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I grew up in a time era where this was very common. It was done to me and on a few rare occurrences I did it to (usually fighting back).

It’s one thing if it’s just guys doing horseplay. That’s just dudes breaking each other’s balls. No animosity and it’s joking around. But it’s another if it’s used for bullying. It’s meant to attack a man’s masculinity, bully and make him feel like shit.

I went on a tinder “date” with an unattractive girl a few years ago. I knew she was no supermodel vía vía the pics. But she was even heavier and less attractive when I met her in person.

But I decided to just have a conversation for the hell of it. I bought her a drink. She of course volunteered her political beliefs and they weren’t not surprisingly very liberal. She said she was very supportive of gay rights which is run of the mill nowadays. I didn’t want to get into a political discussion so I change the subject.

But later in the evening we got in a debate over something non political. I forgot exactly how it went down but she then blurted out that I had a “fa**ot” haircut. I just fuck you and left.

It was a pretty nasty insult. I think she was projecting her own self hatred on to other people. But still the gross hypocrisy of her saying that (after what she said earlier about politics) really shocked me the most.

I sent her a message the next day saying that insult was very low. She immediately apologized profusely and begged me to hang out with her again. I told her I felt better that she apologized but declined. Just wished her the best of luck.

Anyway why is it still acceptable to rip into straight guys with this crap? If I was really gay (she knows I’m not) I bet you a million bucks she would of never said that.