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honestly I see so many men say they hate women who wear makeup, dress up, or get their nails done etc, Only like natural beauties, I get liking natural girls I get it wanting a natural beauty, but it’s strange to me why so many guys would hate a woman who puts effort into her appearance rather than just wakes up gets out of bed then chucks anything on with zero effort, why do you think so many men say this? I’m not talking about “high maintenance” I’m talking just a woman who takes care of herself and makes a effort what is unattractive about making a effort? Like I notice men don’t seem to have a problem about women going to the gym or taking care of her body or weight but I don’t see why a woman dressing up or making herself look nice is a bad thing because it shows they care about themselves in the same way if they work out or put effort into their bodies, surely it’s a good thing. opinions? (I know this isn't all men by the way, it’s why I put “some”)

Growing up I had to learn not to care about how I looked. I was picked on from elementary through high school. Even if I wanted to dress nice, I'd get picked on for it. So, i wore jeans that didn't fit and sweaters or hoodies all the time. Eventually as emo became a thing, i went that route. Then as a young adult my confidence came from being a flirt. I'd go out dancing and flirt with guys who wanted to take me home. I never did because I was so insecure inside, but the invitation always gave me a boost. It was later in my twenties that I finally healed and matured from all of that insecurity. I'm not 100% over it all the time, but I'd say 90% of the time I'm secure in who I am and my personality that my body doesn't need to be given attention for my confidence.

What's your story/journey?

It's not necessarily for prom, it's just in general! It could be for anything, like a nice event or prom?