Search Results: getting over someone relationship

When is the right time to say I love you and how to tell someone isn't in love with you?

I've been dating a guy for about five months and we don't see each other much because of his work schedule. He works every single day almost all day he doesn't even get to sleep much. He has a good job makes insane money....

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Should I be worried that my boyfriends work life and coworkers are getting in the way of our relationship?

Me and my boyfriend have been together for a few months now. These past few weeks we fell into a disagreement because of a female coworker. At first when I heard about her It was her joking rudely about my cooking, which...

LovelyLady1610

Xper 3 Age: 28

Relationships

What should I do, she says I broke her trust?

Okay, so last week I met this girl on POF, and yeah we were talking a lot and a lot like she was into me (she actually said she was several times) but she never deleted her POF, I deleted mine on Sunday because I was...

batmansymbol

Xper 5 Age: 32

Relationships

I frienzoned a guy and now I have feelings for him. I want him badly, How can I fix this?

About a week ago I started streaks up again on snap-chat to communicate with more people. I soon begin talking to this guy from my summer camp. I've never really had a full conversation with him there, but I got his...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Girl's Behavior

How I Maintain Independence: Remain Empowered

Disclaimer: I am not telling anyone how they should be. (I think this can apply to guys, if they want it to). 1. Keep a healthy standard with my words and actions. A) Follow through with promises I made with myself,...

sugarchateau

Yoda Age: 31

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Dating

How to stop worrying in a relationship?

So my boyfriend and his friends are going on a skiing trip in two weeks and two of the friends are single want to bring girls back to their hotel. They are getting one room for the 4 of them. His one other friend has a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

My bfs ex says she misses him. What do I do?

I'm pretty sure that he slept w her and he also slept w someone else so our relationship was definitely very rocky for a month or so as I was finding out and confronting him. Some people may say I'm wrong for...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Family & Friends

How to salvage a friendship when someone saw something you wrote about them?

So I am friends with this girl. We've been friends for a few years. I tried to date her, but she rejected me about a year and a half ago. She told me I was "too good for her". I had trouble getting over her, so one of the...

SpearsAndStones

Xper 4 Age: 33

Relationships

I love my boyfriend but he is a push-over. How can I fix this?

My boyfriend and I have been friends since we were teenagers (30 now). We dated off and on over the years. In 2016, we tried a relationship and it fizzled out. My issue was always that he is an insecure push-over. I'm an...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

Growing up with a narcissistic mother & subsequent abuse – Part 2.5

I was going to do a third and final part, but I’ve been leaving out the more severe, highly abusive details of my experience for the sake of not being TOO personal. As well, I aim to make these pieces compact so you don’t...

ChronicThinker

Editor Age: 32

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Other

How to be credible and gain respect in the science community

Science is what has advanced civilizations around the world, no matter which civilization is in question. They’ve all relied on science in some way. From as simple as turning a piece of stone into a tool, to using the...

ADFSDF1996

Editor Age: 30

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Girl's Behavior

Girls, what would you do in this situation? Please read?

Ladies, I need your opinions please. So I’ve had a friends with benefits for over 3 years now. When we first started talking we liked each other then we ended up sleeping with each other and started a friends with...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

How would you? - Relationship phobia?

So I have been on the market for far to long. I can connect very well with people and don’t find it overly hard to find someone I genuinely like. The problem is when it becomes real. The instant the other person decides...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Why I liked online dating and why you should, too

When I was younger, I was advanced academically and, therefore, much younger than my classmates. My social development suffered. By the time that I was 19, I dated occasionally but not frequently. As I developed in my...

OlderAndWiser

Influencer Age: 71

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Other

Do You Want To Change Your Life?

It's the start of a new year, and with that, a lot of people begin assessing their lives and trying to decide what they want for themselves in the new year, but the problem with this is so many do not get beyond this...

BeeNee

Editor Age: 43

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Dating

Should I call it off and move on?

So basically, there's this former colleague of mine that i hungout with few times and invited over to my place. But for some reason for the first time in my life, i couldn't get it up to perform with her. I tried this...

DeNesto

Xper 3 Age: 38

Dating

How can you steal someone else's girlfriend?

For the lack of a better term - by "stealing", I mean gaining her trust and winning her over as my girlfriend. Anyway: I just found out that a girl I'm interested in has a boyfriend. It's not the first time this has...

Eridan

Yoda Age: 32

Break Up & Divorce

Did I play this wrong? Is it time to cut her loose?

curiousmind88

Xper 2 Age: 30

Back in mid October, I decided to go out of my comfort zone and I added and messaged this really cute girl on Facebook I went to high school with, but never talked to. Anyway, we

Back in mid October, I decided to go out of my comfort zone and I added and messaged this really cute girl on Facebook I went to high school with, but never talked to. Anyway, we actually got talking and we started getting along pretty good.
She did live 2 hours away, because of school, so we didn't get together, but we talked more and more and she said she was interested in a relationship. I offered to come up to see her on my nights off, but she had night classes those nights, so I never could.
Anyway, she and I started making plans for her winter break. She had expressed interest in us starting to have sex and meeting parents while she was down here. I changed my schedule to make maximize my I'm with her. Going into the first date we were very excited and I really liked her, I got her a rose and everything, even went to find her favorite hot chocolate for our date.
But she asked to go home because of a migraine and said she wasn't fully over her ex and needed time. She said she thought she'd be fine until our plans became real.
For a few weeks we barely talked, and she'd ask me how I got over my last girlfriend. But lately, I felt I was trying to convince her she should be over her ex and stop ignoring the person who's trying to be in her life.
The other day I sent her a message, saying that I felt I was trying to convince her rather than help the situation. I told her hopefully when things change she'll reach out to me, and I'll be her for her. She said she didn't feel I was doing that, and she appreciates that.
It's been a few days since, and she hasn't said anything to me. I also found her Instagram, and she portrayed herself as a conservative quiet person, but she has a lot of revealing pictures on Instagram, which I guess is the norm now, but a lot of pictures for attention, in my opinion. She also still has a photo of her and the ex on there. I got more upset when I saw the pictures of her doing our plans, but whether she was with family or someone else I don't know.

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Relationships

Why does almost-relationship hurts so much?

To be honest, at the young age, I suffer a huge depression. As I reached high school, I decided to get out of my comfort zone and be more than an average typical person. I started become outgoing and approach women and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

He is keeping his options open with us both?

My boyfriend left a woman he was trying to be in a relationship with for me. He tells me how he complained to her about standing up to her family, stop letting them control her, how her family didn’t like him to begin...

Anonymous

(30-35)