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He starts teasing you, sending you screenshots of conversations he had with other girl, so you think he's trying to make you jealous. He replies you days later. He mailed you some gifts (he said: if i sent you, it's because i really like you). He's trying to get money extra. The 'extra' was to pay the trip with your female friend and foods for her. It wasn't the first time. He trips with her and share the same bed (SHE'S A BOYFRIEND). First time, he told he drinking wine with a friend, you asked him a pic, he sent you, so you found out this friend was her and he got his **** hard and slept with her in the same bed! Second time, he did the same thing, and said: Don't worry, she's a boyfriend and no replying you. He said you're his best "playmate". You want to understand it, you think if he loves her, he's to date her and stop saying that you're special and that he wants you to be his girlfriend. He says they're just friends and she doesn't want him, because she's a boyfriend and he'll never date her. He tries to prove it sending you screenshot of message she sent him saying it. When he talks to you, he says you're very jealous. So you asked him a time to think about this, you don't want to be a selfish person. You're not together yet, technically you're single and respect is only thing you'd expect from S. O. Your fear is if he's done it, maybe he'll do something worse in the future. He says he loves you etc. And that YOU HURT HIS FEELINGS, he asks for a second change. You try to forget about it, try to bring up old feelings you had for him, because you have his pics, videos, the gift boxes and his face doesn't seem like a liar, but his acts do. Even after all that, he takes a long time to reply your message, so you've done the same since then. He messages you, don't ask how you are, send you some pics and ask you if you wanna play. So, you replied it negatively and disappeared for 2 days, you haven't got a decision yet and you've cried since then. The End :(

Okay, first, she's not officially engaged yet, but she and the guy she is dating have been together for 7 years and plan to get married in the next couple years. And she's a bit of a ditz.

She was like my best friend when we were waitresses together, but when I started my career and moved 45 minutes away, it was hard to get in touch with her. She came to see me once and she never returns phone calls or texts, even now that I've moved back. And whenever she does call back, it's usually after at least a week and she only talks about herself. I came to see her when I first moved back a couple months ago and her 18 year old neighbor was there and referred to her fiance as 'boyfriend person or whatever'. I look at confused and said, 'Um, you have a ring on your finger, so wouldn't he be your fiance?' and she said yes.

My friend then looked at me and said, 'I know what you're thinking. How can she find a husband at 18 and I'm 26 but can't even get a guy to commit to me?' and then laughed, which isn't what I wasn't thinking at all. When I confronted her about it, she told it was a joke and moved on to the next topic.

Then she told me she wants me to be a bridesmaid in her wedding, but since I'll be the only black one, she wants me in the middle so we look like an inside out Oreo. She also told me her dog is racist and I'm the only black person she's ever responded well to. Yes, my friend is white.

Honestly, I really don't want to be in her wedding. I think we've grown way too far apart and, frankly, she is REALLY getting on my nerves. She first asked like 3 years ago which is when I promised to do it, but now that we've gotten together a few times, I don't even want to go to it.

Should I go because of a promise a made years ago or should I just tell her no? I don't dislike her, but I'm not really feeling being in her wedding.

So about 6 months ago, I was talking to a guy and straightaway he asked me to be friends with benefits with him.

I said no, I'm not looking for anything... (I was really insecure because of my past relationship) and I really gave the impression that I have no feelings.

For the next couple of months we would talk normally as friends (it was good, I liked him as a friend) but he'd try and persuade me (baring in mind he still thinks I'm a cold person - feelings weren't a problem as far he was concerned) saying I would love it etc I held my ground and said no.

Then two months ago he asked me again if I would be his friends with benefits and I said no because I would get feelings so it's better I don't get into the mess. He said no I wouldn't get feelings, and I said well you don't know me to know that. And then it was kind of awkward because all this time he thought I wasn't the type of girl to fall for guys (*rolls eyes* why are guys stupid - even being my friend he couldn't see the walls I had up?)

Anyway I never contact guys first, so every time we spoke was when he wanted to - I didn't really care/ or let myself care tbh - so when he didn't contact me again I was nonchalant and by then I was already interested in my now boyfriend.

Okay so now this guy wants to come back.

He asks me why I haven't contacted him in over a month, and I replied saying well he didn't either. And then he said he going through things so couldn't (*what a typical excuse*) anyway then he asks me:
"Did you miss me? Or forget me?"
I replied: "Before I waste your time I should tell I'm seeing someone now"
Him: "Mehh... Unsee him."
Me: "Why"
Him: "Because. I don't need a reason"
Me: "I do"
Him: "Hmm. I liked you before"
Me: "No. You wanted to hookup. When as he likes me"
Him: "Ok then. Fuck it."

And then I asked if I should delete his number or does he want stay friends and then he says oh you're friend zoning me now?

(And I'll show the rest in screenshots)
So did he actually like me?