Skinny shaming rant?

[Anonymous]

Im a pretty healthy person.. well okay I dont eat healthy but I enjoy eating constantly and love large portions. I will just say I LOVE food lol. Im 23. I have been skinny my whole life. When I was a toddler my waist was the size of two hands put together. Now im skinny still but I have hips and a gut and nice thighs.
I am skinnier than most though, but I have the fat that I need in the right spots. Anyways, I am sick and tired of being skinny shamed. My boyfriends step mom came by (unsure if she likes me, she's rude. But I dont care too much because thats not his real mom.) She texted my boyfriend and was talking about how Im “too skinny” and he needs to feed me. When she saw me I had a cute tight dress on that fits like a glove. I am also Petite so my frame is small.
Then my own sister accused me of being Bulimic. Which is hilarious because I have looked like this my ENTIRE life, AND I never had kids, unlike her. Both women are over 300 pounds mind you. I dont go around fat shaming. In fact it hurts so much because I want to be thicker. I hate how small My arms are. it makes me feel ugly. I would die to gain weight. Why is it okay for people to skinny shame? Its not okay when people fat shame sooo I do not get it. Im sick of it and it makes me very insecure.
Any advice?

[hell00000000000]

reading your rant made me cry i relate to you so much. i understand. i never felt like this until middle school. i always eat what i want and I've always thought that im healthy. I am very althletic and I've always thought that im strong but when i came to my new school my friends started to make jokes about me being skinny or a stick and saying that im weak. my friends also said that they shouldn't talk about what i was eating because it could give me an eating disorder and that hurt me so badly i can't even believe they think its ok, like i never comment on other peoples weights so why does everyone feel the ned to say stuff like that to me? I have very skinny legs and arms and when ever im standing with my friends in a picture i always see my legs and they look so much thinner and it never bothered me until now, before i didn't even notice but now im so insecure of my weight. I try to learn dances to songs and it looks bad when i do it because im so thin. I try to gain weight but it doesn't work. My friends to think its ok to say stuff like that and i dont know how to tell them to stop. it hurts my feelings when they say it and i feel like there's nothing i can do. plus even though im good at sports and good at volleyball when we played it in pe my friends would hit it even if it was right next to me when i was about to hit it and then be like "your welcome i saved you" but no they didn't save me they didn't give me a change to hit it and it really bugs me. Im probably better then most of my friends but if i make a single mistake they straight up switch teams to get away from me. if one of my less skinny friends makes a mistake though they just laugh and forget about it. they seem to have this idea that im weak and bad a volleyball just because of how i look and not at all because of how good i actually do. its unfair and i dont know any way to change it. also i feel like people have started disliking skinny people because they think that its unhealthy of us to be so skinny and that were a bad example, but im not I've been like this my whole life and its an unfair assumption that hurts me feelings and makes me super insecure. i used to feel like i was perfect the way i was but comments people have made have entirely changed my perspective.

[Anonymous]

I know how you feel my siblings used to say I looked like a skeleton and make remarks about how skinny I was I even had random strangers look at me and say to the person next to them look at the girl look how skinny she is it hurt hell it absolutely disgusting how people feel it is okay to skinny shame

I’m not sure if this help but I have heard that there are people who are naturally skinny who have joined a gym and started doing weights and other workouts that have helped them to build muscle which also helped them to not look so skinny

[confusedgamer]

If you are healthy and happy the way you are, there is no need to change it by gaining weight. People will always criticise others, and it is important to let it slide. Remember: if you are healthy and happy you don't have to change.
Also I guess you have a good metabolism, and can eat everything without gaining weight. I have the same, and honestly not having to think about meal size is a blessing.

[Asker]

It is im so skinny that gaining wouldn't hurt

[Dchrls78104]

Skinny shamers are fools. To gain weight just to stop them would be futile because then they would shame you for putting on the extra pounds. Look inside yourself, decide what you want to look like, act accordingly for personal and bodily health reasons only, and ignore the haters.

[Numbnuts89]

People shouldn't SHAME anyone

however, both people being too skinny and too fat, are health problems. Lizzo is overweight and may wind up with serious issues down the way. You, may or may not be skin and bones, but, if you keep doing what you're doing, you may wind up dying due to being "too underweight"

[Anonymous]

Well what’s your weight and height now and your goals?

[Anonymous]

How dare you be skinny. you need to be a fat disgusting pig like me. Now go and eat until you're a fat ass with diabetes.

[thisisausername9999]

dont let it get to you, they are just ignorant