys in real life are always staring at girls with bigger chests and it seems like most guys want big boobs." some guys might be telling the truth that they like small boobs, but I imagine most are lying to make the girls feel good.

double Ds are great so be happy you have them. I've never known a guy who didn't like a nice rack like that.

Dragonblood21 · Accepted Answer

What the Anon said down there, they are trying to be white-knights. But however...

I like a big chest

I like an average size chest

I like a small chest

I just like a girl's chest. That's really what it boils down to.

BoobMan · Answer

I'm pretty sure I've never done that.  And I find it hard to believe that you're not fully aware of how awesome most people find a nice pair of 32DDs.  Almost as hard to believe as your cover story of being a chick who screwed up in picking her gender when signing up and then wasn't able to just sign up again in the 30 seconds or so it takes to do that.

Anonymous · Answer

They are just trying to make the person feel good. In reality, we love big boobs.

Anonymous · Answer

Guys on GAG are white-knighting. Most guys in real life prefer bigger boobs.

Enideqa · Answer

I don't hate my big boobs, well some days I do, just due to the pain they cause my shoulders and back

JamielovesKU · Answer

I hate big boobs because they hurt the back, the bigger they are the more strain on your lower back.

Anonymous · Answer

It just burns y'all up that some guys actually like something other than what you have. What a shame

Anonymous · Answer

Remember the average male age on GaG is like 14 (but they think they're as mature as 30 year olds), and 14 year olds have B cups at biggest, so that's what they work off of.

Anonymous · Answer

no one hates big boobs but I prefer boobs that are proportional to the girl

Anonymous · Answer

I prefer small breast regardless of what anyone with mental problems says I like.

guylow · Answer

You're quite lucky to have that size!

Anonymous · Answer

I just like boobs lol.

bubbakong2006 · Answer

Big boobs are sexy

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