Search Results: forgiving a cheater

HAS ANYONE FORGIVEN A CHEATING BF/GF? WAS IS A GOOD OR BAD DECISION?

My boyfriend of 1.5 years admitted to me that he was very drunk and made out w/a girl at a bar recently. I'm glad he told me but I'm also crushed and I broke it off. I can't believe how much this hurts and how sad I am....

puck17

Xper 4 Age: 27

Can you forgive a cheater and what would it take for them to be forgiven?

Personally, I could forgive them but make them stay away from me forever.

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl's Behavior

Do you think that someone who has been hurt so bad they stopped believing in love is just going through a phase?

I am that person who got burned so bad that my belief in love just disappeared. Of course it wasn’t all at once, it took me a year and a half after the heartbreak and healing to finally come to the conclusion. By the time...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Would any of you get upset for this absurd issue about relationships?

Please tell me you do. And then these women say it is the guys fault in this case. No wonder some guys don’t want to date women if they behave this stupid during a relationship. If it was me I won't like to date either...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

“Women don’t cheat”, “men are fucking cheating pigs”. When will it be accepted that women cheat too?

I know this article is click bait, and the “research” will likely be fake but I’ve heard this many times before. There is NO justification for cheating, period. You can’t forgive me otherwise. Why is it still seen...

Buckzor

Yoda Age: 28

Am I a replacement?

I was in a relation with a girl for almost 2 years I cared for her and tbh she was the only one I loved my entire life. As time passed she suddenly said that she wants to break up, only for me to find out that she dumped...

gr0m8

Xper 3 Age: 25

What is your opinion on cheating while in a relationship and constantly forgiving the cheater?

A man and a woman were in a relationship for six years. In that duration, the man constantly flirts with others, chats others, and cheats. The woman always forgives him and takes him back. Now the woman feels like she'd...

Anonymous

(25-29)

To those who have cheated, is it harder to get into relationships/dates now?

I’ve noticed a fair amount of people say they’d never date a cheater, even if that person didn’t cheat on them. i don’t justify cheating, it’s always a bad decision but I get we all make bad choices. But it seems once...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Cheaters never change?

At the expense of getting a lot of hate, I'm ending this myth now. I have a boyfriend who I would have been with 10 years now if I hadn't cheated on him. Twice. Yes, you read that correctly. Twice. We started dating at...

Anonymous

(30-35)

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Is my boyfriend good at hiding shit from me?

Since day 1 i always had his passwords because HE wanted me to have them I only got in 3-4x to see his social media bank acct. whatever. And he so has mine but I caught a few pics of some girls boobs I looked like he took...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

The victim comes the cheater?

My boyfriend and I have been together almost two years. We just started living together 2 months ago. I have 17 yr old son. He has 50:50 custody of a 3 yr old son. His ex cheated while she was pregnant with their son and...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

How do I forgive myself for cheating?

Ok, listen. I don't nees you to bash me in about how cheating is bad. I KNOW. I was young and I had stupid defense mechanisms. I told my boyfriend about it. He told me to never do it again, but that it...

stonecloud

Xper 2 Age: 27

Family & Friends

If a former cheater is forgiven, do they deserve to get cheated back?

It was my cousin that cheated on her then boyfriend (now husband) way back in 2003. She was 19 at the time and he was 20. He caught her cheating with his friend in his house but then forgave. They worked it for years, he...

Anonymous

(36-45)

It was my cousin that cheated on her then boyfriend (now husband) way back in 2003. She was 19 at the time and he was 20. He caught her cheating with his friend in his house but then

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The 1 Time It's OK to Cheat on Your Partner

There may not be anything more detrimental to an intimate relationship than infidelity. Cheating is a surefire way to hurt your partner. It ruins trust and can lead to the end of your union. All that being said, there is...

Anonymous

(25-29)

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Do you believe in second chance for people who cheat?

If your partner cheated on you , but then he/she came back crying and saying it was a mistake and asking for second chance , can you forgive them and give them a second chance or you think who cheats once will always be a...

mikeylarcj

Xper 4 Age: 32

Society & Politics

Advice For Up & Coming Young Women (Trigger Warning) 🥒🥒🥒👌

Remember this is just advice, you can choose to ignore it in an adult way. 1. Never cheat& never be with a cheater. There is never a reason to cheat when you are in a relationship, if you are unhappy leave, tripping &...

White-American89

Xper 6 Age: 39

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Why do people take Cheaters back into their lives?

I am blown away by this , why would a Guy or Girl take someone back after they cheated on them? If i cheated and she took me back , i would think she must of cheated on me to Forgive me , so why would u want someone back...

Finchie40

Master Age: 48

Would you forgive cheating if you're sure they'd never cheat again?

is the only reason not to firgive the cheater the fear that they'll do it again? I'll have my opinion on this, but would like to hear yours as well.

Anonymous

(36-45)