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Step mom nerves?
I’m 24 and I’m dating a 35 year old divorcey father of 3 and I’m deeply and truly in love with this man We’ve been together a while and I’ve kinda been keeping him a secret from my family they don’t know much of anything...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is it fair that I’m skeptical of therapy and don’t think it’s for me?
It’s not that I disagree with my therapists treatment for me, but it just seems like a bunch of fancy words and labels for coping techniques I already know. It’s true I have to get back to it, but from my personal self...
Anonymous
(30-35) Can you relate?
A truth for me today... I had a rough trauma happen to me so I got into meditation and mindfulness and it helped until new traumas happened to me which had me thinking all the mindfulness wasn’t working so I stopped and...
Anonymous
(30-35) Catastrophizing thoughts (cognitive distortion):what it is and how to cope with it
Ever feel excessive stress and worry for a small nuisance, you know it’s nothing to be worried about but you can’t help but worry about it? Well, that is known as catastrophizing which is a type of cognitive distortion....
How to address an overly attached mother?
I've been dating my partner for almost 3 years (we're in our mid-20s, live together and have full-time jobs) but their mother is really attached. I understand this can be typical for a mother-first son relationship...
Anonymous
(30-35) Can your hidden talent appear at an older age?
My boyfriend has told me a bunch of times I can do way more than just working at a call center. Both him and my brother now believe I have the potential to both became a chef and own a business. It was my boyfriend...
Anonymous
(36-45) Guys, Confused as to reasoning for breakup?
My now ex broke up with me last week. Our relationship had recently gone long distance because of the pandemic. These are the reasons he broke up with me: 'It's not you, it's me' I want to work on myself You deserve the...
Anonymous
(25-29) How to spot and steer clear of shady websites/apps
With the world becoming more reliant on digital technology as the years go on, there are some opportunistic individuals who take advantage of this ever growing digital age to make an illegal and or immoral profit at the...
Don't Be a Sucker
Con artists will cheat, lie, steal & kill for money given the opportunity. Regardless of how harmless they seem they all have this potential. They're dangerous. If you're a sucker then you're in danger. 1. Are you soft?...
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Master Age: 53 Do you care if you boyfriend or girlfriend forgets your anniversary?
I’ve periodically mentioned our 1 year anniversary is coming up... it was yesterday and usually I post and give a gift but something told me he wouldn’t. I waited until like 7pm to see if he’d mention it or do something...
Anonymous
(30-35) She's 41 and I'm 32?
She's stable and has a great character and always knows what she wants. She's 41 years old but she looks like 30. Every time she sees me she feels happy and open. Although she's very open about her life, just for me. I'm...
Anonymous
(36-45) How can I get over this?
Very long story. I met this guy at work a year and a half ago- I know, I know, work relationships don't work but this was more of your stepping stone job. I felt that made this different somewhat. Anyway, we were both...
Anonymous
(30-35) Thoughts on being honest with someone about your feelings, and watching them fall apart?
The girl I'm in love with has a phobia of puke that I never knew much about. I thought "well if she's not around it, and I keep my mouth as well as the area clean, then I could avoid scaring her and try to just lay down...
Anonymous
(25-29) Guys, My Ex (Who Wanted A Divorce) Is Angry With Me, Why?
The first year of the relationship my ex was emotionally and physically abusive, cheated and stopped sleeping with me. After lots of tears and a difficult time understanding why - I broke up with him and I headed into a...
IndependentMuse
Xper 3 Age: 43 Guy kept watching my stories and then unfollowed after I stopped watching his stories for awhile?
There was a guy I added on Instagram and I liked his recent post. He has around 1,200 followers and was following at least 980 people I posted a selfie of me on my Instagram story and after that he was always one of the...
treasuregalaxy
Xper 3 Age: 25 Girls, Should I write her a letter?
Hi guys I need your opinion pls. Okay so I met this girl about 2 months ago in the hospital she's working there first time saw her we had like eye contact and honestly both couldn't keep eye contact it was obvious she...
Anonymous
(30-35) Guy kept watching my stories and then unfollowed?
There was a guy I added on Instagram and I liked his recent post. I posted a selfie of me on my Instagram story and after that he was always one of the first ones to watch my stories. I would sometimes watch his stories...
treasuregalaxy
Xper 3 Age: 25 What Kind of YouTube Videos do You Watch?
I recently started a youtube channel during quarantine, I know one of the first steps in creating a successful channel is finding your niche. I am a uni student who is mostly interested in having a lifestyle/review-based...
Gurdy2816
Xper 5 Age: 25 Girls, Long distance situation with a girl I met online , why did she take a step back?
She is from Serbia and I am from Florida, She would stay up super late because of the time difference just to talk to me. I talked about my deep beliefs with her and it turns out we share the same beliefs. She is a very...
Anonymous
(30-35) When you are seeking a relationship with someone should you follow your heart or your intuition?
I really like this girl we first met in October and started to really be around each other in December, and truthfully I know that I’m being somewhat of a rebound guy for her. she broke up with her ex around the time we...
Anonymous
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