Why the obsession with big boobs?

[Anonymous]

I used to have such small boobs. After I had my kid they have not been small since. Now men seem to stare. Before I had my kid I wanted bigger boobs because I felt ugly, and not good enough. Now I am tired of being stared at. Going from a B to a D has not made life any better. I actually have more back pain, more breast pain. My nipples are big. They do not look as good to me. I am Bisexual. Woman are very beautiful. I do not care about breasts though. I personally find more interest in how someone's face looks. It just seems ridiculous that men are obsessed with boobs. They are just muscle, an fat. Mostly for breast feeding. Sure they can be used for sexual pleasure. Even if I wear a shirt that does not show cleavage it I hard to avoid. Men why are you so obsessed with woman's boobs?

Because Boobs are all I care about

I love curvy woman. I like big booty to.

I am a homosexual so I could care less

I just want someone who will treat me right

I cry myself to sleep at night

[gray_sailor]

There are actually two components to your question.

Why the interest in boobs at all?

Why the interest in large boobs specifically?

The first question is mostly cultural. Men are of course attracted to any female feature. But, in our society, we emphasize breasts in an exceptional way.

Consider other people's around the world. There are many native cultures where the breast is never covered. Here the breast, though linked to gender is completely desexualized.

There are other cultures around the world where it is taboo for a woman to either bare her skin or wear form fitting clothing. Here, the breasts are concealed at all times and their sexual influence is greatly muted.

In our society, we take a middle path, one that maximizes the sexual appeal of the breast. Breasts remain partially covered at all times except when having sex. Seeing a naked breast becomes strongly linked with sex even to the point of signaling that sex is imminent.

With this signal well embedded, any exposure to even part of a breast becomes arousing. The extent to which clothing either exposes or conceals the breast is adjusted based on environment and context so as to reinforce this pattern of signalling.

A dress worn to a court hearing will be much less revealing than one worn on a date with a man you are sexual with. That dress will show cleavage. This tells him he is sexually desired (otherwise you would not have worn the revealing dress) It also tells others that you consider the two of you a sexual pair.

As far as the obsession with large boobs, that is mostly about getting a stronger signal in more settings and with more conservative clothing.

Breasts have shape and size yes, but they also have movement. Breasts jiggle, bounce and sway. Larger breasts just have more jiggle, more bounce and more sway. That is why they are attractive.

[MrKaneda]

Personally it's not like a girl needs big breasts fort me to be attracted to them, but the reason why most guys like larger breasts is probably because of society's importance set on the female figure (not that the same doesn't happen to the male) and that breasts are natural symbols of fertility, so it's only natural to be sexually attracted to them.

[Anonymous]

I love boobs. They're just nice to look at. I'm bisexual too, but aside from that, they're just aesthetically pleasing and nice to look at.

[Asker]

I think woman in general are pleasing to the eye. I would rather look at all of a woman. I prefer to give eye contact while talking.

[Opinion Owner]

Well, you didn't say anything about where you should look when talking, so I don't see how thats relevant. Of course, you should make eye contact when talking. But there are plenty of opportunities to check out someones body. Anyone who socializes knows this. Moreover, once you're with someone, you're probably going to want to explore their body anyway. Its highly unlikely that you're just going to stare directly into their eyes the whole time. And there are plenty of people who are asexual or simply just not visually stimulated by the body. That could be you, and thats okay. But plenty of us love the body and find parts of it beautiful and stimulating in different ways. Breasts are a body part just like butts, vaginas, arms, and legs. They all serve non-sexual biological purposes, so I'm not sure why breast feeding is a relevant point. Blood, urine, and babies come out of the vulva/vagina area. poop from the butt. I still like it. Not really affecting the sexual, aesthetic attraction.

[Opinion Owner]

So there's a very basic human, sexual attraction to the body. But of course, there are multiple levels that construct attraction. However, in any society you to go to, there will be physical traits that are loved more than others, generally. (There will still be plenty of people who don't love those things or not as much)

I think one thing that tends to happen is the love of opposing femininity and masculinity, for better or worse. In the vast majority of cases, unless he is very overweight, men don't have breasts like women do. Its a female trait that is seen as more feminine because its such a non-male reality. And the image of curves in some societies is also viewed as extremely feminine. Although I definitely do prefer curvy women, I don't really believe in labeling one type of body as more feminine. I think curvy is a specific type of femininity, but it doesn't have to be the only kind.

[Opinion Owner]

And yes, media plays a huge role in constructing attraction, but even without it, you will still find men of all kinds who fawn over different types of women, including women with large breasts.

[mistninja314]

boobs and a nice ass = femininity
When I think WOMAN the 1st thing that pops up in my head is someone like this https://oi60.tinypic.com/1zx8ggk.jpg OR www.nappyafro.com/.../Bria-Myles-nappyafro-02.jpg

[mistninja314]

With some DD-FF cups LOL

[NerdInDenial]

They're good to look at and feel nice too.

[Asker]

Yes but will they look good when a woman gets older? No even my boobs will sag. I would rather my breasts be perky again.

[NerdInDenial]

That's why there's breast reduction/ fake boobs.

[dev765]

Because of Kate Upton.

[Ihav2fart]

Cause pillows

[linkywinky]

👆👆👆👆 this

I wish I could use my own boobs as pillows tbh

[Ihav2fart]

@Linkywinky i'll use em on your behalf. Come here!