Are girls as insecure about having small boobs as guys are about their small "manhood"?

[Anonymous]

I think being a not-so-well endowed male is actually a lot worse. Just in my experience...most of my friends wouldn't turn down a girl just because her chest is flat. Also, boobs are cool. but they don't play a direct role in intercourse...a guys thing kinda makes or breaks sex. If he can't get the girls right spots stimulate..it will be bad sex (well the guy might get off...but the girl won't be happy and in turn the guy will feel like failure) Ill just admit I'm a small guy in that department...i don't judge girls over their chest at all...i think probably 90% of the female population is somewhat attractive..so personality and how they act is typically number one..there are girls that I just wouldn't be physically attracted to I'm sry to say..im human. But I have no doubt girls will judge me for that..and I guess I can't blame them..im just unlucky I guess..its just a bummer too because a girl won't know a guy is small until the time comes to drop his pants...a guy can see if a girl is full or flat chested..and so girls don't really have to worry about being halfway into a relationships and it being ruined...the guys that will judge them will write them off rearly (and by the way I don't know that there's too many guys that would write them off anyway) what do you think?

[Anonymous]

I think it's worse for guys because girls don't need their boobs to satisfy a guy sexually.

A girl with small breasts may have their moments of insecurity and think "awww man, he hates my small t*ts." or "he would notice me if my boobs were bigger" whereas guys with small penises may feel like less of a man and feel terrible like they can't satisfy a girl completely. So a girl may feel insecure about her breasts, but in actual reality, she doesn't need them to make a guy feel good. There are infinite other ways she can make a guy feel good.

Maybe they believe it's as bad, but I think the guys have it worse

[Asker]

we do...its awful...i think id rather stay virign and be alone than play the game and get hurt.

[Opinion Owner]

if I was a guy with a small penis, I'd just become a master at pleasing a girl in many different ways; sexually and nonsexually

[Asker]

i guess..but how do you get experience? plus...its still emasculating...and basically you might get other things done...but intercourse...the thing that involved your pleasure..will just be work for her...and I have a feeling girls still think less of guys that can't get it done with their little guy downstairs.

[Opinion Owner]

I don't think a girl thinks less of the guy unless she's whored around and gotten so sexual that she'd choose sex over a good guy with a lot to offer who may not have the biggest penis. I think you're telling yourself that you are less than and can't get it done because you have a small penis. That's false.

[Asker]

i worry about it a lot...it just sterrifying tp realzie you could do everything right up until sex then get dumped...plus its just embarrasing

[Opinion Owner]

it's not a big deal. only skanky girls who have slept around a lot will make a huge deal out if it and you don't need them anyway

[Asker]

see that kinda bother me though..doesn't mean that if any girl is happy with its only because frankly "She doesn't know what she's missing"...that why guys like virgins so much...because they don't get to judge or compare...i know its unfair to treat girls like that while guys get to sleep around but its just true...we got the short end of the stick in that we have to worry about size...girls don't have to worry about how big their vagina is or anything.

[Opinion Owner]

For SOME guys, that's why they like virgins. I'm sure there are guys out there who don't need virgins to feed some self doubt because they can't compare. There are guys who are so sexually skilled and confident that they don't need a virgin to confirm anything.

You're obsessing over this.

[Asker]

maybe I am...but I mean do you ever have jokes told about you (well not directed at me but about small penises and then you have to sit there and realize you have one)...or worry about satisfying your partner? (girls are impossbile to get off to begin with) I mean it IS kinda of a big deal...so of course I'm bosessing over it...my whole future depends on it...i think ill be horribly depressed if I never get a gf/wife eventually.

[Opinion Owner]

Stop obsessing. You're only making it a big deal. There are other sexual ways to please your partner other than with your penis. A girl is not going to reject you for having a small penis unless she's a skank and she's been around the block

[Anonymous]

no. probably guys are more insecure about their d***

[Asker]

i kno I am lol...we have a right to be though..its a HUGE deal.

[7gnat]

Boobs definitely do not make the woman. Having a small peck#% is by far worse. I am not a boob guy but if I was I still think I would be attracted to some girls with small boobs. There is only so much you can do with boobs. I was kinda bored with them by the age of 13 or so.

[Habakkuk]

Having a smallish d*** isn't so much the problem as the insecurity and lack of confidence that goes along with it is.

[Krunch1000]

as far as my opinion goes tits are golden weather their as big as melon's or small enough for only one hand but your right bro, a small prick is death for a man. I have good size so I'm confident but if I didn't id be afraid to ever drop my pants because rejection and disappointment based on size is very real.

[kheserthorpe]

I know some women prefer small d***s, but I think more guys like small breasts then women like small d***s.

[shotou]

At least I know I'm not, =)

I can't say anything for

other girls though =)

[99PROBLEMS]

It sucks having small boobs...

But like you said, I think its worse if you have a small d***.

[Asker]

it is :(

[Hades]

I think they're more insecure about their weight.

[NeilHamburger]

Should be more insecure about their personalities; there are pretty girls everywhere but god damn so few of them are worth talking to.

[Hades]

You got that right. Fixing that problem would be nothing short of a miracle, though!

[beerY33]

I <3 my small boobs

[Habakkuk]

i do too

[Asker]

u should

[99PROBLEMS]

I don't :(

[Asker]

well if worried about boys not liking you for it..dont worry..pletny of guys out thei will love your chest because its YOUR chest...theyll love everything about u.

[Xx_DRE_xX]

Practically.